law of attraction and free will

[Sneha]

hi Moderators,

I am a firm beleiver of the LOA .I  have manifested a  lot of thingspracticing it, but my current manifestation desire is to have a romantic relationship with a very gud guy friend of mine.
i really like him and iam feeling a different  very strong kind  of energy with postive emotions t myself that we will be together in the coming days and are companions for life.
I wanted  to know if it ok to visualize someone with myself.would it hamper there free will? i want to love and this person...why should free will be a deterent?please advise.

Thank you.

[the_pranjal]

hi'......sneha......wats wrong in visualizing someone with yourself...after all u want something good for yourself ......here comes the 'I' factor in the concept of visualization...something intimate and emotional...keep wishing and the faith with patience. LOA will bless you......moreover, ur visual is private it remains in you..till loa turns it into reality so no risk as well....the base of a relationship is the free will of both the side....it will not hamper coz u r not gambling you are attracting.....BEST WISHES....

[Marianna9351]

In my opinion, if you use the LOA to attract a specific person, you will turn blue in the face.  If they feel absolutely nothing for you, I can’t see the Universe taking away their free will and bringing them to you.  If they are in alignment with you, then it will work.  JMHO.

[schenderson22]

@Marianna9351- You may want to give my advice a try.  You would be surprised how things work out.  - Physically we cannot change the behavior of another but when you have an "attitude of gratitude" the Universe will give you exactly what you want.  People do exactly that.  They visualize themselves happy with whomever and grateful for each moment.  That is what attracts the person in question back.  From this point these people who have brought their loved ones back in their lives will continue to be grateful for what they have and what they yet to physically see in their lives.

Granted we have open forums and you can share your opinion.  However, people are here b/c they have experienced the power of the Law of Attraction.  It may be more helpful to you to ask how people do versus criticizing and stating things are impossible.

[Sneha]

hey thnx prajnal and schenderson22, it gives me hope after reading ur posts..yesterday night i read something which says if u try to attract a specific person u r doomed for failure but after reading ur posts in the mrning today i feel rejuvenated and eager to be loved by my guy and myself too.
i just wanted to make my point across that there s a difference in the case if u love some one and other case being u obssess over the person and hate the person towards whomhe is currently inclined.i have faced both situations with different people, hence i knw.

this time its like i know my guy likes some one else but i have no issues...infact i respect the gal but its just tht i feel  iam united with this guy andhave immmense love for him and that we are companions for life  so i visualize a happy andromantic relationship with him.
Guys please advise if u think iam wrong..thnx:)

[loveofabundance]

@Sneha, you are on the right path.  There is nothing wrong with wanting to be with someone you love.  People who bring up the free will issue do not understand.  When you love someone, you ONLY want them with you if it is of their own free will.  Using LOA is so much less intrusive, over-bearing and ego driven then calling them, texting them, when they are showing reluctance.  That's the whole point.  just because they are showing reluctance, it doesn't mean that they don't care and aren't open to exploring a relationship with you.  it's okay to give someone their space and let them come to you on their own.  It doesn't mean you cant encourage them and using LOA is a great way to do this.  Here, we communicate with them on the soul level and when they start to come closer in the physical wordl we welcome them gently.

[Sneha]

hi loveofabundance,
Thnx a lot for  ur wonderful and positive insights.Kepp up the positive approach.iam sure u , me and all others who think poisitively about something can manifest all our desires what so ever they are.

[puja]

thankyou ... sneha and loveof abundance..fantastic..

[schenderson22]

@sneha - my pleasure!     like L of A said, you ARE on the right track.  Continue to be grateful for the relationship you do have with him.  Try this, if you haven't already.  Each morning and night write down the things you are grateful for even if they don't exist as of yet.  For instance, "I am grateful for his unconditional love and support."  "I am grateful for the love he and I share." (etc..)  FEEL the passion, excitement and love with each sentence.  Write it down and read it aloud morning and night.  I have found this has helped mold my boyfriend into the true love I desire.  It has even helped with his ex-wife. 

[BELE]

If this is true, the law of attraction is probably false:

"In my opinion, if you use the LOA to attract a specific person, you will turn blue in the face.  If they feel absolutely nothing for you, I can’t see the Universe taking away their free will and bringing them to you.  If they are in alignment with you, then it will work.  JMHO."

This is because most things you can visualise presupposes the cooperation of other people to make your wish come true. So, what if they dont want to do that? The crucial question may be: How many universa are there? If there exists an infinite number of universa it is true that if you can think of a situation, there will be at least one universe where this situation is true. Then you can use the law of attraction to skip to that universe. In this specific case you only skip to a universe where this person loves you or comes to love you in the future. If there is only one universe, such a thing as the law of attraction most likely cannot coexist with unmanipulated free will. It doesn't wether the issue is about love, money or anything else - manipulation of free will is still manipulation of free will.

