manifesting my dream guy(something odd happened..advice =(

[Marianna9351]

I have been receiving several mind boggling signs from the universe  (thank you universe ), that I am on the right path towards manifesting my dream guy.  A couple of weeks ago, a buddy of mine said she wanted to introduce me to a friend of her husbands.  Needless to say he did not fit my soul-mate list at all (not even close ), nor did he resemble in any way the way I am visualizing him to look(he looks like my avator picture ).  Everything was way off.  Any ideas as to why I manifested someone who was not my type, yet receiving signs from the universe that he is on the way….thanks a bunch….

[tereza]

Maybe he arrived as a source of contrast, he was someone who showed up to clarify what it is you do want.  Maybe he showed up because you aren't quite ready for a relationship yet, so someone super undesirable showed up, so you wouldn't have to get involved with someone. I know for me, I tried a general soulmate search a few years ago and instantly manifested a guy who turned out to be a douchebag. Looking back, I realize that a part of me wasn't really looking for a soulmate, but something short term. So I manifested a guy who on the surface matched what I wanted, but also wasn't long term material.

Anyway, since you've got signs that someone is on the way, I'm sure you'll meet someone else pretty soon that is closer to what you're looking for.

[Queen Of Light]

Maybe he arrived as a source of contrast, he was someone who showed up to clarify what it is you do want.

True... this could help you go BAM! when you DO see the guy you want. Or perhaps this guy is meant to lead you to your dream guy somehow. BUT it would be amusing if you posted on this thread in a few months saying that this guy DID end up being your soul mate! 

[57angel]

Marianna, am in the same boat with you, I am also in the process of attracting my soul mate too Like you, I also meet few men who didn't match everything in my soulmate list. Just let it be, the Universe is showing us first those that are not match and how well we are not to settle for anything less. Don't feel bad, instead continue what you are doing! We will let the Universe surprise us on the how and the when our soulmate will appear in our lives. Our task is to keep ourselves so happy and positive with an incredible feeling of love for ourselves and for others as we savor our waiting Good luck to us! Our soulmates are on their way

[Michellebelle]

This may not be your dream guy, but maybe you're HIS dreamgirl! I had a guy that I was "no way, no how- not gonna go out with this guy" about and he chased me for 2 years. He was never embarrassed or acted weird that I rejected him. Well, a funny thing happened when I had too much wine one night and I kissed him- sparks! And well, we fell in love- lol! And he is not at all my type, so I thought... Your subconscious may be asking for one thing and you may be verbalizing another- make sure they are in sinc with one another ) Good luck!

[tereza]

lol this thread is making me giggle. 

I especially like the idea that you might be his dreamgirl! It reminds me of an episode of Sex and the City where Charlotte ends up falling for her chubby balding lawyer. He was totally not what she wanted physically, but then turned out be the love of her life. *sigh* They were too cute!

Anyway, that's not to say that you're going to end up with that guy you met Marianna! Sometimes duds are just duds.

[Marianna9351]

  Thanks a bunch again 4 everyone's comments(very enlightening ).  I have been a tad down because of this little bump in the road(and my missed opportunities from the past keep haunting me), but I have manage to keep my vibraions at a good level.  Driving home from work I wished 4 a sign from the universe that I am still on the right path.  For some reason after asking 4 the sign, I turned my head to the right and glanced at the advertisment on a bus stop saying 'Will you marry me'', with the picture of a huge engagement ring(in all the years I have been driving by this bus stop, I never once looked at the advertisements). It made me so happy.

[57angel]

That is indeed a sign Marianna....we all look forward to seeing your success story here

[Marianna9351]

@57angel....I also look forward to reading about ur success story also....sending positive vibes 2 u...

[alliswell]

I am also trying to manifest  my dream guy..would you all please guide me with the steps i should follow so as to
meet my hearts desire...

also i want to ask how do you all get signs from the universe...i never get... or may be i am not applying the LOA correctly...really want help from you people...

Thanks...