Is there a time span for LOA?

[Sayo]

Hi, I'm new here. Was reading some of the posts and I couldn't help but feel better and motivated I was wondering if there's a specific time span in which LOA works. My ex left me six months back, well actually I left him but later I realised what a douche I was and begged him back and he said it was too late.
     It was tough time then, I did all the 'classic errors'-y'know, like begging, pleading, debating-haha, that just got him pissed and we kept fighting. But today things are better, we dont fight anymore and he recently admitted that he likes me but not in the way he used to. Its more like he cant get over my neediness and insecurity. I totally agree I crossed the line but I'm better today. And I wish we could be together like we used to be. Its been six months now and we're shifting cities for higher studies. Is there hope for us? I know I love him and I know he loves me too. we're childhood friends and i just know he's the one for me....did that sound cheesy? xD
     I know it just contradicts the whole idea of LOA, since i'm seeking validation here, but i lose it sometimes. Sometimes I just curl up and cry endlessly. And then I remember LOA and try to soothe myself. I didnt mean this post to be so long, but any support, hope and words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated. Thank you so much.

[Mariposa, (KnJ)]

Simple answer to your question about time span, no there is not a time span for it to work.  It will work when you are aligned with your desire and the timing is right but IT DOES ALWAYS work once you are aligned with your desire completely and the timing is right.    There is so much more I could write but I want to keep this simple, the best way to get where you want to be is to work on you and getting happy without him, find fulfillment in your life without him in it.  He is just a bonus like dessert......you are a full course all on your own!  Get it? 

[emilylb]

Exactly what Mariposa said, when you are happy with yourself and aligned with your desire it will manifest. Trust me I know how you feel because I am trying to attract my ex back as well. I can tell you that the happier you are the more results you will get. I had him contact me a few times when I was feeling good about myself and the situation. So keep trying!! And it is not cheesy at all, I feel the same way about my guy.

[Sayo]

Thank you so much, Emily and Mariposa!! I understand its a priority to be happy with yourself first, but that's so difficult sometimes!!! I'm happy and I keep discovering new things about myself, my reactions and I see myself in a completely new light, but I guess I'm just not completely happy yet.
 But thanks all the same, I'll keep trying!!

[emilylb]

Don't worry Sayo! I struggle to be happy with myself as well! It takes time but I am sure we will both get there

[embrace]

I would agree with others: the time factor is the only thing we don't have the control over. Here, calculation needs to be replaced with faith and determination. It will work, when the time is right for it to work.

[Sayo]

A little faith can do wonderful things!!    The other day, i totally focused on being busy and happy and guess what? He starts texting and we texted on for hours!! Ofcourse nothing about the break-up... but that will take time i guess Ah, i feel blessed for friends like you!!
lots of love!~~
'with infinite patience comes immediate results'-i read that somewhere.....

[Mr Brightside]

Its not really time but placing yourself in the proper alignment to what your desire is. So this can take hours or months, depends on the person. People on this site manifest signs on a daily basis, if they could do the same with other things they will also come in at the same time.

[Sayo]

see, i dont really understand the meaning of aligning myself with my desire. I mean is it about positive affirmation? is it about letting go? about detachment? Right now, i do all of them! sometimes i use positive affirmation and send him love telepathically--well atleast i try.. other times, i'm just busy and detached and then sometimes i'm scared that maybe none of this will help and he'll date/marry someone else( paranoid imaginations  ) and i let go....
if anyone could please shed some light on aligning my thoughts and energy, it'd be so helpful!!
~Thank you!

[Ginny]

I think being aligned with your desire can be as simple as just feeling good when you think about it. If you're feeling good when you are thinking about it, you are enjoying it in the moment rather than worrying whether or not it will arrive.

[Sayo]

Being happy can be so difficult sometimes.
We're just friends today. and we talk normally. and we live in different cities now. Getting back seems more and more like an impossibility these days.

