Lessons of love from the most successful relationships

[UpLOAding]

You have already created relationship and you have already blown it away.
You can't create relationship from someone who does not want to build relationship with you.

Well, if we created it, there was a reason why. If it got blown away, there was another reason why. Then why should there be no reason for someone to want to build it again?

I am just saying the more you try to reconcile, no matter how damn nice you are to her, the more she is getting uncomfortable. Hard to understand? No worry, try it see it.

Peter, there are 100 different ways of "trying to reconcile". Are you saying that there exists absolutely no way of intentionally behaving in a way that can lead to reconciliation?
There can be 1000s of different behaviors.
Are you saying that each of those individual different behaviors will make her uncomfortable?

Then why has she been more comfortable talking to me during the previous week?
It means, logically, that I did something that made her more comfortable around me.

One of those things was probably that she saw me while training the new entry colleagues at the company and felt curious by it.

So, logically, there should be such steps, behaviors and actions that will make her increasingly  more comfortable and curious to be with me, right?

[UpLOAding]

A purpose that you need this woman. You can't hide this purpose, we can interpret that.

All I am saying is that for me it is truly more important to build a relationship, as in being together as man and woman, or at least being friends that interact with each other like we did before the incident.

All unconditional love is good, but if there can be a way (and there should be) to actually make that love TANGIBLE, as in, actually being together, in a RELATIONSHIP, why not pursue that?

[peter_93]

People can like each other and they can fade away from each other and they can come back to like each other again. Yes, it is possible to resume things. Patient is necessary, not day or month, some time years.

This is what happen to my fellows' stories of reunion exactly same as yours case - one were about to like each other, something happened, woman misunderstood and ran away, another one was rejected his woman every time when he approach, but now both stories were married now-- to the same woman that turned them down.

I already posted this quite few times in the forum, so I won't say them again in full.

One thing this stories of my fellow told us that these guys are dedicate their heart with true love to their women unconditionally and timeless, they don't even have a chance o build relationship on daily basis cos they were not work the same place like yours, and that why I mentioned misconception of applying thought can lead to wrong direction even you are physically closer to woman than success fellows' samples.