I think the point is that we need to be happy with ourselves and let go and let God......handle the rest.
Let our loved ones go and detach from them so they find a shift in energy and they in turn start looking for us, they start coming to find us.
In my case, I am emotionally and spiritually attached to my guy to the point that his energy effects me, if he is feeling badly and is stressed and gets a headache, I get a headache too....if he gets a stomach ache, I get a stomach ache also, anxiety attack....yep I get those too!! I knew I had this connection to him and I used it as a gauge for how his current relationship was going, yes, it made me feel better because I knew they were having problems but the real problem was that by staying connected to him I was actually contributing to him staying with her.
I have no doubt that he can feel my energy of being attached even if sub-conscientiously and like I said he has a negative relationship with her and she with him, so my connection to him sort of feeding into their situation making it maybe a bit more palatable.
But I take it away.....ALL THE WAY AWAY.......and WHAM O........You have two people stuck feeding each other negative crap until they finally get sick of all the bullshit and part ways for good!!
Plus you have me, no longer being effected physically or emotionally by his negative energy or hers! It's a win-win!!
I am so happy, I can hardly stand it!!
Let the fireworks begin!!