Im worried dating may ruin the chances of getting my ex back. Please help :(

[Set_the_scene82]

I was wondering if anyone can give me their opinion on seeing other people while still wanting your ex back?

Alot of advice does say letting go , focusing on your self and even dating other people is a good thing and the ex does come back.

But basically I went on a date last night and tonight. And the two girls like me...and well I like them, Ive been texting the etc might see them again. I met them on a random night out last week and in an aim to keep myself distracted in the week I thought why not. Of course I still think about laura and tell myself she is my girlfriend and plan to do my nightly visualization and mediation tonight. She is my heart, my soul, my love.

But my worry is now that the universe will think I don't want laura because Im getting to know other people. Is this stupid?? I don't want to jeopardize the LOA. Im enjoying these girls company and well gong out and having dinner, having some fun I am but I don't want to ruin my real goal of being with laura again. ( And worrying itself is not a good emotion!!)

Can anyone give me some advice please??

[Magdog, MD, Mr. Best Luck]

Can anyone give me some advice please??

me too?

[Vicki Christina]

I do not think that going out to enjoy the company of other people should effect the outcome of LOA except to help you raise your vibration - which is good!  Enjoy!

[Iron Ur]

you or your beloved "spending time with another" is not the point. it's totally irrelevent.

you may decide to tell the new person that you'd just looking to have a good time and not anything serious. if they are fine with that then ok, if not don't string them along.

don't use this new person to make you love jelous. focus on yourself and you'r magnatism will grow stronger

[Magdog, MD, Mr. Best Luck]

That is the best way to be, I have some friends, but they all know how I feel about her and my ultimate goal.