Author Topic: I feel disappointed when he doesn't talk to me online!! (Read 2977 times)

Miracles · « **on:** May 18, 2011, 02:06:53 AM »

Hello everyone!

I am sure many went through the same situation before.
My guy and I are on great terms. When we talk it's always on very good terms (as compared to some months ago, communication was very bitter and angry) ...

But now when i see him online, and he doesn't talk to me , i feel so disappointed, and as if he doesn't care at all :S ... And all kinds of negative thoughts and doubts creep into my head.. (like: if he cared, he would ve started talkin.. ) and all that.

I know this is very stupid, and i'm working on geting over it, because when we talk every now and then, i find that he's perfectly normal with me, and what i was thinking about was just bullshit..

So Please, if you have advice on how to stop thinking this way, I'll really appreciate your input!

S · « **Reply #1 on:** May 18, 2011, 03:34:52 AM »

Hey Miracles!

I was in the exact same situation as you 2 years ago!
PLEASE don't worry about it and don't get annoyed- it's nothing believe me!

I got so worried, insecure and negative when he wasn't talking to me online, I never said anything to him but I think he felt this negative energy of mine and he blocked me for ages!!

Only when I stopped resisting and didn't care, he has unblocked me (permanantly)

so please don't worry and remain positive, and he will feel that!

I really hope I've helped you! (first time I've replied on a post! Hehe)
hope you are ok!

xx

57angel · « **Reply #2 on:** May 18, 2011, 03:35:30 AM »

Miracles, I understand how is it to feel when you know he is online and doesn't talk to you. This is a sign of insecurity still, and this is a negative feeling, and negative feelings will hinder us from getting the desires of our hearts. Work in this, let this feelings go - fast! It will be you who will not be getting the desires of your heart, you will be stressed because of the negative feelings boiling up in you. Why not, acknowledge the feeling, let it go and smile and smile! Let him enjoy his moment online, he might just be playing online, downloading movies or anything that he can do online. Be very confident you have his love, and be truly grateful for that! Believe that he is yours, today and for always, and he will be truly yours

Priestess · « **Reply #3 on:** May 18, 2011, 02:38:43 PM »

S, your message is a strong one! it's beneficial to all of us to hear that keeping positive vibes helps in turning around a situation like that!

Congratulations for having caused the unblock!

Angel, so we have to feel like we haven't lost anything in fact, right? Indeed, if we get to live by this feel or belief, there's no more worry left!

Miracles, I agree with them, you don't have to worry, especially that you are talking to him and that when you do, everything is just right. Focus on the lovely situation that you have and this will guide your words and actions... when we are aware of our happiness we don't express any anger or resent... it's all good...

S · « **Reply #4 on:** May 18, 2011, 03:00:57 PM »

PRIESTESS,
thank you so much! I'm glad my message is a strong one! Lol

QUESTION to ANYONE: so no matter, what the situation, or how he feels, can I attract him back by believing I have his love and being grateful for having his love?

Xx

ava · « **Reply #5 on:** May 18, 2011, 03:51:11 PM »

Dear s i think the most important part,is (believing),and as i have read many success stories, they all mentioned that they kept believing...but when the situation is complicated,i think we lose our hope and give up our beliefs,and the universe says:AS YOU WISH

so the answer is YES,i think....although i lose my hope and belief sometimes,but i think those who were successful kept believing no matter what the situation was....i remember 2years ago when i wasn't a member of this forum i read your post and as i remember that was so interesting and it was almost 32 pages and many of this forum members replied it.(i hope my guess is true and that was you)

and as i remember you was trying to get your ex back.did you get him back?you had great progress...

S · « **Reply #6 on:** May 18, 2011, 04:06:36 PM »

Hey Ava!

,

YES, that was me!

lol

and I have had excellent progress since, but then I wonder what I did to achieve that progress, he distances from me, but your reply has made me feel loads better!

It's amazing how I started up 1 post and since then others have been attracted to that post and soooo many members have joined and loads of new posts have been made!

hehe

I won't give up! I know as soon as I give up resistance, he will come straight back to me!

thank you Ava, thanks for helping me

xx

S · « **Reply #7 on:** May 18, 2011, 04:12:15 PM »

Ava,
by the way, I haven't been on this site for a year! lol
I only just came back on recently (february)

xx

Miracles · « **Reply #8 on:** May 18, 2011, 08:10:26 PM »

Thank you so much for your replies!! You made me feel so much better!

S: Thank you for sharing your reassuring experience! Did you get into another relationship or let go of the thought of getting him back?

57angel: I really think I shuld be working of letting go of my own fears and insecurities.. The focus is n ME not on HIM! and when he focuses on himself, it doesn't mean that he doesn't care about me. It's life giving me a hint to focus on the only thing i can control "my thoughts and feelings"..

Priestess: Yes. When I have had a good day, and feeling joyful, don't really mind him not talking.. i just feel peaceful and serene, and usually, he starts talkin to me! lol

ava: You're right. I must not doubt. I do believe!

I think this negative feeling is only brought by observing current reality and drawing conclusions based on what i see.. While Abraham reaches us that if we feel good NOW, and keep our focus on our preferred version of reality, we'll get what we want, while feeling happiness and joy in the process!!

ava · « **Reply #9 on:** May 19, 2011, 11:44:43 PM »

Dear MIRACLES,keep believing... try your best to switch your attention away and be patient....dear S,i would be so happy if i could be a small part of your success.1year and 8months ago,when we broke up(me and my boyfriend),your post had a great effect on me.i was disappointed,depressed,anxious and...but when i found this forum and read your post and others replies to it,my world changed.after months of visualization he came back and we were in touch for 6months,i wanted to post a success story,but suddenly everything fell apart again,it is almost 7 or 8 months that i continue meditation,visualization,affirmation,EFT,and etc...but i haven't had any real progress.last night i decided to give up!!!and believe that we will not be together again!but today when i saw your post i remembered 2years ago and realized how much your post helped me to get him back and now here i am again and wanna say i will not give up and you should not give up too.we should help each other again on this journey and believe that we are not alone here and we have each other.so dear s , miracles and all of my friends don't give up....we are from different countries,different cultures,but it doesn't matter at all,we have same goal and this is important...LOVE YOU ALL...AVA

ava · « **Reply #10 on:** May 19, 2011, 11:52:25 PM »

.....and dear s and miracles if we could do it once,we can do it again,if thousands of people out there could do it,we can do it too

S · « **Reply #11 on:** May 20, 2011, 04:09:36 AM »

Ava,
that was beautiful!

and I'm soooo glad that my post 2 years ago helped you

I guess some things do happen for a reason

yes you're right, we will NOT give up!
I'm back now! I'm gonna inspire you and watch we and miracles ( and everyone!) will get our ex's back, yeah!

love you too!
Xxxx

I AM LOVE! · « **Reply #12 on:** May 20, 2011, 12:08:26 PM »

hi ava/S

can anyone of you plz give me the link of the post you both are referring to...i tried to find it but could nt locate it.
I somehoe feel positive vibrations from your replies referring to that post..plz help