Author Topic: How to uplift your partner (Read 684 times)

expandingbeings.com · « **on:** May 20, 2010, 08:37:10 AM »

Alot of people ask me how to follow the Law of Attraction consitantly if the person they are with doesn't believe in it the way they do.

The idea isn't to get them to believe the way you do, but to focus on yourself, and be the example.

I once heard a description about how our bodies fight viruses that I feel I should share here.

It was explained to me that when a virus or sick cell comes near a healthy cell in our body, the healthy cell literally shocks the sick cell by sending out an electric pulse. A vibration so to speak that is so much greater than the sick cell, that it actually overtakes it.

Think about it in this way. If you are feeling joyful, happy, in alignment with your desires, then you are transmitting a high vibration. If the person you are with is feeling negative, sad, depressed, then they are transmitting a low vibration.

A higher vibration will always win. As long as you don't drop yourself down to their level, but stay focused on whats going well in your world, you will stay at that higher place. In a short period of time this will begin to uplift the person or people around you into a better feeling place as well.

If you allow them to bring you down however then you are both powerless. And you do this by focusing on what they are doing or not doing that is annoying to you. If they are truly going through a difficult time, then be there for them by imagining them as you would like them to be.

For those of you with religious beliefs, consider this. Jesus healed people, not by feeling sorry for them, but instead by seeing them as already healed. Thats all it takes. Look past the problem and see the outcome you desire for them.

By holding to your own joy you will always bring them up with you.

To prove this think about a time when you felt down. Being around a happy person sometimes was extremely annoying to you, but thats because they were at a higher place than you at that time. It gets a little uncomfortable at times. But if you will just maintain that state of being you will find that before long the people around you will be affected in a positive way as well. Maybe even going higher than you were.

Andrew Wilkie · « **Reply #1 on:** May 20, 2010, 08:50:46 AM »

I always find this kind of thing really funny. Why do you need your partner to come along for the ride?

Why not say, look I'm really into this and I like doing it. I'd really appreciate your support to help me fulfil this. It doesn't mean you have to believe in it. If you're with somebody I'd involve them in your goals.

Goals work for individuals, couples, families, organisations and countries. They are not a solo effort.

This normally all comes about because the LOA fan is noticing when a partner doesn't agree with what they are doing or feel foolish or afraid etc. Change your focus.

Them not coming along for the ride, is showing something in you that is also not coming along.