How do I deal with impatience?

[FruityLoops]

Hi all,

Quick question-- how do I cope with not having who I want with me now?

I'm using remote seduction to bring her closer to me, but each time I am done and each minute of the day I think about her,  I tend to leave out on a sad, hopeless note because she feels so far from me.

What can I do?

[truelove]

The best thing I can tell you Fruityloops is to relax, it's really important.

Honestly if you you are feeling sad and hopeless you will not manifest what you want.
You really need to get yourself in a place where you are happy and grateful for your life right now as it is.

The are a lot of great threads on this forum about detatching. I would suggest reading some of them.

Best of luck.

[RichL]

Believe me fruitloops I know it’s hard. I'm using LOA to attract my ex-girlfriend back, and it can be hard.

Currently what is getting me through this is I know that we will be back together. It’s not if or how or even when. I know its coming. You just have to think like that. Sometimes I have bad days, yesterday was a bit hard, but as a result I visualised harder, I did remote seduction harder.

Believe in yourself, I believe in myself. Every day I tell myself my name is Richard "fucking" Lee. It helps. Just know you will get it in the end and have faith. It’s hard I know and all of this is easier said than done. But if you don’t you will drive yourself crazy. Now having driven myself crazy with negativity over the last 2 months I have had to let go of that.

I am now focused on a positive me and ultimately me and Emma being back together, no matter how long it takes or when it happens. It will happen!

[Love4only1]

Being patient is the hardest thing.  In the LOA dictionary, there is a picture of me next to "Impatient!"

I find that I am {this} close to my goal, then I get impatient and do something that pushes my goal further away.
I'll learn, I guess. 

Like RichL says, Just KNOW it.  I find when I relax and just know it, it changes my attitude and outlook.  This goes for everything, not just attracting someone back into your life.
I had wanted a particular job that was so far out of reach, and one day I just told myself, You got this, it's already yours.  Within months, everything fell into place and I got that very job!  I couldnt even see what was going to happen...that's how the universe works.

Just know she loves you.  Feel it, send her love back.  Dont doubt it for one second.  The worse that could happen is that you feel good about it.

[FruityLoops]

The problem I guess I have is knowing.

I can't believe that this works or that she loves me, and I don't know how to get myself to.

[Natsie92_xx]

Hey Im in the same situation of trying to attract my ex back.

All I can say really is hang in there! There a good days and bad days, but like RichL said, all you need to do is just say to yourself yeah im having a bad day, yeah she hasn't spoken to me in however long but you know what its okay! Because now is not the right time, the universe has planned its timing perfectly for me and it will come to me when the time is right and allow the relationship to be better and stronger than it was before.

Have you tried eft? I've found thats really helped me get through on down days!

Also can I just ask, I've seen a lot posted on here about people using remote seduction. What is it and how do I do it haha?!

Good luck, and if you ever wanna just talk things through or whatever feel free to pm me at anytime

[AS & I ARE HAPPY MARRIAGE NOW :)]

Guys,

I am kind of re-posting a previous post of mine...

Put yourself on a pedestal... You DESERVE THE BEST!!!... We experience in our life what we think... You have to get rid of the negativity inside to get rid of the negativity outside... You can try Hooponopono to help get rid of negativity... Its a Hawaiian mode of prayer... Please do some research http://www.thereisaway.org/Ho'oponopono_cleaning_meditation.htm

Also the following threads will help you

http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/law-of-attraction-for-abundance-4/tapping-into-miracles/

http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/how-to-use-law-of-attraction-12/why-gratitude/msg60074/#msg60074

OUR POSITIVE VIBES AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALWAYS!!! 

Get busy with life... Keep your mind occupied... Start a new hobby... Pray!!!

LOVE & GOD BLESS,
NS

[JustCallMeMrsJohnson]

I've learned to stop the impatience by doing what I can to change from the person I didn't want to be. If you start doing those things, you won't really have time to be impatient. For example;

Working out - 1.5 hours
Remote Seduction - Approximately 20 minutes
Other Meditation - 40 minutes
Hair and makeup daily 1.5 hours (this is what I do for a living)
Full night's sleep - 8 hours
Cleaning the house, laundry, etc - 1.5 hours
Work - 4 to 6 hours
Spending time with my child, dogs and/or Dad-2 to 3 hours
Preparing healthy food - 30 minutes
Miscellaneous - 2 to 3 hours

There is my whole day, give or take. It's FULL. Everything I do now is for my benefit and that of my family. I wasn't the person before that I am now. And that is because over time, I've made conscious changes. My day didn't look the way it does now even a few months ago. Including the meditation, which has changed my life in leaps and bounds. HTH!

[57angel]

The Universe will give you back according to the thoughts, beliefs and emotions that you emit Distract yourself when negative thoughts set in by doing the things you love and spending time with those you love. When you have feelings of impatience, it will be your dreams that will not come true, remember, the plant that will go back to the soil in the movie The Secret, instead of blossoming When we ask for bigger things, we need to prepare a lot more. More of our time, more of our energy, more of our attention is needed to prepare ourselves, so we will enjoy it so much, so we can appreciate it more. If the bigger things you ask for without preparing yourself, the tendency is, you will not appreciate it so much, it will just be taken back from you Patience is indeed a virtue, and the results you will get is worth waiting for. Just focus in your making a better, happier and more positive you so the Universe can no longer say NO to everything that you ask for

[almightymarius]

First of all think of the following: several of us are in pretty much similar situations and the fact that you know that might make you feel better. Second, in order for LoA to work you must remove yourself from the outcome, you must learn to visualize your partner while being at peace with yourself, while being happy. Because if you do feel bad, you only attract bad. I've been broken too (recently) but nonetheless I visualize myself happy with her, and everything I feel for her is unconditional. Everything else is being needy.

[FruityLoops]

Today has been better than the last few, and while I am finding it easier to imagine a life with her, thoughts of the guy she is with now keep popping into my mind when I try to meditate or do RS.

[ellebelle]

Instead of being impatient, try and savour the wait for her. Act like she's already here. If you concentrate on the lack all the time, which is what impatience is, then the universe will respond by giving you more of what you're lacking. Which is not having the relationship you desire with her.

It's okay to feel like this now and then and it seems you're already on the right track, with meditating and RS. Eventually, the impatience will fade day by day. Don't give up, I attracted my ex back after six months and we're still together now. Detach and focus on yourself and you'll get her back.

[almightymarius]

Thank you for your story elle! It makes me believe

[jtut21]

A lot of times we put up all this resistance to manifesting the desires we have. We make a strong attempt at manipulating the Universe into bringing us what we want right away. One thing is for sure that we cannot control other people with the Law of Attraction. However, we can influence the Universe through this Law to bring to pass our desires. You influence the Universe by doing the best you can with what you have from where you are and then allowing the Universe to handle the rest. The greatest thing you could possibly do for creating your ideal relationship is to trust the Universe. With all its infinite power and resources you need to allow it to move things into place and allowing it to bring what makes you happy to you in time. Anytime that you begin feeling anxious about not having what you want in the relationship now you must affirm to yourself the trust you have in the Universe by saying something like "The Universe always provides me my greatest good and my love and happiness is on its way." By interrupting your normal pattern of thought it allows you to begin focusing on what you do want instead of what you don't. The anxiousness or impatience will subside in a short period of time.

All the best,

Josh
Get Your Ex Back www.romance-beacon.com

[FruityLoops]

Doesn't saying that "its on its way" make it remain on the way? Like it willl always be coming, but never here?

The impatience is worse today because I haven't had any results with what I have been doing. I've not heard from her at all.