Beautiful dreamer thank you for your words. I never told him I was doing no contact I did that on my own. I get what your saying and you might be right but I've wanted to manifest him. Calling so now I need to look at the positive and most importantly not have any expectations when I respond. He is a good man and yes good for me and this is complicated because I understand where he is coming fromv. Thank you all very much it is so helpful
He may be a good man, but based on what he says maybe right now he is not good for you. He says he's depressed and it has led him to feel incapable of being in a relationship. I've read a lot about LOA and I know some things are left up to interpretation but if you are attracting him, I would hope you are trying to attract the best version of him not just ANY version of him, because you deserve the best. So just because he comes to you now means you need to hop in and say "Yes I have manifested him and his contact". Isn't it about have everything you ever wanted? Is being in a relationship (friendly or intimate), with someone who has admitted they can't handle that now the best thing in world for you right now, when you too are also hurting?
Wouldn't it be nice if you both took a break, he dealt with his depression and he became a strong loving man who could give you the love and care that you need and say "I choose you, to be mine." Rather than settling for a man who is sad and lonely and doubts if he can be what you need, and all he can offer is "Hi". Because regardless of what he COULD be or what he WAS, this is who is now.