Thanks guys 
I really really appreciate BOTH of your replies, i've googled the 'friendzone' xD and it pretty much sums up our relationship, I made the mistake of being too much of a friend (being there for her, meeting up and going into town with her, talking to her everyday) and when I think the time is right i'm going to try and encorporate some of the suggestions on the net and try to steer out of this zone, but tbh at the moment now shes at college she has a best friend thats a guy (and seems to have the same interests as her and spends 80% of his time with her) and it seems like I am losing her as a friend as well. I'm thinking then that the first thing I should do, like lashark suggested is to feel constant state of unconditional love. For my desires and myself, a big problem is I really don't love myself and i've always felt that it would be a miracle for someone other than family to actually love and care for me, especially this girl, I know we would be perfect together but I still have that doubt. I can grasp what I need to do to love myself and be grateful that i'm healthy, have all the great opportunities etc in my life but how would you guys recommend I detach from this girl? Do I still visualize us together having fun, really feel the love, create a visionboard etc or should I just focus on what I would like in a girl without visualizing her and hope it attracts us closer! cause I really believe that if I can change my mindset and draw us closer again, then I can work on getting out of the friendzone . In a way I know we will be together, but i'm know i'm just pushing her away by not being able to handle what i've manifested and now manifesting negativity (which i've been stuck with for the last two months) by being negative and feeling like it's hopeless everytime I see her flirting with or dating guys
I really really appreciate BOTH of your replies, i've googled the 'friendzone' xD and it pretty much sums up our relationship, I made the mistake of being too much of a friend (being there for her, meeting up and going into town with her, talking to her everyday) and when I think the time is right i'm going to try and encorporate some of the suggestions on the net and try to steer out of this zone, but tbh at the moment now shes at college she has a best friend thats a guy (and seems to have the same interests as her and spends 80% of his time with her) and it seems like I am losing her as a friend as well. I'm thinking then that the first thing I should do, like lashark suggested is to feel constant state of unconditional love. For my desires and myself, a big problem is I really don't love myself and i've always felt that it would be a miracle for someone other than family to actually love and care for me, especially this girl, I know we would be perfect together but I still have that doubt. I can grasp what I need to do to love myself and be grateful that i'm healthy, have all the great opportunities etc in my life but how would you guys recommend I detach from this girl? Do I still visualize us together having fun, really feel the love, create a visionboard etc or should I just focus on what I would like in a girl without visualizing her and hope it attracts us closer! cause I really believe that if I can change my mindset and draw us closer again, then I can work on getting out of the friendzone . In a way I know we will be together, but i'm know i'm just pushing her away by not being able to handle what i've manifested and now manifesting negativity (which i've been stuck with for the last two months) by being negative and feeling like it's hopeless everytime I see her flirting with or dating guys
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