I think I'm obsessed :(

[Giggles]

Ehh, thats my problem. I really wanna solve it... but it still happens and happens to me
When sth going wrong, when he isnt answering or sth... Im getting sad, and obsessed like "omg what he is doing right now... why he isnt answering..." That makes me cry sometimes, cause I have this BAD feeling ... like fear and its really not good, cause Im just sitting unhappy and only think about him

Everything supposed to be fine, he is close to me, we arent couple YET but we are close... but yesterday he asked me for meeting, and now its just ....silent!  So I wrotte to him message (it was nice happy message) and he didnt reply. I am sad, I feel fear... its bad...

[Buddha]

Hey there Giggles!  Thank you for responding to my post earlier, honestly just knowing that I'm not alone made me feel alot better!
So this guy you're referring to, how long have you known each other?  See, from an outsiders perspective, I would say that things are not looking too bad!  Seriously, I think the only thing that's keeping you two apart right now are your feelings of fear and doubt. 

Now this meeting...HE asked for it right?  And this could be considered a date, right?  I would say that you are close to getting what you want!  You just need to release those feelings of fear and doubt and be thankful that you're getting this opportunity!

Judging from what I read in your post, you're worried about what he's doing when you're not around, but has he given you any reason not to trust him?  If he has, then I can assure you he's not the right person for you, but if he hasn't, then you should trust him and not worry!

My advice to you would be to picture the two of you being happy together, doing the things that you want to do.  Try to be as specific as possible.  Imagine what it would be like to hold him close, feel his skin, his hair, his breath.  The more detailed your visualization, the more power you give to the attraction of that thing.  Also, you must NOT feel like you NEED him, or you will continue to attract the feeling of need, and push him further away.  Instead, try to feel as if you already have him, because if you TRULY believe you have him, then indeed you do.

I hope this is beneficial to you, I wish you the very best!

[Giggles]

Thank You so much! Your post make me much more positive ! I am grateful that You helps me ! I am so happy, thank You so much ! :*

Answering on Your questions - we know each other more than 3 years, we were couple 3 years, and now we are not couple... but when i starting use LOA properly, he told me that he still loves me, and arrange some meetings.
Yes he asked me for this meeting yesterday, but today he is not answering to me (I send him text message). I dont know whats going on...
Another thing - when we broke up - it was ugly, and yes it was some things that makes me not trusted him... Cause during our lets say "bad times" it was ugly, he told me he dont loves me, he also was looking around other girls. Actually he wasnt unfaithful to me, but..nearly! So that makes me feel unconfortable...

But now, yes thats true, Im so close to success, and You know what, I just cant stop act needy, when he isnt texting me or sth like that... that all makes me feel so sad and so needy.
And Youre right I create those needy mood, and it materialise...

Im gonna do what You said to me, visualise and start being calm, and grateful..
Im not gonna think that today he isnt answering me, because I know he will text me soon. I just feel this...

By the way - as I told before - it all was so great we was SO CLOSE, he called me twice a day, he was texting all the time - it was 2 days before. And then also I had this feeling that hes gonna start be "strange" next day - that hes gonna  start having doubts, and stop texting and calling - because i wasnt grateful..or maybe i WAS but also I couldnt BELIEVE its all happening to me. And I  destroyed it - and he stopped texting and calling... yest I did that, and its sad...

[Buddha]

Hey!  Things are looking great for you!  Now I replied to your post in my thread, which I think you should read if you haven't already, but do not let it get you down!  I was just giving you another option, in case your doubts became too strong and you manifested something bad. 
BUT - from what I just read, your situation is looking EVEN BETTER than I had originally thought.  HE SAID HE LOVES YOU!!!!  What more do you need?  I say take that thought and make that your dominant vibration! 
He loves you!  And trust me he wouldn't say that if he didn't mean it.

Ok kiddo!  Here's your homework! 
Focus only on the fact that he said he loves you.  No more doubts, fears, or disbelief.  When you do finally meet up with him, make sure you go there feeling positive and upbeat, and expect the very best.

Now here's something to think about.  When he didn't answer your text, its quite possible that he was worried he might say the wrong thing and screw it up, so he didn't say anything because saying nothing is better than saying the wrong thing.  He's probably just waiting for the right time.  When he knows that everything will turn out that way that you both want.  Theres no need for you to rush him, he will answer you when the time is right.  It's natural to have some doubts about a relationship that has encountered problems in the past, and he is working through those doubts just as you are. 

Just make sure that YOUR vibration is one of POSITIVE FAITH, and his vibration will be affected by that as well. 

[Giggles]

Your post makes me feel better, but then...

I get to know that he is texting with our friend... so I send him message too... It was "why youre not answeing?" he didnt answer too...
I am full of bad thoughts now.

Okay he told me that he loves me, but now I feel that it wasnt true
I dont know whats going on. Why he is not answering... What is wrong

[DanF007]

Hi, I read the posts. And I am in the process of attracting my fiancee back into my life. I have used the LOA and it has worked. I am half way their.

