Author Topic: LOA Worked but I messed up. Need Help Please! (Read 228 times)

Nisha86 · « **on:** December 29, 2011, 08:16:07 AM »

I'll try to keep this short and to the point. I've been practicing LOA for quiet a while now. I manifested an amazing girl into my life who lives halfway across the country. Her and I connected from the very beginning and it just continued to add on when we met in person and spent the weekend together. We were together for about 3 months and she was everything I asked for. The problem was that she was having career problems which caused her stress. It started affecting our relationship which put a lot of doubts in my mind, which caused me to unintentionally manifest the end of our relationship.

I put up a little fight(no begging or any of that) but just enough that I knew that I at least tried. She insisted on us being friends and that all this was bad timing. I decided to take some time away and put LOA right back into action to get her back. I emailed her about a week later agreeing to be friends so at least I could have open communication. Also, I told her I was okay with the break up and I had no hard feelings. She quickly replied and was glad we could be friends and was happy that I was doing well. Neither of us really made much of an effort after that, I just gave her space and just waited on her come to me. A friend a few days ago insisted I reach out to her at least for Christmas and see how shes doing. I did that and we actually sent a few emails back and forth that day and things seemed to be going great. I decided to take it slow and to stay detached and so I responded to one of her emails the next day. Its been a few days now and I've yet to hear back from her. I know I haven't had any bad feelings or anything to ask for this. I'm just confused now and starting to feel bad about all this. Its very uncommon of her and also things were going great in our emails (joking around, nothing serious). I'm trying to stay positive but its getting to be hard.

I've been doing all sorts of LOA techniques. I guess I'm just looking for words of encouragement. If someone thinks I'm doing something wrong, I welcome your input. A friend of my suggested that she might be playing hard to get, but only she knows.

Nisha86 · « **Reply #1 on:** December 30, 2011, 08:16:40 AM »

I just wanted to update everyone.

She finally replied to the email and we're slowly but surely continuing. I did my hardest to stay positive through it all and will continue. Just don't give up! Believe and feel that you have whatever you want already and it'll make its way to you. It won't be long til I'm planning a weekend with my girl to spend some time with her. Reading through this forum has helped me a lot.

2thetop · « **Reply #2 on:** December 30, 2011, 08:24:18 AM »

hey nisha.......its good to hear the positive up date. just something i noticed from the first post. watch your expectations. relax and go with the flow and just be grateful for each step as it comes. you expected her to respond in your time slot and she didnt, so you got down. i just point that out so you can keep it in mind down the road as you continue to progress.

once again, awesome job and thanks for the post. keep us updated on how things are.