I love a gay

[jessica]

six month ago,I made a list to find my love ,then I met him my workmate,I loved him,but yesterday I knew it that he was a gay ! I am so sad! so I want to ask why I attracted him into my life?How should Iface him everyday?what should I do next! P;ease help me ! Thank you !

[lashark]

How do you know he is gay?

Well either way. if he is. You just sent a HUGE desire out to the universe. You decided what you wanted by seeing a very good example of it in this man. So now the universe knows exactly what you want. All the qualities in this man AND more that he might not have but that you still desire. So now that the universe knows you want this, all you have to do is allow it to happen. Allow it to happen by focusing solely on the beautiful example this guy has given you, not him. But what it is you like about him, what it is you like about the idea of a soulmate, about a relationship, about men in general. Feel it, feel as if it is happening now and enjoy it. Thats it. By law it must show.

honestly, I would leave him alone. He is gay. That is just who he is. Personally I would be grateful that I met someone that had come so close to what I desire in a mate and just be glad that now I know better than before what my ideal is. Thats what I would do if I were you. But Im not one to say to give up on your dreams so, Idk that would be your choice if you want to pursue something with this guy knowing what you do. Anything is possible and I knew a guy once who was gay then he started having feelings for me. So anything really is possible but I would leave it alone and let him be who he is and just appreciate knowing someone like him and know that when the universe manifests YOUR guy, it will be even better than you imagined AND he will be straight.

[jessica]

Thank you so much!I am so love you !!!

[jessica]

I don't want to change him,but I love my job ,we have to work together everyday.Evrytime I see him I
would have feeling,so how should I do?thank you!

[lashark]

Do you mean appreciation or like wanting?

[SilverSoul]

I think , thats what you get when you try finding someone "perfect" . for example , anytime I wished for that - I only got some girl being fake with me , acting like someone she is not just so I would want her . but it never lasted... but in my case , I guess somewhere inside I never believed there was a person exactly like me...

Only when I focused on finding someone I could share LOVE with . and  I threw away my "list" (while still focusing on the few things that are the most important to me) . I found her

I'm not saying you should give up on finding your perfect match . I just think you should be more flexible in what you get , because no one is perfect ... find someone EQUAL to you . because thats the only way a balanced relationship can exist

[jessica]

I know it's impossible for us to be together ,I also know there are somebody else for me ,but everytime I see him myheart will beat fast and we meet each other everyday,so what can I do to let me treat him just as a good friend?

[Ginny]

Maybe he could introduce you to some of his straight friends? people tend to hang around with people like themselves, so maybe he has a straight friend who has all of his good qualities, but who is interested in women?

In the interim, just enjoy his friendship and how lovely he is - the longing will pass in time, and one day you will smile about it