I know he's the one. I've never felt this way before. Use LOA to be together.

[loveydovey211]

Hi, I met this guy from another city a few months while he was working (its a 3 hour drive from my city) We've been seeing each other. We can't be together fully because of this. He also plans on going to his hometown of Europe and backpacking for a bit in the next couple months and possibly moving to another province to get into a production career after that. He's moved so many times in his life, always looking for change. I know I have strong feelings for him and that he has strong feelings for me. We see each other every chance we get, most recently spent xmas together. He only gets a few days here at a time because of his job. Luckly his mom lives here in the same town as me, so when he is here he sees me, his best guy friends he grew up with and his mom. He's introduced me to all of his best friends in my city as well as his. (He never brought girls anywhere except for me) He also works as a dj, music is his passion and Europe has such an influence on that side of him. I think he could live in a world that only consisted of house music and travel. Anyways things have been great and we have such a attraction to each other its crazy. Recently he told me he's afraid were getting attached and I want more out of this than he can possibly give. That he wants to be together but with his constant moving and travelling its impossible to be together. He told me he loves spending time with me but is afraid that if we get to close we will both get hurt when he leaves. Now he thinks I like him too much and is afraid to hurt me. Is there anything I can do to get close to him or to atleast spend time with him while he's here. He told me we will still see each other, but I have my doubts given the circumstances. Please help me use the secret to maybe be with him in the future or to atleast spend time with him while he is here like he said. Heck, I've always wanted to see Europe and travel to exotic places like he wants to. I've just never told him that. And where he is is considering moving to is a place I've always considered moving to since I was younger. He doesn't know this though, since we never got really close. I really feel like I met him for a reason and I dont know if I believe in soul mates but if they exist, hes it. Hes taught me so much, and made me a better person. We make each other so happy.I have read the book multiple times and watched the film, I'm a big believer in the secret and seen it work.

[lise]

I'm no expert but you're in a good position in that a) he likes you b) he doesn't want to hurt you c) you have shared interests.

I think if you're going to apply the loa then you need to be really, really specific. What is it you want? exactly? To spend time with him when he's in town? To be in a relationship and for him to stay with you? To go travelling around with him. Once, you're clear about what that is then I'd start applying the loa of attraction - writing a gratitude journal / affirmations/ visualising ect whatever works for you.

Also and I know sometimes people find it difficult - you need to be honest with him - as he has tried to be with you. I don't mean spill everything and tell him you think he might be your soul mate - he maybe be a little scared and back off. BUT I don't think there's anything to be lost by saying. You like spending time with him, you want to keep doing that and you don't see the point of not doing it based on what might or might not happen in the future. He's explained he intends to go off travelling, you understand that (you quite fancy it yourself lol) but you'd like to have fun and spend time together whilst you can.

Then work on being happy and visualising him asking to go with you (if that's what you want that is)

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[Vicki Christina]

Lise,  Good answer!!!    Let him know you are interested in his plans and hope to join him in some travels!

[loveydovey211]

Thank you so much. I know I want to experience travelling with him and have him show me the things that make him happy. He just lights up when he talks about his country and travelling. I'm a very inexperienced traveller but alongside him I know it would be an amazing experience. He's so cultured, respectful, friendly, can talk to anyone and make friends. He really is amazing and I believe I'm worthy of being the one to live a life of amazing experiences with him and I know we would form a bond like no other. For someone I haven't really opened up to he knows a great deal of things about me that no other guy ever saw in me. I was having a hard time prior to discovering the secret and my mom told me that when I find the guy for me he would have to be a patient person. I dont know why she said this and I thought nothing of it. A month later I met this guy we hungout a few times and one night the conversation we had was about how I wanted to take things slow and he said the exact words "I'm the most patient person, you'll ever meet". Right then my mind jumped back to what my mom had said. Never has a guy said that to me, and most of them were impatient about everything. To have met this guy who actually told me he's patient and I see he is with everyone, I really feel he's the guy I'm to be with.


I'm pretty good at manifesting with the LOA but I have a bit of difficulty visualizing I know with some advice I can visualize and manifest him with me. Does anybody have some tips that will make my visualization of us together more vivid?

Thank you again and bless you all.