I think i'm finally detatched-advice please

[onlyhappiness]

 Hi All ,

 Some advice please..i had a revelation this morning. Like many i have been using Law of attraction to bring back my love. I was faking my detatchment though I know this now . I really thought i was detatched but obviously not.
This morning I believe my love and i will be together again and i feel very peaceful because i am no longer trying to force anything, if it takes 6 months or a year it does. I know we will be together again.
My question is this , should i just stop doing my affirmations, vision board and will the universe still know what i desire?
Any input would be appreciated.

[JustForToday]

you are still detached, keep on visualizing and the vision board. try not to concentrate on that wish, because the universe got it already, but bring yourself in a good mindstate. by the tools you use, you can enjoy the feeling of having it already and how thankful you are.... its the happy feeling that brings your desire.

hope i helped you

[onlyhappiness]

 Thanks ,
 
 That actually does help . Wishing you happiness and peace always

[JustForToday]

you too 

[irishgirl69]

onlyhappiness, it sounds like you are your way to detachment - you will know it when you get there, you won't question it.  Keep doing what you are doing if it feels good and keeps your vibration up.  If you ever feel like you are doing it as a way to detach yourself or make your desire manifest, then it's coming from the wrong place.  But it sounds to me like you are on the right track.

A word of caution, from my personal experience.  You may begin to feel a sense of anticipation that your desire is manifesting soon or you may start to see signs.  Be careful not to get too caught up in that - it will cause you to become attached and may derail your progress.  Just go with the flow and have faith and you'll be fine.

[lashark]

You dont have to affirm or visualize to ask, you are already asking with your vibrations. The universe knows what you want. Everytime you experience contrast, say you feel lonely, automatically, preferances within you are born, a preferance to feel loved, feel like youre having fun, have more friends, have a relationship. It happpens automatically no? When you know what you dont want, you know what you do want, and everytime you ask it is already given, so the universe, hears your vibrations and says done. So its already done vibrationally, now its just up to you to let it in, not make it happen but allow it to come to you. You can tell whether or not you are allowing by how you feel. If you feel sad or mad or confused it means youre not allowing, if you feel relaxed, happy, energetic, love, you are allowing.


Affirming and visualizing are amazing because you are focusing on what you want so you are practicing the vibration of having what you want, you will know whether or not its helping by how you feel when you affirm/visualize. But no you do not "have to" do it in order to manifest or for the universe to know. The universe already knows and all you "have" to do is be happy. I recommend you listen to some Abraham Hicks on YouTube and relax as much and as often as possible. Laugh and Love as much as possible.
Stop worrying and stop complaining and start FEELING good. 

[Vicki Christina]

 I think lashark said it perfectly!!!

[lashark]

Thank you my love!

[onlyhappiness]

 Thank you all for the great advice. I guess if i was detatched i wouldn't be worried about these little things right  I will get there though. Thanks for the support you guys have made such a big difference in a short time.
From the bottum of my heart Thank-You