Oh and BTW, I did a Facebook friend purge the other night and she was among them. Even if there was no involvement with him, she would annoy me with the stuff she posts. I have felt infinitely better since then and have been able to focus and visualize he and I together much easier. A very wise person here pointed out to me that by looking at her page and focusing on her and him that I was giving my energy to their relationship. Done with that. I know in my gut that she and their "relationship" is not important to him so it's not worth any more of my energy.





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