Author Topic: Is this a step towards the specific or should I wait for the specific (Read 2365 times)

lise · « **on:** January 11, 2011, 07:01:58 PM »

I have asked and have been working towards attracting a specific person. It's a long story and this isn't an ex but circumstances have lead me to break contact in order to manifest the outcome I want.

During the none contact - we have had contact! (limited and iniated by him) I've been resolute in wanting what I want and not what I had. I have an inklings that this would happen.

Now I have the possible opportunity to see him in person - he lives a long way away, he wants to come and see me - god knows I want to see him. However - circumstances are not as I speifically requested which leaves me in a dilemna.

Is this possible visit, the first step towards my ultimate goal and should be grabbed with both hands - to not take up the chance - ignoring the universes movement to give me what I want. OR do I say no to meeting and wait until the situation is specifically as I asked and want it to be?

In addition my note from the universe said this - this morning.

"Whenever something doesn't work out the way you thought it would, instead of thinking that something went wrong, see it as something that went unexpectedly well, but for reasons that are not yet apparent.

Everything plays to your favor."

I read into that - it's a step in the right direction.

One other thing - for anyone. Gratitude really, really brings more things to be grateful for. In the past, I have been guilty of perhaps just playing lip service to gratitude and not necessarily feeling it deeply. I have started to feel it a lot more and within hours and days more has happened to be grateful for.

Vicki Christina · « **Reply #1 on:** January 11, 2011, 07:06:20 PM »

Lise, Baised on LOA readings and your message from the universe, I say that a visit may be good. Just keep focused on what the complete picture is that you desire! Good Luck. VC

LOA Believer · « **Reply #2 on:** January 11, 2011, 10:53:53 PM »

I also agree with Vicki. . . I also want to thank you so much for the Message From The Universe thing, because I found the site that I needed for this, along with my own online vision board

Many blessings!
J

Vicki Christina · « **Reply #3 on:** January 11, 2011, 11:35:49 PM »

Is there a message from the universe web site?

lise · « **Reply #4 on:** January 11, 2011, 11:50:38 PM »

It's the Mike Dooley website TUT (totally unique thoughts) The notes part are under resources and then the notes tab.

http://www.tut.com/resources/notes/

I really like getting them. You just give your email address.

Vicki Christina · « **Reply #5 on:** January 12, 2011, 03:56:27 AM »

Lise, Thank you!

Sweet Spirit · « **Reply #6 on:** January 12, 2011, 05:00:48 AM »

Lise,
I was too wondering if I should allow Ken to come for a visit because things were not yet the way I wanted them. If I had said "no", I would probably be sitting here missing him and regretting pushing him away. Our time together has gone well. The new grand baby came home from the hospital a week into Ken's visit and I thought Ken would want to leave, but he has accepted things and been most gracious about the situation. I am very surprised by everything that has happened and I love and respect him even more than I did before. I am so glad I let him come!

I believe if you meet with your man it will give you a chance to assess where he is at right now. Keep being grateful, expect nothing and the universe will give you more; perhaps it will give you something you did not expect?

Marianna9351 · « **Reply #7 on:** January 12, 2011, 06:07:43 AM »

Whenever something doesn't work out the way you thought it would, instead of thinking that something went wrong, see it as something that went unexpectedly well, but for reasons that are not yet apparent.

Everything plays to your favor."

I read into that - it's a step in the right direction.

Love this statement.

Detached&Allowing · « **Reply #8 on:** January 13, 2011, 01:20:06 AM »

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Whenever something doesn't work out the way you thought it would, instead of thinking that something went wrong, see it as something that went unexpectedly well, but for reasons that are not yet apparent.

Everything plays to your favor."

I get these notes everyday as well and think it really hit home for a lot of us. It is so incredibly true! I have been in a really peaceful place these past several days. No extreme emotion one way or the other. It has been nice. Another motto to live by "don't sweat the small stuff"

57angel · « **Reply #9 on:** January 13, 2011, 11:36:25 AM »

Lise, I think that it will be good for you to meet him again, just don't expect too much, but rather expect for what you deserve because you are an amazing person. Just enjoy the moment and catching up, always believe that anything that will happen in this meeting will be up for your favor.

lise · « **Reply #10 on:** January 13, 2011, 03:16:47 PM »

Thankyou Angel. I have said I will meet him. This is the second time, he has asked to meet me in recent months and the first time I didn't. This time I balanced out meeting him and what would happen next against how I would feel if I didn't take the opportunity. As I was thinking about it - I could hear my intuition saying do it. so deep down I think it was always going to be a yes. If I had said no, hoping to manifest exactly what I asked for - I think I'd have been tipping into playing games, trying to get the upper hand rather than attracting specifically and I don't want to do that. I've been wanting him to ask to see me in person and he has. I also wanted him to tell me more about his feelings and thoughts (he doesn't know I asked this- I said I want hi to tell me more but I want him to tell me because he wants to) and he has a bit but interestingly he said in an earlier message - there's a lot I could say but not in email/text and doesn't sound right on phone - so maybe it will be a combination of the two.

