i attracted (?) my ideal - what's next?

[miracle]

hey guys

i have a little problem and i really hope you can help me

well, on december 2011 i was sick and tired of attracting one guy who i was trying to attract for about 18 months. i got angry and i thought: 'hey, i deserve someone much better plus this new relationship should not be as difficult as with that guy'. i made a list of features that a boy who will be the one for me should have. i wrote down 40 things and it included everything i wanted him to be like

he appeared in my life 2 weeks later but because nothing has happened for about next 2 weeks even though i was trying to make contact with him (we had just one nice conversation and nothing more), i gave up on him.

and once again about 3 weeks ago i started to think about him again and i decided i want to attract him (i'm sure he is the one because it was one of the points in that list ). and i saw him in shopping centre after few days  i couldn't talk to him because i was late to work but i sent a friend request and a message to him later on facebook - he didn't respond to any of these.
and today my friend told me i didn't include things like "i love him and he loves me" etc. and the question is - can i add more things to the list and suddenly the boy will be like i want him to be and i will attract him? or should i attract somebody new?

[truelove]

I would say add "I love him and he loves me" to the list.

And then let it go and be open to either attracting this guy or somebody else with all of those traits.

[Detached&Allowing]

It is simple... you are too attached...

Trust that the Universe heard your request and will bring it to you when you are ready.  This may help you to understand a bit better.

Copy and paste the whole link..

http://iasos.com/metaphys/bashar/

[miracle]

thank you so much!
so i said to myself for the last time i'm going to attract him and i simply let it go, i truly believe now that he will be mine when the time is good. and for now i am the most important person for me, i have a wonderful life and it's time to simply live my life

thank you once again

[beautifuldreamer]

It is simple... you are too attached...

Trust that the Universe heard your request and will bring it to you when you are ready.  This may help you to understand a bit better.

I agree, just allow things to flow naturally. Think about the best things that ever happened to you, they always just happened without you even trying. Think about your closest friends. You probably never imagined or obsessed about being besties with them, it just happened.

Be calm and enjoy your life.

[truelove]

Wonderful advice!! All we ever have to do is enjoy what we have and more will flow to us. That's it.