How to Attract Stronger Friendships?

[jay42]

Hey there, so I'm in my senior year in high school now, and at the moment, I feel I get on very well with everyone. However, there's a lot of people who I wish I could be much better friends with, that I'd like to hang out with a lot more outside of school, you know, like become just really good friends with them?
It's both general, and also in some cases a specific person, but I'm just looking for some advice on how to do this, I know there's a lot of advice out there on how to improve romantic relationships, but that's not what I'm trying to achieve, so any help would be greatly appreciated

[marioska]

Hi @hay42, I think that you should have clear what you want, ask for it and believe that you have it. If you feel good with yourself, and you're a positive person, you'll attract everything you want, including gorgeous friends. Does this answer to your question? Lots of love and good vibes! ^^

[schenderson22]

Let me ask you this "how trusting are you of other people?"  In many cases we do not attract what we do not feel.  I had a really hard time trusting people when I was your age, thus leaving me with very few close friends.  Does that make sense?

[jay42]

Let me ask you this "how trusting are you of other people?"  In many cases we do not attract what we do not feel.  I had a really hard time trusting people when I was your age, thus leaving me with very few close friends.  Does that make sense?

this is crazy, because i've never thought about it before, but you're completely right, im not very good at trusting people, and when i think about who i have the closest relationships with in my school, they all seem to be the very few people i would trust. so are you saying i should just be trusting these people as much as i possibly can? and that will help bring me closer to them?

i will also just add, since it's been a while since my original post, that I am seeing a lot of progress with some of the specific people i was talking about! i've just been trying to use LOA to bring them closer, and I've tried really hard to detach myself from the outcome which was always i think my biggest problem. last night actually, i was invited to a party, but i decided not to go in the end, and it turns out the person who i've been trying to grow closer to the most was at the party! At first i was kind of sad, because i thought i had missed an opportunity to hang out with them outside school, when we never usually would be at the same parties, but now after i thought about it more, i feel really happy! it's weird, but i feel like it's the universe just showing me how close i am to getting everything i want with these friendships, considering a month ago there wouldn't have been even a small chance that we'd been invited to the same parties. so now i just can't wait for the LOA to keep working it's magic, and this time actually get us to a party together

[schenderson22]

That absolutely makes sense.  Good for you!  As you look around you will begin to see that the Universe is on our side will definitely bring to us exactly what we want.

I am not saying to "trust" people you don't know.  I am just saying work on your ability to be more trusting in general and you will find these people will gravitate towards you.

Does that makes sense?

[jay42]

That absolutely makes sense.  Good for you!  As you look around you will begin to see that the Universe is on our side will definitely bring to us exactly what we want.

I am not saying to "trust" people you don't know.  I am just saying work on your ability to be more trusting in general and you will find these people will gravitate towards you.

Does that makes sense?

Yeah, I think I know what you mean, thanks

[jay42]

I just wanted to drop in and give a quick update on my situation.

It's working!! 
I'm so happy at the moment, I must have been right about that party being a sign, because I've now been out with those same people a lot lately, and have become really really good friends with them. It's just an incredible feeling, I've managed to attract lots of little things before, and even some big things, but I've never been able to attract people before this, now I feel like there's nothing I can't do! 

[schenderson22]

That is wonderful news Jay!! I am so happy for you.  Keep it up!!

I have also adopted Ho'oponopono It is simple you just say "I love you, please forgive me, I am sorry, Thank you.  You can read more about it here: http://www.idreamcatcher.com/hooponopono/  I know this is a lot of information but I feel a sense of urgency and wanted to give you all I have and know.  Lots of love to you!!

[jay42]

thanks!!
i've heard of ho'oponopono but never actually looked into it, so i'll definitely give this a read! love to you too!!