[Andrew Wilkie]

Why is it people pick up on one thing "negative" thing and run with it? There are so many success stories and so much great advice here. Yet, you read 1 post with something negative and bang, your fragile being of possibility is shatter. 1 person has said X can't possibly work, so therefore it must be true.

Asking for a specific person is adding an extra layer for LOA. LOA is not just a single step. The biggest problem with people wanting a specific person is that they are not prepared to wait and carry on with their life, whilst waiting for that person to become available again. Most people want their ex back, yet don't do anything about it. Then they reel in pain, anger, hurt and never deal with it for a period of time. I know people who have waited 30 years and more to be with a specific person.

Sure your emotions change over time. As you change, so does that other person. Nobody and no goal is actually set it stone. Goals are actually fluid. Alas, us humans are stuck in stone. This is my goal and this is the only way that I can get it.

If you worry about 'free wil'. Please discuss further with the government, organised religion, the media, the school system and your parents. Free Will actually stems from the above as you were not often allowed to fully express and be the real you. Why is it that most people use the word manipulation and will? That is what they have learnt and have been taught.  You know that you'll say something and your parents will come back with the totally opposite and you take what they say as true. Yet, it isn't. Unless you believe them.  Parents are the worse "corruptors" of free will and they don't even know they are doing it.

We have no idea how many universes there are. Science hasn't found a way of measuring them, just like LOA. That doesn't make it any less true. Once upon a time, science couldn't measure the world as round.

[Sneha]

@Andrew : i absolutely agree with you
@Bele: iam really sorry to say this but i think its important to correct you lest u continue with ur wrong notins abt LOA.LOA says u attract what u think but u should feel good and that you should be grateful for it as if you already have it.This shows that you are ready to accept what you want.
The hows and whys are not our job, our jobis tob happy.like i said in my previos post i have been in both kind of situations (first obsessing and the second letting go and feeling good) with two different peple.you are thinking about "how canthis be  true.loa is false"....guess what ...that is what you will attract more of.

if we talk about free will then why only in relationships....it s every where in every situation...you go foran interview and hope to get selected, irrespective of what the interviewer thinks about you...u give ur best shot ..right....?

Always remember your job is you, ur thoughts and ur feelings....feelings tell us the reason what we have attracted.change it, change ur thought and voila u get what ever u want.Letting go happens when u dont obssess over something.just love it.....
Lots of positivity to u...

[schenderson22]

@bele: Physically we cannot change the behavior of another but when you have an "attitude of gratitude" the Universe will give you exactly what you want.  People do exactly that.  They visualize themselves happy with whomever and grateful for each moment.  That is what attracts the person in question back.  From this point these people who have brought their loved ones back in their lives will continue to be grateful for what they have and what they yet to physically see in their lives.

Granted we have open forums and you can share your opinion.  However, people are here b/c they have experienced the power of the Law of Attraction.  It may be more helpful to you to ask how people do versus criticizing and stating things are impossible.

[koolx]

hi'......sneha......wats wrong in visualizing someone with yourself...after all u want something good for yourself ......here comes the 'I' factor in the concept of visualization...something intimate and emotional...keep wishing and the faith with patience. LOA will bless you......moreover, ur visual is private it remains in you..till loa turns it into reality so no risk as well....the base of a relationship is the free will of both the side....it will not hamper coz u r not gambling you are attracting.....BEST WISHES....

Finally, someone who's a firm believer in loa and its unlimiting power. And just to add to what you said, loa does not hamper free will. in attracting a specific person, whether lost love or someone else, youre invoking powers of loa to attract him/her. The loa compels the situation to get you and the other person in alignment, PROVIDED that you got the faith... if you have any doubts, then its not possible. Otherwise, with lots of faith, youll get this person back.

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[koolx]

hi Moderators,

I am a firm beleiver of the LOA .I  have manifested a  lot of thingspracticing it, but my current manifestation desire is to have a romantic relationship with a very gud guy friend of mine.
i really like him and iam feeling a different  very strong kind  of energy with postive emotions t myself that we will be together in the coming days and are companions for life.
I wanted  to know if it ok to visualize someone with myself.would it hamper there free will? i want to love and this person...why should free will be a deterent?please advise.

Thank you.

For you to get a specific person back into your life again, the universe, loa, and yourself have to be in perfect agreement. If deep down you feel that its not possible for that person to come back to you, then you got your answer. However, if you feel that you have absolutely no doubt that this person will come back to you, then he or she will come back, provided that you visualize, do affirmations, renew your faith. Thats all. But your faith must be pure with absolutely no doubts whatsoever.

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