Is it "Un-Wise" or "Stupid" to be attracting an ex back?

[siamesegirl]

I've found this thread really helpful but still have a question, something I can't get my head around.

How (as I do believe we could) would we ever meet again if he doesn't reply to any contact from me?  I am struggling with the logistics of it.

Thanks for starting the post and for the very helpful replies everyone xx

[tereza]

How (as I do believe we could) would we ever meet again if he doesn't reply to any contact from me?  I am struggling with the logistics of it.

You're not struggling with the logistics. You just don't believe it'll work. The lady did NOTHING to get in touch with him, she just moved on and lived her life and he contacted her on his own.

You're holding on way too tightly to this guy because you think if you forget about him, you'll never see him again or if you stop contacting him, he'll forget about you. But holding onto him is just making things worse. Read this: http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/how-to-use-law-of-attraction-12/the-%27letting-go%27-method/

[siamesegirl]

Thanks xxx

[ipanema]

Well on you asking if it is stupid or unwise. No, because. Life caused you to ask. Your experiences in the contrast you lived caused you to launch rockets of desire and your prefferance was born. If life has caused you to ask, the universe has the means to produce it manifestion wise. What is unwise is holding yourself back from allowing the recieving of it by doubting, and complaining and being negative. Because then it hurts.

Abraham Hicks NEVER EVER SAID YOU CAN'T HAVE YOUR EX BACK.


I hear and see this so much.... I mean the book is called ASK AND IT IS GIVEN! She goes on so many rampages about you being able to BE DO OR HAVE ANYTHING.

I totally understand why that video might have caused you some resistance, in thinking about attracting an ex. But you have to remember, she wasn't talking to the audience or you. She was talking to the hotseater. I love videos where people are in the hot seat because so many times, their questions are VERY relatable. However everyone is different, no two people are vibrationally the same or have the exact same vortex because no two people have lived the EXACT same lives with the EXACT same point of view. So when she talks to a hot seater she senses where they are vibrationally and then helps them into coming into some kind of alignment, and she has to use words they can really hear. That's why you hear so many people asking her for help. She assists them in coming into alignment with what they are talking about. Some lady had a desire for marriage, got in the hot seat and 2 weeks later eloped. Don't take her responses to the hot seaters word for word. She is talking to them and they aren't always on the same vibration as you or the audience and 10 people can be told the same thing yet they only hear what LOA allows them to hear. So when she is specifically talking and helping someone she has to use specific ways of talking to them so they get it. I hope this makes sense. 


I've heard her in numerous videos say that you can absolutely attract a specific person. It just depends on how much you believe you can. And isn't that what everything comes down to anyways? Plus a belief is just a thought you keep thinking hint hint* The only reason she says to go general is because TYPICALLY going general is less resistant. And awareness of the absence of our desire and resistance are the only things that keep it from coming

YES YES YES YES YES. It has taken me a year to completely understand this, but it is so true. Thank you for your words lashark. And thank you Miracles for this thread. Brilliance!

[JaguarLover]

I'm in the process of attracting my lover back to me, and for a while I was feeling a bit 'weird' about obsessing over getting him back into my life. People who know would say, "how would you feel if someone was doing all of these processes to get you into their life? isn't it a bit creepy?" i tried to put those thoughts out of my head, but they kept creeping in. Earlier i was looking at a photo of him and doing the KLEEM mantra, and i thought 'ok this is a bit creepy'. but then i asked myself, what if some guy was doing this with YOUR picture? and i thought, well.. if it worked, i would be in love with him. and clearly if he went to all that trouble to attract me, he'd be in love with me as well. so we'd be in love, so we'd be HAPPY. SO I WOULDN'T MIND AT ALL! because i'd be living a wonderful relationship. and suddenly all of that doubt just left me. if it works, and they are attracted back to you, then you're truly a vibrational match. and you'll both be happy with that, so what's the big deal? if you know this is the one for you, because your life has carved it out for you that way, to specifically desire a relationship with this one person.. who, in this instance, at one time loved you too! why isn't that possible, or why would it be WRONG for you to want it?! go general when the negative thoughts or ideas come up. just say out loud STOP IN THE NAME OF LOVE!! and think a happier thought, whatever it may be. in the long run you will have what you want, however it presents. maybe this one, maybe one just like him/her, but don't for a minute feel stupid or wrong for wanting to attract them back. you're not manipulating free will. if you're a match - and i believe we are! - then it's not wrong to see the best in them and believe it will work out in the long run 

[pandoram]

JL:

I had a similar experience where for a while I started thinking it was a bit creepy to do all of the things I was doing to attract my guy. Now I stopped doing anything because I am at the stage of allowing and in my vortex so I do not need to do anything to help me know that my match is in my vortex and will manifest when I am ready and we are aligned.

But I just thought it was funny that I felt creepy too for a while. Keep up the good work and good luck.

[magic lamp]

Tereza, thanks for the post. That person who attracted her ex back wrote a great description.
I think, i really needed to read this.