I don't think the purpose of nc is to generate interest in you with the ex. The purpose is to improve things for you, and to work on you. People find it difficult to maintain contact when emotions are involved or if they've indulged in behaviour where they've been contacting their ex and being told it was unwelcome or where they've been pushing for a reconciliation. The original poster was maintaining nc because she believed it was the best option for her in moving forward, which I think is the best reason for doing it. As a consequence of working on yourself and being out of the picture an ex it seems will often then re establish contact but I dont think this should be a reason for implementing it in the first place.
Re: I am trying to maintain NC, but is the Universe derailing my plans?
« on: May 01, 2012, 01:10:18 PM »
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