UPDATE!!LIES LIES LIES....:(

[onlyhappiness]

Traceymar....so so happy for you , you are on the right track!!
So glad you had a great time , remember you deserve it!!!
Now you know your desire is on the way so try to stay detached and allow it to come , focus on you and things you love
Please continue to update us!!

[traceymar]

Thank you onlyhappiness!!!:)
That's what i intend to do, stay detached...i really hope i ll manage to do it!
today it was the first day in the last 3.5 months i woke up feeling happy and being able to fall asleep again without having that pain in my stomach!i had a lovely day with my friends and felt grateful for every single second i've spent with him and for everything i have
you can be sure i ll continue updating!!
all my love!

[belive88]

Traceymar i am sooo happy for you! I can feel your confidence through these posts! Keep us updated! Lots of live and best of LOA to you

[FindDivineTogether]

WOW!!!!!! Traceymar...this is still just soooooooooo amazing! This love story gives me goosebumps all over!


You give us all so much Hope 




God Bless!

[traceymar]

Thank you belive88 the best of LOA to all of us!!!!!

ImMarkBsWife am so happy to hear that i give you hope!its really amazing yeah!!! hope the LOA will keep working for all of us here!!

[Detached&Allowing]

I am so happy for you Traceymar!  Stick to what you say and indeed you shall have all that you desire.  Success stories are important.  They show that what we believe is true.

Much love and the very best of LOA to you!!

Goodmorning everybody!!

First of all, many thanks to simplyness and chrissy stefzilla, you are right about the tittle!i just kept the one i had and added update cos it was related to the first post! anyway, am changing the tittle now!!

well, as i promised to all of you i would keep you posted! i got back yesterday, much calmer and happier
I had 4 amazing days with him! nothing really changed but i felt that he still loves me and i mean a lot to him! he was very affectionate, always holding my hand, kissing me out of nowhere, hugging me tight, always calling me ''my love'' etc. we went for long romantic walks, dinners, drinks, he even took me shopping
we had agreed not to discuss our problems... well,in the end we did, but only a little and while being in the arms of each other and not trying to find solutions..we said that we ll give it some more time and we ll see what will happen!
we both had tears in our eyes when we said goodbye at the airport...my flight was earlier than his so he stood there till i disappeared waving goodbye, sending me kisses and touching his heart to show me that he keeps me there...
last night we texted each other and he said that these 4 days were perfect and he had a great time! it was the same for me and i know that more great days are about to follow!
i now feel more relaxed and ready to let go cos i trust that the universe will work in our favour... i asked for this trip and i got it...i asked and believed that we would have a great time and we did...so i now believe that we ll be together sooner or later!
what i intend to do now is let go, stop obsessing about it and avoid contacting him. i told him that i would stop contacting him in one of our conversations and he cried and said ''do whatever you feel you have to do but please don't tell me this now, you know that if i manage to face my fears, even if you have moved on and you are with someone else i will try to win you back''
I really believe we were meant to be...its been more than 4 years since we started and every time we get together we both act like 2 people who are crazy in love!!!
THANK YOU SO MUCH UNIVERSE!

I also want to thank all of you here for following my posts, encouraging me and sending me positive vibes!
The best of LOA to all of you!!!
xxx

[simplyjess]

WOW traceymar, that's amazing! Thank you for sharing your progress. We can all use some positive vibes from stories like yours

Thank you thank you thank you!

[traceymar]

Hey everyone...is funny how things can change...
somedays ago i posted an update here after my meeting with the one i loved...i was so happy...but today everything changed....i discovered that i have a serious infection...i didnt have anyhing with anybody else in the last 4 years so i immediately knew that i got it from him....i called and asked him if he had something with someone else...he refused....i explained him what happened to me and begged him to be honest so he admited that since we broke up he had sex several times with a workmate...i felt so betrayed...cos before the trip i asked him to be honest and i told him that  if he had something with someone else i couldnt accuse him cos we were not together but i'd like to know cos if he did i couldnt go on this trip.i couldnt do it....once again he said that he didnt...now he said that he lied cos if he told me the truth i would be very hurt and that he knew he would lose me forever...he cried all the time and said that he knows i cant believe him but he really loves me and not a day has gone by that he hasnt thought about us...i told him to delete my number and consider me dead cos he doesnt deserve me...i dont want to know anything about him,,i hate him...why????why???why he had to do this to me? thats what i get from the universe from having faith and being patient???well thanks but no thanks universe (

[Tulip]

traceymar,

Nothing is ever in vain. The Universe can foresee the best for us in life. Firstly, you have made mistakes in your life, now so has he. It doesnt mean you've done anything wrong or the Universe has done you wrong. These situations are sometimes unavoidable but its how you deal with them. He should have been honest with you but if ever I got back with my ex and he asked me to be honest with him about if I'd been with anyone, I would lie. Truth is I've been with one guy although we never slept together we have done other things. Now my reason for lying would be 'It would hurt him so much, he may think about it all the time and this other guy didnt even mean anything to me' If my ex slept with another girl, to tell you the truth, I'd rather not know. I feel it would jeopardize things and your boyfriend is with YOU now and no one else. He lied in fear of losing you. I cant even imagine how this must feel for you but the worst thing you can do is blame the Universe. God knows how often I did that only for the Universe to bring me to a situation where I was on my knees full of guilt for ever doubting it. I now thank the Universe for my hurdles in life, thanking it for giving me situations to build my strength and my character.
And just to let you know, I've never stopped loving my ex (its been a year of separation now) but my reasons for this other guy were to try and move on, to forget about my ex and I got sucked into that 'honeymoon' period. I regret it, your boyfriend probably does too but people do these kind of things, especially when there in love. If I got that love back I wouldn't jeopardize it for the world- I just wouldnt see the point of putting images of me and another man in my exes head. But I get that its not so much him doing it, its because he lied to you. Maybe the Universe wants you to see you are with someone who didnt really respect you enough to be honest, a coward. At this point, you just dont know. Take some time for yourself, allow yourself to think of something other than this i.e. your job or planning a vacation or even pay more attention to a hobby. Allow your mind to clear so you can be rational and ask the Universe for help, it WILL direct you.

