Is the Universe testing me????

[Juanita1987]

So my subject of the is: Is the Universe testing me?
About 8 months ago i met this great guy. He's everything i dream, funny, good looking, etc. Everything i have ever dream about a man, he had it.  But the thing was, we met rarely. Like once or twice a month.. Don't get me wrong, i have wrote down how i want our relationship to be and also used my mind.. Now i have kind of let go, i mean, i want things fast. It's my nature, everything to me right now. And i'm trying to forget this man now, but now the universe brings him every where i go (not him him, but you the point), his company car is almost everyday at my yard (ok, my neighbor is working for him, but before i hardly never so that car at my yard), my FB is like : ad XXXX as a friend you have y-mutual friends, at work his last name (last name is kind of rare) is jumping everywhere, or when i go to jog or for walk i see his brother, i even erased his number from my phone, but surprise surprise, because of that stupid company car on my yard, i can spot that number almost every day.. 

Why is this happening? Is the universe testing me?  Because this is actually getting very annoying thing, here i am, trying to forget and the universe won't let me do that....

[kitten7]

I don't know. I've had the same with my ex... but I've completely given up on trying to attract him back. I still see things, but ignore now.

[purplegal09]

What you resist persists.

[Mr Brightside]

“Be careful what you wish for, you might just get it”

The universe is not testing you, in fact its giving you what you want. You wanted your ex, and now you are finally in a place where that resistance is fading. In your case you don’t want him anymore. So at this fades, the manifestation becomes easier to come into your experience.

I hear my ex’s first and last name on a daily basis, and more when im relaxed about it. I don’t really pay attention to it, but it tells me my vibration is clearing up from the negative vibes I was sending before. 

[beautifulmesss12sc]

i have a small business... i was sening an invoice to an out of town client and  the address was

the number of the house was 1102 (my guys bday)
 the street name was ..E(his first initial) *******(his last name). avenue...LOL tell me about it .. that was creepy... i tht  well the universe is helping me forget him. haha

[Juanita1987]

“Be careful what you wish for, you might just get it”

The universe is not testing you, in fact its giving you what you want. You wanted your ex, and now you are finally in a place where that resistance is fading. In your case you don’t want him anymore. So at this fades, the manifestation becomes easier to come into your experience.

I hear my ex’s first and last name on a daily basis, and more when im relaxed about it. I don’t really pay attention to it, but it tells me my vibration is clearing up from the negative vibes I was sending before. 

“Be careful what you wish for, you might just get it” yeah, that could be motto. But the thing is that i still want him, if the universe is willing to do so. But i have reach a point where i really don't actually care anymore. I have started to visualize other men in my life and is't so funny that every time now, someone is asking my number and calling me out on a date... I have also notice that it is so much easier manifest other things, like job, money, etc. Love is hard, especially when you are trying to get the specific person..

Anyway i think that sometimes the Universe can be really annoying, especially, because now every time when i have opened my FB site my friends there have been posted something like : everything you need, will come to you when the time is right. Or something like: Do not give up. You are closer than you think. And these are people whom i have never talk about the LOA, that i'm interested of LOA.

[Handoffate24]

I know exactly what your going through, I've just started learning and understanding how LOA works, in the last week I have been getting a lot of signs, the first couple days I couldn't figure out why a two sets of numbers kept popping up everywhere so I did some research and found out that the universe was throwing me signs that I'm on the right path, both of these numbers relate to my ex, prior to getting these signs all I asked the universe was "is my gut feeling right, that my love story isn't over with my girl" then these numbers started coming up, did my research, then I started figuring out how these numbers related to her and me, I must say there is a lot that ties both numbers, from the date of our first date down to a song that is ours is the same number on the iPod. But were I have to learn is after mediating I believe that my heart is right, but then logic starts putting negative thoughts in my head, I know Abraham hicks says the universe doesn't dangle carrots.

[Snowyy]

The universe is not testing you, in fact its giving you what you want. You wanted your ex, and now you are finally in a place where that resistance is fading. In your case you don’t want him anymore. So at this fades, the manifestation becomes easier to come into your experience.

So when Universe shows signs like this what juanita described here , that means our desire is just about to become a reality and we should not give up, Right?

[Handoffate24]

@lovelygirl, I believe in some ways the universe does test are will, intentions and strength. I believe it can tell when were weak and that is a form negative energy and giving up. So when your becoming weak that's a way of telling the universe you don't want it bad enough. So working for it and keeping the heart of a thousand warriors will help us get close enough to victory but we also have to work at it as well.

[Juanita1987]

Some new updates to my situation with this guy my hole post here originally was about. Well we met and so on.. He even apologized to me hes prev behavior. But still we are in the state as we were before, no progress to a deeper level relationship. Of course the apologize was obviously a big deal from the guy who never does that.

My friends opinion is that i should just forget about him and move. Be like them, every week they are dating a new guy. When i try to explain them that i don't want that, they like, yeah well life is hard, live it. And the thing is, earlier i have been able to manifest almost all. I mean i usually see my self meeting this guy and  then i go true my head all the things that i would like to hear him say, and yes he has said almost everything i imagined.

I don't know maybe i have some blocks, ore i'm not vibrating on a certain level. Ore maybe it's about peoples free will, why i'm not having what i want.   

[Snowyy]

Some new updates to my situation with this guy my hole post here originally was about. Well we met and so on.. He even apologized to me hes prev behavior. But still we are in the state as we were before, no progress to a deeper level relationship. Of course the apologize was obviously a big deal from the guy who never does that.

My friends opinion is that i should just forget about him and move. Be like them, every week they are dating a new guy. When i try to explain them that i don't want that, they like, yeah well life is hard, live it. And the thing is, earlier i have been able to manifest almost all. I mean i usually see my self meeting this guy and  then i go true my head all the things that i would like to hear him say, and yes he has said almost everything i imagined.

I don't know maybe i have some blocks, ore i'm not vibrating on a certain level. Ore maybe it's about peoples free will, why i'm not having what i want.   

see, you are saying he apologized for his previous behavior and he has said almost everything you've imagined. You are on right track so keep it up. This is your progress, don't say there is no progress .
In case of your friend's opinion, Think about your desire what you want. Think and be clear. Dating is not a bad idea because it's all about to feel good and distract yourself but it's only depends on your will. some prefer dating to distract their mind from their guy and some prefer other sources for it. Try some other ways to distract from him and be grateful for that he apologized for his behavior.

letting go is essential part for manifesting your desire in reality. Just let go. Focus on somewhere else.

[fiercefoxie]

I agree with Lovelygirl. Even though you don't feel like dating, you should! But just be honest you are not looking for anything long term. Have fun with dating! My manifestation is in full swing in that he has taken leaps and bounds practically overnight towards me. I honestly think that for me it wasn't until I started communicating with other men and catching them check me out at the gym. I suddenly realized how sexy, attractive and lucky any man would be to have me. I think my ex is picking up on that and it has peeked his interest. So I suggest to start dating again. You will feel amazing. It helps you let go when you are distracted by other men and your manifestation will come around faster!