My Story - Help this Newbie

[Dawnmum95]

I'm having major problems with my marriage We haven't had sex since last October.

I have fallen in love with another man and am trying to use the LOA to get him in my life as he makes me feel more alive and sexy than my husband ever has done. H makes me feel alive and good unlike M (my husband) Problem I don't know much about H and have only briefly spoken to him in joky form on a popular social networking site T.

I have only feel friendship towards M now and really couldn't have sex with him. H is sexy, fit, gorgeous and makes me laugh. He has more charisma than M has in his little toe. I'm not bitter toward M it's just that H is so much more fun than M could ever be.

Advice on what to do. Thankyou. I really want LOA to work to get H rather than M. H is a fictional character but he symbolises the actor who created him and it is H's alter ego that I am madly in love with. Just need to do the LOA to get the life I deserve.

Sorry if this doesn't make much sense. I'll try and clarify if anyone needs it. Hugs xx. Confused DM95 xx 

[tereza]

Have you considered re-invigorating your relationship with your husband M, first? It's very possible that the feelings you desire to get from H, you can get from your husband also. Actually, feeling sexy and alive is something you should feel yourself without relying on others for that.

[Vicki Christina]

Dawn,  There are some pretty simple books to start with for LOA reading.   I would suggest Michael Losier, Mike Dooley, and of course Rhonda Burne with The Secret and The power.   You can create what ever you want with your husband or a new person.     Do some reading and share more of what you know and want to discuss about the laws of attraction. 

[peter_93]

Yes, I think do what Tereza advice, or settle what both, you and your husband want to do next, improve and move on or end things up.

Think how you are going to continue your relationship when you are still living with unlovable husband and having the lovable one on the other side. Doing this will simple attract more trouble.
-You get the guy, while husband is still with you
-You husband hurt
-And sooner you will be hurt by your own attraction
Because Law of Attraction work toward the end result the way how it started.

Law of Attraction is fair enough, it does not create for people to use it to manipulate or terminate each other freely.

Check the books that Vicki advice, too... when you find through, you will see that the LOA experts always suggest to look back to yourself how to bring abudance to what you have now (your family, you husband/ wife, kids etc.) as priority, unless current one is ended and then you want to move on.

[Katie]

Dear Dawnmum,

Have you considered re-invigorating your relationship with your husband M, first? It's very possible that the feelings you desire to get from H, you can get from your husband also. Actually, feeling sexy and alive is something you should feel yourself without relying on others for that.

I don't know if you're familiar with Abraham Hicks teachings ; If you're new to the LOA, you're probably not. Abraham says :

"There is a very big difference in my thoughts of appreciation of my mate, and in my thoughts of what I would like to be different about my mate. And my relationship with my mate, without exception, reflects the preponderance of my thoughts. For, while I may not have done it consciously, I have literally thought my relationship into being".

And : "The greatest gift I could ever give to another is my own happiness"

As other members have said, do some self-searching and try to learn more about the LOA and why you feel "only friendship" for M. What are M's feelings for you today ? Have you discussed this crisis with M ?

Blessings !

[peter_93]

Yes! The greatest gift you can give to other is your own happiness.

Only you can make yourself happy, principle that Abraham, Mike Dooley, Dr. Joseph Murphy, Charles Hannel and many noble Law discoverer has insist for long time. Expecting happiness, is not by take it on someone but to create it within your own.

It work this way and will always, for everything weather relationship, life, money and career.

Just give a quick example:
The same work place... Mr.A hates his job while Mr.B loves his job... who makes them hates or loves their job?  --- The answer is themselves. The more he hates the more he attract reason to hates and other way round the the one who love will attract the more reason to love and being loved and so on.

Good luck with your journey to abundance...

[Believing Love]

Well Said Peter_93