I'm sure I'll come back to this post, and smile about it! :)

[Miracles]

Hello forum!!

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY everyone!
I sincerely hope that all your dreams manifest in the physical world. I won't say (come true) because if they are in your thoughts everyday, your dreams ALREADY are true.. that's what i believe!

I'd like to share a little success story, it happened a couple of months ago.

After arguing alot with my (then ex, now boyfriend-to-be), he decided to cut contact completely.. And that was the longest perid we stayed without contact (3 months) ..

What happened is that in the middle of those 3 months, I missed him alot and thought about him.. One time, before i went to bed, i wrote a note on my cell phone, saying this "I'm sure he'll contact me again. I'll come back to this note and smile about it."

And days go on and I get busy living my life, then one day out of the blue, exactly 7 weeks later, i get a loong message from him, saying that he was reading the sms's that we used to send eachother when we were together, and that he remembers everything that happened then, and how remembering made him smile, and that he can't remember why we stopped talkin, and how he thought i was a great person, and that he didn't want to lose me from his life!!

So i wait all day and call him at night, and we talk for a full hour!

After this message, i got too excited and started to expect things from him, and he started to pull away again..

But, since this happened, we never stayed more than a week or two without some kind of contact!

Today i came across the note on my phone, and I remembered what happened, and it inspired me and gave me strength, and i had to share it with all of you.

I know he still loves me, and I'm sure he'll admit it and we'll get back together.
I'll come back to this post, and smile about it!

love you all!

[57angel]

Wow, very inspiring thank you for sharing!

[Christy Michelle]

This gives me so much hope! After 1.5 yrs living together, my bf broke up with me, almost 2 months ago (Dic 21). It has been a full month now of zero contact (i dont even know if hes alive...) and im really getting my hopes down. Each day i dont know what or HOW to think. During the day i changr my thought many many times, like "i miss him so much" and very sad and then im not sad anymore and start thinking everything will be fine, he'll call, and then like "f* him, just forget about him", and then praying and loaing...i know that until i stop doing that he will not call me, but it seems like i cannot control my thoughts. Im a HUGE Abraham fan (and listen to some bashar too), and im learning etf and all this loa thing (for a few years now), and when in doubt (like 15 times a day haha), i come to this forum to get support and read sucess stories like yours and then i trusth a little more...but i feel im lying to myself if i say things like "im gratefull Duhamel is with me again"...it scares me. Dont know with thought to think permanently... 

[Miracles]

@Angel: My pleasure!

@Christy: I think you're panicking Christy! cool down! =)
I really think you're doing great, having no contact so early in the breakup (personally, i rambled and argued with him for way more than 2 months after the breakup...) .. So you have a very good chance, because you didn't cause a lot of damage!
Also, Someimes when i write "I'm so grateful that M and I are back together again", i don't believe it 100% either.. But i write it anyway.. i think everyone does that.. you are CREATING another eality for yourself, don't get stuck in the current reality that you don't want Also, i came across this quotes from Lady Gaga, about becoming successful and famous, she used to repeat to herself:

"music is my life, music is my life, the fame is inside of me, I’m going to make number one records, I’m going to make number one hits, and it’s not yet, it’s a lie, your saying a lie, over and over again, until one day, the lie, is true” ..

So that's a simple way of explaining what we call here LOA!!

Please keep doing what you're doing, Be grateful, visualize and repeat your affirmations to yourself.. It's fine to go through dark moods where you feel horrible and like it's all pointless, but please don't give up, Keep doing what you're doing, that's what makes all the difference!!

When you are having a bad day, try to distract yourself, do something to make you laugh, change the scenery, exercise and work to make yourself better.. just distract the negative thought pattern.. don't sit expecting a call or a text.. and be sure that one positive thought has a much bigger influence than a negative thought.. so don't freak out when the negative thoughts come to you, because freaking out brings more negative!

LOA really works!! just don't give up too soon!!

[Christy Michelle]

Thank You so much!! I sometimes feel very confident thinking in previous examples that have happened to me. Im 28, so i have sime experience with relationships. ALL my exes have come back to me (i also think is "human nature": im very commited to my relationships so i always do my best and with time they all come back). My first boyfriend and I were together for 3 yrs and TWO years later after the breakup, he went to my work literally crying (he asked me how it was going with my bf at the time, i said it was great, he asked me if i was going to marry him and i said probably and then he started crying because he wanted me back--we were like 21). The relationship with my bf then ended and some months laters i was with my first bf again, after almost 3 years! It didnt last long, but i felt i closed that chapter and didnt hurt that much.

And things like that has happened to me i think with every boy i have dated. Even with my second serious boyfriend, we loved each other deeply but we had a very nasty fight and he broke up with me. He didnt want anything to do with me, i was EXTREMLY deppressed for many months (i even had to give away my rented home and moved with my mom again--i hardly ate and was crying almost 24/7). So after almost a year he came back...were together for a few months, broke up again (it didnt hurt that much either, i was ok after a few days) and then 7 months later he reappeared! I had a boy at the time (this ex that just broke up with me), so i didnt do nothing and still today he txt me weekly. He has a girlfriend now, but it makes me feel good and confident that i have been a great girlfriend and powerfull enough to attract em back. The thing is that you come to realice you are a powerfull attractor AFTER the manifestation appears... Meanwhile, is so difficult to stay strong...

Thanks for your support!!