Author Topic: LOA and reality: how to behave IN PERSON? (Read 1271 times)

Thumbelina :) · « **Reply #15 on:** November 17, 2010, 05:44:24 PM »

Strong visualizations, don't need a reality check at all.. i can say that, through my personal experience.. my ex's seeing someone else now, but in my visualizations, we're living together, very happily... and when i'm into my visualization i don't realize that i keep saying these things as if they're happening then.. and it's an amazing experience.. and when i get out of the process, i just don't feel the need for a reality check.. because i just keep living inside that beautiful world... i feel him all around me, and when we talk in 'reality' and he's talking about some girl.. i just avoid the conversation or change the topic.. . because, it doesn't bother me at all.. At the end, i know all these females wouldn't matter, all that matters is me and him..
So, as the secret states.. do every silly thing you want to.. in the visualization process to make yourself feel that you'd already there.. and you'll be.. no matter how silly it'd sound to the world, how bad do you want it?
You don't have to worry how you'll behave.. just ignore the things you dont want to see,hear and feel that's all... and make strong fantasies.. make your fantasy world so strong that you would never wanna come out of it.. and when you step out of it, you're dream's manifested
That's what i do...

UpLOAding · « **Reply #16 on:** November 17, 2010, 06:48:58 PM »

Makes sense. Most of the time during my "Success Story" with LOA, I did exactly this way, though I never distinguished between "fantasy" and "reality"... I just called it "my reality".

The main point that arises:
I believe that if we really want to believe in our own reality as strongly as possible, we MUST reject that of others. we MUST put our own moral standards, values, world-view, approaches, etc. above those of others!
It may sound very unethical to some people (especially "moral relativists) but that's the only way I think it is possible to fully apply LOA and live according to the reality we wish.

Don't you think so?

Thumbelina :) · « **Reply #17 on:** November 18, 2010, 10:15:35 AM »

@Uploading...yes!! totally, its like your own world... with things you want, people you love, things you wanna see.. its a world, where the sun rises and sets with your permission.. and a world, from where you'd never wanna come out ever!! Then, the reality wouldn't make a lot of difference, would it?

UpLOAding · « **Reply #18 on:** November 23, 2010, 02:51:18 PM »

Yes, that's what I meant!

I just thought for some people this may be incompatible with the idea of "respecting other people's reality". Why would you need to respect other people's reality when your own world is what matters?