melanie hi
Im sorry, but to me *friends in a committted and monogamous relationship* means A RELATIOSHIP...no matter how Ken wants to call it, lol. Ken might feel better fooling himself that hes *free*, and in this case, u should let him do it and maybe smile secretly with that....cause its the actions that count and not the words. And one of these days he may come to u and ask u for a *legal settlement* (marriage). So why do u allow urself to get hurt and dissapointed by his words? Since words are just words..the essence is completely different. Ken is living with you...eating with you...sleeping with you...giving advice to your son. And he wants to call that *monogamous friends with benefits* so be it, lol. YOU ARE in a relationship no matter how he calls it
Peace
Im sorry, but to me *friends in a committted and monogamous relationship* means A RELATIOSHIP...no matter how Ken wants to call it, lol. Ken might feel better fooling himself that hes *free*, and in this case, u should let him do it and maybe smile secretly with that....cause its the actions that count and not the words. And one of these days he may come to u and ask u for a *legal settlement* (marriage). So why do u allow urself to get hurt and dissapointed by his words? Since words are just words..the essence is completely different. Ken is living with you...eating with you...sleeping with you...giving advice to your son. And he wants to call that *monogamous friends with benefits* so be it, lol. YOU ARE in a relationship no matter how he calls it
Peace
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