I am happy and grateful that this has happened. I know though that I still have a lot of work to do on myself in terms of letting go as since I have said yes - although I have been excited and happy - my mind has drifted into the how/why/whens of it all. aghhhhhh. I know all these should not concern me. I didn't reply to him straight away as I had a lot to think about. He hasn't replied to my last message and I know he could be busy, thinking/ working ect as I was but I've satrted to think what if he mis read my e-mail or this has hapened ect.

I do well in attracting - then as it starts to appear - I get excited/ impatient / and do my own head in. So I know I have to continue working on myself and stop making it all about him which I have a tendency to do.

stevelewis · « **Reply #11 on:** January 13, 2011, 03:48:20 PM »

Lise remember, you should be focussing on the end goal, and not the path we take to get there, theres a loads and loads of different paths that we could take to get there. OK you didn't imagine meeting up with him in the current circumstances, but will it change you END goal? Probably not. I agree if you have turned him down once for a meet up, do it again and again and he'll give up on it.

I am very glad you've decided to go, you can assess where he is in persona lot better than in the ways you currently communicate. You can read people better in person, etc. What are the arrangements for meeting him? i.e. where, how long for, where are you staying if you're staying over, etc? Don't let anything happen that you are not comfortable with. I know I would regret turning down an invite, so go for it and enjoy it

Steve x

lise · « **Reply #12 on:** January 13, 2011, 04:39:24 PM »

He's planning on coming here. 5 - 6 hour drive for him so not something he's doing lightly. He's said it's up to me as to how long - will come for an hour if that's all I want or longer if I want more.

Yes, thanks you're right about the end goal - it's strange that in other areas - work - hobbies - tasks etc - I don't think about the how - just assume it will work out. Not sure why I get bogged down in the why/how/when and worse - what happens next bit of this.

I just need to work now on - why as soon as there is a bit of movement forward instead of focussing on the gratitude and thinking great - I start to panic on the next step instead of enjoying this step? Def need to work on my patience!!!!

stevelewis · « **Reply #13 on:** January 13, 2011, 05:14:21 PM »

Quote from: lise2010 on January 13, 2011, 04:39:24 PM

He's planning on coming here. 5 - 6 hour drive for him so not something he's doing lightly. He's said it's up to me as to how long - will come for an hour if that's all I want or longer if I want more.

Yes, thanks you're right about the end goal - it's strange that in other areas - work - hobbies - tasks etc - I don't think about the how - just assume it will work out. Not sure why I get bogged down in the why/how/when and worse - what happens next bit of this.

I just need to work now on - why as soon as there is a bit of movement forward instead of focussing on the gratitude and thinking great - I start to panic on the next step instead of enjoying this step? Def need to work on my patience!!!!

Really glad he's making the effort. I am tired of seeing people put in 90% of things, and getting 10% back in a relationship (or even worse in cases). This is indeed good news!

I struggle with the same things Lise, it's weird isn't it! So a message to all visualise the end goal, don't worry how you will get there, there will be bumps, etc on the way, but stay focussed on that end goal, I think we all forget about that sometimes, and when a little bit of progress is made, we panic, worry, etc and then ruin it again! I focus on having a child, watching TV with her, having fun in the park with the kids, the wedding, etc. I don't worry about how I'll get there (too much!), take it as it comes!

When is all this going to happen? How long do you want to see him for? Go out for a bite to eat or a drink or something, which means it can end after lunch, but if things going well can move onto something else (i.e. you have the time after) if you want! I dunno it's your plans, so good luck!
Steve x!

lise · « **Reply #14 on:** January 13, 2011, 08:06:57 PM »

not got a date yet. he just asked if he came soonish (?) would I agree to see him. I said would it be for an hour / day more etc. I also said depending on those and why etc then yes. he said it was up to me how long - if I wanted it to be an hour then he'd come for an hour. If I wanted a day etc then he'd do that.

I replied well an hour or a day wouldn't give me much time to talk.

I did actually mean it jokingly as I talk a lot. He hasn't replied since I sent that on Tue!!!! so now I'm thinking he's mis interpreting it and I was saying it's not worth it. aghhh. Hopefully he knows me well enough and is just busy as I was and that's why he hasn't replied. This is what I mean about attracting then when it starts happening sabotaging myself by panicking and wondering!

Trying to keep busy and postive and grateful!