[jtut21]

The Universe is powerful in manifesting the desires of a person's heart. However, you cannot control another person. The best way to use Law of Attraction is to be deliberate in your attraction. Meaning that you must practice LOA everyday in order to bring yourself into a vibrational set point that would allow you to create the happiness that you desire. After all the reason you want to have this relationship is because you think in the having it you would be happier. Begin each day to practice gratitude and spend no more than 10 minutes visualizing yourself being happy. Trust the Universe to bring the relationship of your dreams into your life. There is always a time delay in attraction and it does require some patience. The delay is caused by any resistance you are putting into the Universe such as doubt, frustration, anger or any other negative emotion. Focus on being happy with where you are now and doing the best you can with what you have from where you are at and trusting the Universe to provide.

All the best,

Josh
Get Your Ex Back www.romance-beacon.com

[RichL]

Hi Josh,

I'm not struggling with doubt. I have 100% faith that whatever happens in my situation me and Emma will be back together. Regardless of the time frame. But how do you deal with frustration and anger. It’s more frustration with me at this point. But my frustration leads onto anger. Never anger with her but sometimes with myself and the situation. How do I combat these feelings?

[Autumn]

Hi Josh,

I'm not struggling with doubt. I have 100% faith that whatever happens in my situation me and Emma will be back together. Regardless of the time frame. But how do you deal with frustration and anger. It’s more frustration with me at this point. But my frustration leads onto anger. Never anger with her but sometimes with myself and the situation. How do I combat these feelings?

I feel the same way. My feelings cause me to do stupid things. I want to have better emotional control over myself. I mean I have belief, that he is coming back. I just know it. I get this feeling inside that we're really meant to be, we worked together perfectly like a hand and a glove that's made to fit it. Currently, though things are bad, I know he's coming back. But I wonder if I'm framing my thoughts wrong. In addition to having belief, should I change my thoughts from 'he's coming back, without a doubt' to 'he's back, he's here already in my life'. Maybe that's what's putting it in the future. I get confused with the whole - believe that the best will happen for you (stop trying to attract a particular person and leave it to the Universe, i.e. detach) - and living your belief and desire like it's already occurred. Am I contradicting my thoughts and actions? I feel like I'm living out Einstein's definition of insanity: doing the same thing over & over and expecting different results each time. Maybe I need to change my approach. I can't believe that I begged, pleaded and acted so insecure yesterday and undid all the progress we'd made. Even after knowing all of this, and understanding what I need to do to have the law act in my favour.

[Mariposa, (KnJ)]

For RichL, try PSTEC or EFT.   They will help you with your negativity and anger.

For 9J.....you have a lot more work to do.  I can tell you that you may THINK you believe you will be back together and you may THINK you know you will be but if that were all true......

You wouldn't be acting insecure and doing the stupid stuff you said you did. 

So you my dear need to start with gratitude.  You need to be thankful for everything, notice everything, thankful for the sun, for the trees, for the air you breath, the food you eat, toilet paper, water....etc. EVERYTHING LITTLE THING!! Feel it, acknowledge it!  Give thanks! 

Next try this and do it several times each day and you will feel better guaranteed! 

http://www.thereisaway.org/Ho'oponopono_cleaning_meditation.htm

RichL can try that too!  It's wonderful

Also you need to be doing EFT, we'll start there and you can work your way up to PSTEC but Brad Yates is your man! 

http://www.bradyates.net/

He has a link on his page for his videos! 

Also it will help you to start meditating each day.  You can download some free meditations online to help you if you are uncertain how to go about it. 

Do all these things on a regular basis and try to help raise your vibration and it will help you get in better alignment with what you desire.

One other thing, ask yourself PRIOR to opening your mouth "Is what I am about to say something I would want to hear from another person?"  If the answer is "no"........CHECK YOURSELF!!  Do not say or act in a way you would not appreciate someone would act with you, no matter what!!  Always put yourself in the other person's shoes PRIOR to opening that trap of yours!!  Get it?? 

Ok then, given you all a bunch of great helpful information, use it wisely and come back and share your progress! 

IT'S TIME TO GET TO WORK........ON YOURSELF!! 

Have a wonderful, happy day!!