My Updates. After A Long Study. =)

[Berylac]

Hi,

Howdy again! It seems that I have been inactive for the past few days/weeks and I would like to update with you what have I done. Oh?! Is this related to "Relationship" topic? It will disclose to you soon enough.

Briefly, I have been in this forum actively and inactively; in and out, months to months. Normally when I came back, I usually update with you guys what I have learnt for that recent inactivity period. Unfortunately for this time, I am not sharing anything publicly because it's nothing special, same old Esoterica.

I doubt I know some of you here. New faces and users. What I could infer is that either this forum is attracting more and more common minds or probably people who are turning into Law of Attraction is drastically increasing. People will never come across Law of Attraction unless they hit into a misfit or seeking for ultimate source to complete his or her's ardent desires. The increase of new faces and initiates might mean that the world is getting more and more negative. In any case that's my idiotic perception. Don't feel offended by me. It's a good thing that the people have come here and seek help instead of stumbling in their own frustration stupor.

Now, I don't know how many of you would judge my ability on this field. I am going to make another guide, specifically for relationship, and it has been a long time since my last extracted guide about: Hermetic Laws.


Let's cut it short.

1. What do you guys want to learn that could help your desired relationship?
2. What kind of guides you are interested of?

Regards,
Berylac

[Miracles]

Oh well,

I'd like to learn more about how to be completely happy on my own, even when I'm in a relationship with someone.
In other words, How to NOT be affected by my partner's annoying habits/actions , and not feel that they affect my life in any negative way..

Because i understand this very well (theoretically) .. but practically, when my partner gets a little bit jealous, or says something that worries me or whatever,, It just gets to me! and i don't want that!

So, I hope that made sense.. Any suggestions? 

[Berylac]

Hi,

Miracles, your wish granted.

Download: Mediafire: Love Rules
Password: berylac

Daily Instructions [Morning]:
1. Every morning when you wake up, drink a cup of warm water.
2. After that, go back to your bed, lay down and close your eyes.
3. Play the music on the link provided with either earphone or speaker.
4. Listen to it one time will do.

Daily Instructions [Night]
1. When you are going to bed, play the music on the link provided with either earphone or speaker. Since you are sleeping, I would not want you listen to it with earphone, but if you want, you can.
2. Listen to it, please do not 'loop' and go asleep.

If you want to know why, let me know, I would give you the full and lengthy explanations but it's not necessary to know. I am just busy and no time for it. =)

Regards,
Berylac

[Vicki Christina]

 
Berylac,  The music is nice and soothing.   Would love to know the messages in the music! 
Thanks, VC

[Pankti V. Kohli]

Hey,

I love this guy, I feel this positive energy when I see him, from the first time when I saw him I knew that there is something between us. I came to know about him after I made my list of ideal partner. But since he is a national athlete(very famous), some times I feel down and start thinking that I cant have him. I try to be positive most of the time but sometimes I just get my self into thinking that how can I meet him, how will it all happen it seems impossible. In my heart I know its possible but my ration mind says it is impossible.

Please help me out...

Thanx

[lise]

Thankyou for such a generous offer.

I would love a guide that helped to identify and overcome limiting beliefs. I know people on here swear by eft but I am just not keen on it - so anything other than eft would be great. Thankyou

[Berylac]

Hi,

@Vicki Christina. There's no affirmations or messages inside the musics. Enjoy. =)

@Pankti V. Kohli. Sometimes it's really hard to face the fact. For me, I already have a prediction on my ideal partner's job; Actress, Model. Maybe she would be famous and it will be too late for me by then. But anyway, those are limiting beliefs. I don't believe in "Don't believe in limiting beliefs". I know many of the people here would suggest that, you should not trust what you are limiting yourself, place your faith on it. Yes, we must place our faith to our desires but still, we also have to trust our limiting beliefs as well.

@lise2010 & Pankti V. Kohli,

lise2010. I don't study EFT.

Limiting beliefs are not being created to be destroyed by you. Limiting beliefs are not what you mustn't believe. Also, I believe that Limiting beliefs are the true "keys" to manifestation. The more you ignore your limiting beliefs, the more you are getting apart and away from goals.

I see some people kept telling themselves that: We must remove our limiting beliefs so that we can attract our desires. Honestly, they are very true and correct. Indeed, eliminating limiting beliefs are the only problem we faced, else we ought to have already manifested our desires.

For me, I place my trust in limiting beliefs and re-modify them. Whatever has been created, cannot be destroyed and can only be moved to one state to another.

This is an example:

" I have no money or education, therefore I could not attract him/her to my side! " - Limiting Belief
" I think he/she's is kind and understanding, therefore, I should not be worrying. I should create more positive vibes and not focusing on the negativity! He/She will definitely understand my situation! He/She will soon be attracted to me. " - Wrong Way!

This is the correct way: "Thank you limiting beliefs! Now, I know what I am lack of! I will improve my financial status by working hard on my occupation or enhance my educational level!" - Correct Way.


