Author Topic: How specific should we be (Read 950 times)

Feelinggreatnow · « **on:** April 18, 2010, 02:58:33 PM »

HI Can some one tell me hw specific should we be when attracting the special some one. Why I am asking this an ex from the past is trying to contact me after so many months gap. The thing is I attracted him in the past, but then i realized he is not the special one i wanted in life, but again when i am trying to manifest he is coming back. I guess he has one or two qualities that i wish to have, but not all So how do i let the universe know this is not what i wanted Can you help me please

stevelewis · « **Reply #1 on:** April 18, 2010, 03:02:51 PM »

Heh... Know that feeling... Im in a similar situation I guess. If he doesn't have all qualities, maybe he is just a friend. TBH I attracted people back to me in the past, and a few popping up, and not sure which I would like to persue. It gets confusing. I hope you are working on yourself (sounds like you are). I struggle to visualise and imagine the specifics, sounds like you're struggling too. Maybe someone can help us out here...

Good luck with it!

mkitten · « **Reply #2 on:** April 18, 2010, 04:34:37 PM »

How funny.. some people would die to attract certain people back to their lives, and some are annoyed by their attraction... You should teach us how did you do that. I guess the key is you didn't have that strong emotions about them, this is why it was easier and faster to attract back someone who you didn't even intend to.