hope that stefzilla will show up here or any other man
Crazy you don't need any other man when im around. . Well itís kind of funny or sad that I have lived through most of what people post on here. Before I start I was the guy in this situation, so yea I know what he feels.
My advice is let it go, I know its hard and right now it hurts but trust me the sooner you get past it the better. That other woman was nothing but a rebound, and the fact that she has STDís should prove enough to you that she gets around pretty easily. He made a mistake, im sure she was all over him and guess what we all have our moments of weakness and things we regret. He feels terrible, as I did, trust me I cried many nights over it because of the guilt and shame I felt. Not only because I hurt someone I love but because I knew I made a very bad choice. My girlfriend ( this was many years ago) at the time forgave me, but it was something that always came up when we fought and really it dragged our relationship down for years. SO if you care about the guy, donít torture him with this, because trust me he feels as low as you can get. If you guys get back together is really up to you, and if you decide you love him them forgive him. He made a bad choice, she was a rebound and a sl*t so donít think of her as anything more than that. As for the std (which I have a feeling I know) donít worry about it, yes it never goes away but 99.9% of the time you will not be affected by it whatsoever.
Anyways my advice, and no I donít have it lol if someone is wondering.