That way, you will surely move that limiting belief into an actual and desired fact. You didn't destroy it, you change the belief in another direction. Also, you turned that Belief into another goal*. Which means you would also pursue your education and financial status to abundance and turn that into your most ardent desire which comes to Relationship!

You cannot help the poor by destroying the rich.
You cannot lift the wage earner up by pulling the wage payer down.
You cannot achieve your desires by eliminating and ignoring the limiting beliefs.

*Limiting Beliefs -> Goals!

For side note! You have to perform them with actions too. =)

Hope it helps,

Regards,
Berylac

[Tinseltown]

Sooo, are you saying that if I have a limiting belief surrounding, say, the manifestation of my ex, I should just go with that, believe it and let the universe show me that that limiting belief serves a purpose? Because, hey, here comes an alternative Super Cool Lovely Bloke instead?

I may have misread, of course, and if so, apologies

Tins

[Berylac]

Sooo, are you saying that if I have a limiting belief surrounding, say, the manifestation of my ex, I should just go with that, believe it and let the universe show me that that limiting belief serves a purpose? Because, hey, here comes an alternative Super Cool Lovely Bloke instead?

I may have misread, of course, and if so, apologies

Tins

Hi,

If you have limiting beliefs and it hinders the manifestation of your ex, you should face it and render the limiting belief as well. Every difficulty is an opportunity for you to success. Instead of removing or eliminating the limiting beliefs, you should work on it and change that limiting beliefs into a fact. Accept the limiting beliefs and work on it! Trusting on yourself that you would tide over anything.

Regards,
Berylac

[Tinseltown]

No, still not computing over here.

Why would I change a limiting belief into a fact if the limiting belief does not serve what I want?

For example, if I wanted a specific car but thought for x, y and z reasons that getting that specific car was impossible, what good could come from cementing those beliefs as facts? Surely they just impede the dream that little bit more?

And aren't limiting beliefs 'facts,' anyway? Insofar as what we believe IS what happens, so the second we have a limiting belief, the only way to defy it IS to change it?

Tins

[Berylac]

No, still not computing over here.

Why would I change a limiting belief into a fact if the limiting belief does not serve what I want?

For example, if I wanted a specific car but thought for x, y and z reasons that getting that specific car was impossible, what good could come from cementing those beliefs as facts? Surely they just impede the dream that little bit more?

And aren't limiting beliefs 'facts,' anyway? Insofar as what we believe IS what happens, so the second we have a limiting belief, the only way to defy it IS to change it?

Tins

Hi,

Okay. Now I see. To aid you better, I shall answer question by question. =)

Why would I change a limiting belief into a fact if the limiting belief does not serve what I want?

No. You are not changing a limiting belief into a fact. What I mean is that if you don't want the limiting belief, then you ought to work on it. I think examples are the best explanations.

Let's say you want to reconcile with your partner. What others will do are just simply performing the affirmations, gratitude and send love thoughts. Anyway, that isn't important(*What I meant is that's not important to your question). You want to reconcile with your partner but the limiting beliefs caught in between and said that you can't because maybe you are low-educated, low in financial status or not appealing physically at all, etc. Since these are the limiting beliefs, change these limiting beliefs into something else.

Instead of mentally sending positive thoughts and visualizing getting together, you should do something even more like make yourself study and go for education, go find a job to increase your wealth and to decorate yourself into more appealing, etc. If you did that, you will find that you didn't really eliminate the limiting beliefs because you are still in the processing of performing it into other things.

So what I meant is that changing the limiting beliefs and turn it into a goal or desire fact. It's just like Dark and Light. Dark is the negative and Light is the positive. Instead of eliminating the Dark by saying I want to be Light or sending gratitude to Light, try to work yourself and be good-character and morale so that the Light could accept you. That's what I meant by turning limiting beliefs into goal-like and degrees of viewing it. Treat limiting beliefs as your feedback that you received complains from your clients or boss so that you can be improved to a better person.

Anyway, I don't really know if you could understand or not but I will try my very best. =)

And aren't limiting beliefs 'facts,' anyway?

Who said limiting beliefs are only 'facts'? Limiting beliefs can be facts. They can become not facts either. They are also opinions. They are also perceptions. They are so many things! Limiting beliefs are something decrease your positive state into negativity. Still, examples are the best explanations to differential the types of limiting belief.

This person has no money and he said:
"I have no money." - Fact, Limiting Belief. Results: He will remain poor.

This person has money but he said:
"I have no money." - False, Limiting Belief. Results: He will be poorer.

Person A is viewed Person B and thought:
"I think he is poor." - Judgement & Opinion, Limiting Belief. Results: That's what Person A thinks but that may not be true.


... ...

If you need more examples, I could give it to you.

Insofar as what we believe IS what happens, so the second we have a limiting belief, the only way to defy it IS to change it?

Yes! Change it. Change it's code! Change it with the limiting belief! Turn that limiting belief into something you want! Work on it! I gave the information above, I think it would solve the doubts and questions.

Also, if you still can't understand something or I missed out anything, let me know. I may not have time to view everything for what I have written.

Hope it helps,

Regards,
Berylac