Law of Attraction & Perfect Relationship

[Teresa]

Hi 
I am new to all this concept, although I read a lot. I feel I am "blocked" in some aspects though... I wish someone could help me out with this doubt I have 
I am married to a guy who lives overseas. He was accused of something he didn't do ( long story), so he can't leave his country and join me here. He is not arrested or anything like that. For months we talked through messenger and now... he stoped talking. I guess he gave up on fighting for what he wants in life. He feels forgotten for many reasons. I cannot join him there because I am still waiting for a visa ( now I know it will never be issued).
I love him but...I feel we will never be together .
What should I do? Is LOA so powerful to join us one day? Should I just try to forget my husband?
I am feeling so lost in all this...

[Sweet Spirit]

Teresa,
Welcome to the forum! Glad you are with us!

LOA is VERY powerful, but the first thing you must do is get rid of the negative and limiting belief that you will never be issued a visa. If you think that, then so it shall be. Secondly, get rid of the negative feeling that you will never be together. If you want to be together then ask the universe to reunite you with the feeling that it will happen. Yours is a situation unlike those who are trying to attract a relationship, because you already have that relationship. You may not be with him right now but since the situation has nothing to do with the two of you breaking up then the only thing you have to work on is getting that visa or him being able to come back home. Don't give up, (or worse forget him) if you love him. Your love is powerful enough to LOA this situation. Send him your unconditional love and put that love for him out there to the universe with the grateful feeling that you will be with him soon.

Read the posts here about how to attract your desires. This forum has taught me so much about the Laws of Attraction and how to change my thoughts and feelings and I have manifested a happy relationship and an abundance that may not have been possible without applying the principals of LOA and the guidance I received from my beautiful friends on this forum. We are all here for you so stay with us, participate often, and message any one of us if you need guidance.

Love and blessings to you dear! Just feel and know everything will work out, and IT WILL!!!!

[Bring In The Bling]

I agree completely.

Just keep believing!

The Universe does know the quickest route to get you to your destination like a built in GPS.Thank you for this post. Wonderful insight!

Cheers
Bring In The Bling
Mr. Positive
http://bringinthebling.weebly.com

[zhqianugg]

Do you have any more info on it?

[Mariposa, (KnJ)]

More info on what?  Please be more specific.  Thanks!!

[nzhangqian]

This is so unique. So please keep on

[daydreambeliever25]

I am in on-off relationship for years - I was 18 when I first met him and he is 5 years my elder. First time I saw him i didnt take much notice, it was more of a night out thing with same gangs but never kissed nothing. He used to drive me around back then when I was chasing another guy. He would be listening to me on about this other guy so I never looked at him this way. (by way I never got that other guy either). He must of managed to get my number back then so he texted at my exams to wish me luck(shocked didn't no him at all like but that is how he got my attention). After exams went out with the girls and that night I met him(all this happened in space of year). Then i got really attracted to him and was chasing again- meeting other guys but keeping an eye on him. Never thought i would ever chance with him really. We became chat buddys on phone, I did most the phoning but then he started to call too and when I look back now I realise that we first falling inlove then. I knew i was falling inlove but he was so mysterious but eventually told me nice things and we met when we were out with friends but nothing planned. I was so inlove Id follow him to pubs and he pretended to have a laugh with us but wouldnt show he was interested. He never let on to his friends that he talked to me everyday and close we were. It was a secret that all my side new about but his didnt. So i looked like a nutter running after him. Funny now looking back at the innocence but i didnt know any better. He was my first in bed and maybe we had sex again if we met random nites out. I just did alot chasing.

BANG! then it was college time, I said i was going to America with friends for the summer. I was going out the nite to say goodbye to friends at end of term. He said hed collect me. First time meeting ever and he told me that night that he loved me. I jumped on him of course and we dated and we were inlove. He was very upset when i was leaving and i was leaving knowing he loved me. After a while in America I was afraid id lose him so I rang everyday- maybe a couple times even a day to talk, im very annoying with phone and this wrecked his head. It was too much attention for him and then leaving america i wasnt sure was he still there but when I got back we had relationship. He brought me everywhere with him and i find now that i love being with his friends, i love been seen with him. i never thought i could get him and couldnt believe when i did and gave this vibe too that he was the catch not me.
anyway i think we always work around his routine, etc its all bout him in my head. SO anyway he broke up with me- and i never really lost contact with him since. After few months One girl that met him for like maybe few weeks i had them married off and I was on phone to him then pleading not to meet her again and then he turns out he just met her in bar at weekend and never brought her on date and i was at home crying over nothing.

Maybe a year later, I knew I loved him but had to do something so I started meeting very tall attractive guy that i brought to pubs where ex would be out and he never showed arite his friends that he was jealous but eventually texted saying happy you met someone. I never texted back which is unusual and then he started calling pleading me to listen to him and to meet up. God I really enjoyed all the texts and having control and just to know after all the unknown that he still loved me was just unreal feeling. So i did meet up with him and he said he loved me and wanted me to go wedding and i did. and we   broke up again really for the same reasons me losing control and being annoying with too much ringing etc.

So hope yer getting the gist of it. I have settled for friends with benefits for years, being promised that hel get back with me and we were recently trying again but I made him go to a wedding and made he try again and he does and then i give the vibe the fear of losing him cuz he is GOD after all ahaha and he brought me out on dates and we get on so well, i dont understand why he doesnt see it, when were dating I kept asking him was i his girlfriend and he say im just trying to sort out my feelings but id keep asking until I pushed him away. He saying now again he doesnt want to be in it and he doesnt know what he wants etc etc Story of my life. I am here now as i believe in the secret and loa and its worked with me for things but never knew i could try with the person I love. at the moment he saying no, im waiting like a fool and we have holiday booked in march and I hope hel go as my friend even but he saying no or his favorite word maybe. This is mess probably but my first time leaving it out,thats 6 years summary for ye. I want to know is there any hope for me to get the relationship I deserve after all this mess.

From reading advice i see that we keep going into the past relationship ending and reuniting and back again. I terrified this time its over. I know the man loves me I know it everyone says in the end it will all work out but why cant I see it. I dont want chase my love away like I have been doing. Please please helP!

[Sneha]

A link which explains relationships in a simple way :
http://maritzaparra.hubpages.com/hub/The-Law-of-Attraction-in-Relationships

[Ms. Beautiful Smile]

Hii...
My story is like this....

Me and the guy i love we dont want to get married for 2 yrs. and last month due to some circumstances we had to tell our parents about our relationship
We both dont want to get married without our parents agreement for the marriage as welll but our parents are strictly against our marriage....
Can LOA solve this problem of ours...
If yes...Then how??

Pls help

[Baxter4ever2]

right now im in the perfect relationship
and im happy, although sometimes I get shy to aproch him first, im still working on it though.