I almost had my BF back

[purplesage]

I have to say my situation is very strange. I understand about the Law of Attraction, and I'm trying my best to stay positive.
However, if I give this relationship 3 months break, I'd completely lose him!

We had a very passionate relationship. However, we constantly fought. In October, when he broke up with me, I begged and ctied and finally started the No Contact and he called me in about 10 days. Later, in December, he broke up with me again, and I waited for 2 weeks and then sent him poems, a scarf that I made for him and different crafts I made for him. He called me crying saying he coulnd't believe I loved him so much. But then, in 3 days, I got angry with him about the fact that he started going out with people when we were apart. He got so mad at me and said: "That's it, the relationship is completely over, don't call me, don't email me, we can't even get along!" I begged and cried again for 3 days, but then stopped.
I know that if he starts dating now, it'll be over between us, I don't want to lose him. Are there any quick ways to get your BF back? I'd appreciate any suggestions!I know my situation really sucks right now, pretty hopeless...

I will keep reading other posts, but this 3-6 months things is too scary for me... can it be 1 month?

Thank you,

PSage

[purplesage]

I forgot to mention that my BF recently went on a lunch date with my friend's friend. She couldn't stand him because all he did was talk about dysfunctional relationship (including us!) , he talked about it for 3 hours!!!! Does it mean he still cares/still angry probably? But I'm sure he has a hard time letting go although he's trying to, by meeting new people and everything...

[Galia]

Hello again!


You're too hyper right now... so take a deeeeeep breath and calm down and PLEASE read this article:


http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/law-of-attraction-for-relationship/bible-of-getting-your-ex-back-dns-post/msg1970/#msg1970



where from I put you those thoughts, quite important:

1.People are attracted to lovers who are self-confident, who know themselves, who are independent, strong-minded, and FUN! When you're sitting around moping over your ex, you're not having any fun!!

2.So, improve yourself. Work on yourself. Love yourself! This is what attracts him or her back to you! People have natural chemistries. You and your ex obviously possessed a natural chemistry. It doesn't matter how far apart you keep sodium (Na) from chloride (Cl) the instant they are close enough to each other, they WILL form salt (NaCl), period! Same for you and your ex if you get back on track. So make it about you starting NOW!

3.When other women show interest in you, it sends a strong biological signal to your ex that you are desirable to other women. She’ll wonder if something about you is new.

4.See, one thing I've seen on this board and boards like them, is that too many people here are trying to micro-manage, control, or over-analyze the process. In some other arena, it would be the use of manipulation

5.Someone perfectly using the Law would be happy, and expectant. They would move on with their life with no concern that their former lover would eventually return

6.UGLY TRUTH 3: When you want an ex back, what you are saying is "I don't want to be responsible for my own happiness. It is too hard and difficult for me to do. So, please, can you just do this job for me by being my lover again? Can you please be the god of my life? Because I don't want to do it myself."

7.THEY HAVE GIVEN THEIR POWER, WILL, OR INDEPENDENCE TO THEIR EXES Since your power BELONGS TO YOUR EX, the Law respects THEIR WISH and not yours on the matter!

8.RULE 2: To get a NEW relationship with your ex, you must LET GO of the OLD relationship.

9.Silence creates mystery.

[purebliss]

I would stop begging and forget about him.  You can't be jealous if he's hanging out with other people because you aren't together.  Try to forget now and he'll be back soon :-)