My question to you is how long ago did you guys break up? (I didn't notice this anywhere)

These feeling that you are having are normal. But you must understand that they are yours to control. As is your love. When you are able to control your emotions you will be able to focus all that energy you have into positive energy that will bring him back to you. Right now your energy is going everywhere and its bad for you and confusing him therefore you guys are not aligned.

Me and my fiancee have been broken up for 2 months for that last 2 week we have been talking more and more for more hours every time. So i have been in your shoes. But i turned thing around really fast because I used the LOA right away, the right way. Believe me you will find your answers in this forum.

[Buddha]

Giggles, it seems to me that you are still focusing on the negative aspect of things.  You see, when you texted him "why are you not answering" you are doing it from the expectation or belief that he is not answering.  I would suggest that you don't text or even call him for a few days, and just focus on HIM calling YOU instead.  Picture how great you're going to feel when you see that HE called you!  I can assure you, if you keep calling or texting him too much, you're just going to push him further away.  Try pulling back and giving him some space for a few days and let the law of attraction do the work for you!  If you try to force things, they will surely backfire.

I'm sending you positive vibes, best of luck!

[57angel]

Giggles, you are focusing on the negative side, hence, you appeared clingy to him - and that is not attractive to him. This is your way of putting him in your pedestal, for you let his actions and feelings affect you in any way. It is you who should be in your pedestal and no one else. By saying this, I mean that you should be happy with yourself, with or without him. Focus on making yourself a happier you, do the things that you love while he choose to do his things. When you are that happy, he will pick up your positive vibration and will be wondering what you are up to and even compete for your attention, which is what you would like to have. Keep doing your affirmations and visualizations as a happy couple, you already have him and you will keep him if you let go of those negative feelings within you All the best in LOA to you!

[Believing Love]

Hi

I have been in that situation
my man contacting me daily and i got over with expectation
things kinda blurry and hazy but I believe that is all because I'm putting him back to the darn pedestal again.

Let go ~~~ that is the only thing that you should do

[Giggles]

Thank You so much my friends !
Your posts make me feel better, and now I can feel positive energy

You all are right - I just putted him on pedestal, and he knows it probably, and feels it. And he doesnt like it, but also he knows that if he is on pedestal of my life - he can do everything that he wants, and I will be waiting for him. And it is sick.
And I wanna stop this process now!

DanF007- answering on Your question - he broke up 3 months ago.
And our contact is way better nowadays - because he asked me twice for a meetings, he was texting, and one day he was calling to me.

You know, when he stopped it (without any reason, and when he made this appointment with me) I havent got any clue why he is not talking to me, even to tell me that our meeting cant take place...
You have right - I should keep it go.

Buddha- You right I will be visualize that he is texting to me, and calling me and asking for meeting. Not me but he! And Im gonna stop acting needy. I feel way better now (still feels that strange pain in my chest but its way better than yesterday)

Today Im gonna focus on myself and keep it going. It will be good.
You all right I just attract that situation - its all my fault. I attract it because I was thinking hes gonna have doubts, hes gonna speak with some girls and not with me (I even think about those girls!), what is more I attracted only needy mood (but my needy mood, not him!) that was also mistake... I event havent know this stuff about needy moods before, so thank You so much that You open my eyes!
I stopped to texting him, cause I want him to text me. I will focus of him texting me, not me. And he will text and he will be sorry about that days, and everythings gonna be ok.

I am so glad that You all see thats Im on good way, that when he acted like that few days ago, that means I attracted him back properly, and it have been good

[lashark]

Giggles it gets easier, you just gotaa practice focusing on loving yourself more, it takes time so dont beat yourself up for not doing it in one day. It will get better and so much easier and life will become a joy, just focus on being happy, fall in love with yourself and know that the universe is on your side and always working things out for you.

[Giggles]

Thank You all so much.
Thank You Buddha, thank You DanF007, thank You 57angel, thank You Believing Love, thank You lashark.
You made my day, I feel a way better now. Im gonna focus on my, myself and I, and fall in love in me, cause I am on pedestal of my life

[DanF007]

let him chase you, let him see you busy. Show him that you can live without him and he will come around. remember its been 2 months for me and she is now starting to come around as well. You also have to give it some of positive attention. If you want to write a letter a or send a text make sure its from the heart and not out of desperation. Before doing any of those things you must ask yourself where is this feel of reaching out to him coming from. If it comes from the heart its fine, but if you are just sending a text because you want to know where, why, how its going to backfire on you. Think happy thought.

[Katie]

Giggles, take all the excellent advice that has been given you here ~~you can do it ! 

Look at Dan, he was so upset about his relationship, doubting and asking when is this or that going to happen......trying to make things happen...and now it's getting better and he's even giving out advice now  and I'm very glad to see that.  Never give up, never let anything uproot your Faith in the outcome, soon things will shift for you too and you will be in a position to help other members too, it raises your vibration to help others. You are on the right track 

[DanF007]

Thank you Katie  . Giggle listen to Katie, her advise is golden.