[beautifulmesss12sc]

Tracy is right .. dont be hasty and make a bad decision ... we are all human and we have needs .. i love my guy .. i mean I LOVE HIM... but i have been with another ... if he asked i wld prob tell him BUT he broke up with me and i knw he has been with others .. jst something u have to accept ... dont let all you have done be in vain .. he is human and a male at that!!.. hes professing his love to you .. do u know what id do for that???

He wants you!

[RealCrimsonDynamo]

Tracy..I am sorry this happened to you.  I'm not trying to dogpile but you made making this trip contigent on if he had not had sex with anyone.  He should have been honest with you but in a way you made it harder for him to do so. That is no excuse and no slight to you.  In all ways we have to try not to control these people we are trying to attract and we can't try to punish them when they don't act like we would have liked.  That always backfires.  I know from experience.  I try to influence but to never control.  It's hard I know..I struggle with that all the time.  Now for him....he put your life at risk.  He really did and for that you have every right to be angry at him.  Just use what you have learned from this experience.  If not with him then with the next man. 

[traceymar]

i just feel so betrayed guys...cos even a long time before the trip i asked him sometimes and he always said that he didnt do anything,that he couldnt be with another girl, that he loved me bla bla bla...if it was once i could understand, i'd say that it was a moment of weakness, maybe he was drunk or find any other excuse...but he said that he started sleeping with her some days after i left when i visited him on xmas and that was when we broke up...since then all the times we talked on the phone or on skype, he was crying, telling me that he is trying to face his fears about moving to my country...now i find out that while i was thinking that he was having a hard time, he was sleeping with another girl...well it must have been really hard for him...!!
anyway, i quit...LOA is not for me...
thanks for all your support everyone...hope you are luckier than me...

[Tulip]

You've quit bettering your life because of a man? Understand people have faced harder situations and kept their faith, please dont give up on yourself and what your life can be because he is a liar. Thats his character flaw, not yours. Men are like this (some, not all!) and sometimes all of us try and convince ourselves that our feelings for a 're-bound' are stronger then they actually are in order to suppress the pain of losing our real hearts desire.
This is why its important to love yourself and depend only on you. That way, anything anyone could do to hurt you wont affect you, because you wont let it. Betrayal from a loved one is a hard burden to bare but the truth always comes out for reasons which are always so unclear at the time. I was in your EXACT position a year ago. Today, through faith and self growth, I now thank the Universe for where I am because I can only imagine how unhappy I would have been married into my exes family- this is something I couldnt see for the 4 years we were together and 9 months after our breakup.
I still havnt manifested much and life has been a struggling since but my faith keeps me going and I am patient in my growth because I know I'm being guided. You are foolish if you let a lying man determine your faith and happiness

[onlyhappiness]

Traceymar,

 I can feel your hurt , anger , frustration but do not give up if you can't trust the one you were attracting that's understandable but do not blame it on the Law of Attraction. The LOA is working , it did attract him back , i know it's hard to understand but did you really expect him to be celibate until you were together again? I am attracting my love back and i can tell you with out a shadow of a doubt that he is/ has been with at least one person. The Universe is doing what it needs to do to bring our desires to us and our job is to know that whatever is happening is for a reason we don't see the whole picture nor would we want the responsibility. Yes he should not have lied about it and therein lies the issue i guess with trust. If you want to let him go and attract someone better than i say great The Law of Attraction does work though and i wouldn't let this disappointment stop you from attracting all you can into your life.
Sending you my positive vibes , whatever you decide.

[truelove]

Hi Traceymar.
I am so sorry this happened to you and that you are feeling this way. I know it may take some time before you are no longer mad and hurting.
But I do have to say, as others of said, you can't blame LoA for this.
You wanted something and you got it, whether it is good for you or not is not the Universe's fault. If you had said, "Universe please bring me a love that is for my highest good" then I think you would have the right to be angry, but this was your choice and your desire for yourself. You know the saying be careful what you wish for, you just might get it. Well here it is I guess...

It's like saying- well I wanted the chocolate and the Universe supplied the chocolate and now I really angry at the Universe because the chocolate mad me fat.

You are still responsible for the decisions you make. If you want things to work out perfectly for you then give your desire for love over to the Universe and then see what happens.

You can't give up on LoA Tracey, it's not possible- it's like giving up on gravity. But what I do recommend if you are not going ACTIVELY persue your desires is that you just ask the Universe to bring all that is for your highest and best and then stay in a calm state of allowing and watch it all unfold.

I know you won't be in a place to hear me right now, but maybe one day soon you will. I know I sound harsh, but I'm giving you some tough love here and i hope you will understand why.

I really truely hope you feel better soon and can start moving on to bigger and better things for yourself.
All the best to you!!