Hi everyone! This is my first post here, and I was a little shy about writing it, but I'm so happy with my results that I thought I should talk about it, in the hopes that it might be helpful or inspiring to someone else.
Here is my story:
I was in my first (and to be honest, only) really serious relationship when I was 18, with a wonderful guy. He was my first love.
Things were good with us for about a year until, I'm not sure why, but I started having all these worries and doubts. It was almost as though things were too perfect. As I worried and fretted, we started to disagree more and more, and then to outright argue and fight, over the silliest, least significant things. Of course, the arguing made me more upset and worried, and the more I worried and doubted, the worse things got, until we broke up.
I was devastated, since he was the first guy that I really cared about, and I was distraught over losing him. But the more I wanted him back, the further apart we drifted, until we weren't even friends anymore. We deleted each other off of our social network sites, we both changed our emails and phone numbers, the works.
I never really got over him, but, after studying the law of attraction, I realized my persistent fears over little things were what caused our break up, and my anxiety and loneliness were what drove him away. I didn't want to lose him, but the more I became afraid of losing him, the more I lost him.
So, I forgot about him. Easier said than done, I know. Initially, it was difficult to put him from my mind. My wanting to be with him never stopped, but I realized that I had to learn to let it go before anything good would happen. Even though it was hard, I told the universe my intent to be with him again, and then threw myself into my college studies, not leaving any time for thinking about anything but classes and homework, and definitely not thinking about my ex.
It worked! Less than 2 whole months after declaring my intent to the universe and letting it go, he emailed me. We spoke, and decided to try for a reconciliation.
We've been together for almost 6 months now, and now that I know what went wrong before, I'm sure not to make the same mistakes again.
That's my story. I hope it helps someone.
Also, glad to be here!
