Manifested a new man into my life, but beginning to feel resistance.

[Panda]

Long story short, I gave my vibration a complete 180 and manifested a new man into my life with relative ease. On paper he fits pretty much every description to a t. We have been going on really fun and nice dates and ive been very detached about the whole engagement. I have also manifested a new lady friend and a camping trip, both of which I had asked for.

Now, my roommate set me up with this man through a distant meeting/ connection. Last night I return home and she apparently received information about his thoughts on our time being spent together. He said e was really enjoying our time
Together and really liked me but.... Was unsure how I felt about him and wished I would make more plans for us.

This would not be such a bi deal except making plans is something I can struggle with and things and ideas o things o do will often just come to me without any pressure. Now I am feeling a pressure and I am ready to throw my hands in the air and move along to the next person. What are your thoughts? Why was I given this information? Something is telling me this is all wrong now and I am wondering if I am just being too sensitive.

Any advice appreciated.

[Mr Brightside]

I don’t really understand what the problem is. You found a guy you like, who fits everything you wanted, he wants to see you again and make more plans to spend time together. He likes you but doesn’t know how you feel, so he is hoping you take more of a role in the relationship. I don’t see what the problem is here, especially severe enough for you to just give up and leave the guy. Why don’t you just make some basic plan to meet up and see a movie or go for dinner, something simple, and go from there.

On the other hand if you dont really want to even make any effort in the relationship maybe its better to leave it, just my opinion

[Ginny]

It does sound like you're making something out of nothing, which maybe means that this isn't the relationship for you and you're looking for reasons to end it.

Stop worrying - if you don't want this guy, you don't have to have him. It's all up to you. If you want him, relax and accept him. If you don't, stop worrying and know that the right man will be on his way to you soon.

[Love is here]

Are you sure that you like him as much as he likes you? Is it possible that you got everything that you thought you wanted and now that its here, you arent as into it as you thought you'd be? I only ask cause thats the only scenario that would make sense if you are having concerns. If you do really like him, seriously that is a good sign that he wants you to take more of an active role in the relationship. If you are feeling pressure about planning things, maybe you should just talk to him about it. Tell him you really like him but this is all new to you. Im sure he'll understand and as long as you really like him, he wont care too much about you not being the initiator just yet.

[57angel]

Just enjoy spending time with him, and know him a lot better more, as you also know more of yourself when you are with him. If you are happy with him, then there is no reason why you will not take this new relationship and enjoy every minute of it. If you aren't happy with him, then I am sure the Universe is always there for you - to give what you ask for, the kind of relationship that will truly make you happy

[Marianna9351]

It is important to realize that not every potential partner the universe sends u will be the right one.  IMO u don't sound 2 into him.  U are on the right path towards manifesting ur soul-mate...

[dreamland]

It is important to realize that not every potential partner the universe sends u will be the right one.  IMO u don't sound 2 into him.  U are on the right path towards manifesting ur soul-mate...

How will we know if they are ''the right one''?
I am kinda in a similar situation and I don't know what to do... maybe we have limiting belief that if we don't take this chance the better man won't come... I too have manifested the man from my vizualizations and it is simply scary how accurate everything is.... if I didn't have everything written down I would think I was going crazy...
I am curious how this story resolves...

To the author...
Are your doubts gone? Will you let this man go or will you stick with him?

[Marianna9351]

@dreamland....how r things going with u and ur chap, ur not sure if he the one?

[dreamland]

@dreamland....how r things going with u and ur chap, ur not sure if he the one?

Hey Marianna ,

things are stagnating, I have no idea what path should I take. The connection with him is beyond my imagination and I have never felt this way before, yet physical attraction is just mild (for both parties).
I find it shallow to end things for such a superficial reason and I am afraid this won't happen again. He is kinda waiting for my answer and I am stucked... I simply have no idea what to do and what I trully want.

[Marianna9351]

Hey Dreamland,
  I was somewhat in the same situation.  When I first started LOA I attracted a guy who had everything on my list, BUT there was no physical attraction 4 neither of us.  Even if he was interested I would not have pursued it.  IMO physical attraction is important.  Manifested another guy shortly after who looked like my visualizations but did not realize it tilll he left my work(missed an opportunity).  After a long hiatus(due to bad things that happened 2 me), I am back on the LOA bandwagon.  I have now made it very clear 2 the universe that there must be a strong pyhsical attraction between the two of us.
If u decide not to pursue a relationship with this chap, just remember that the universe will send you someone who is a better match in all area's.  Congrats on manifesting this guy.  Any manifestation that is close 2 what u desire is a fantastic accomplishment on ur part.  Good work...(hat's off 2 u)

xxx 

[jtut21]

Congratulations in attracting the man you intended and apparently very clearly. There could be two possibilities under the circumstances. The first possibility is that you are creating resistance yourself because of old ideas about "planning." The Universe has caused you to expand into the growth of this new relationship and is expecting that you will continue the growth. Start to relax about the entire relationship because even if you do move on to another person you won't want to carry that vibe with you. The second possibility is that perhaps he came into your life to create more clarity for what you desire and now you need to add the new clarity to what you intend for the next person. I would suggest that you follow through with the first possibility to explore all of the options there.

To your happiness,

Josh
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