How do I attract these people into my life more?

[jay42]

Hey there!
I just made this account because I have been looking a lot into the law of attraction lately, and though I fully believe it works, and have experienced just how incredible it can be, there's one specific area of my life I'd just like a little help in.

Almost a year ago now, I spent a few days away from my normal life to be in a very small community with some of my good friends, and some people I had never met before. It was truly a life changing experience for me (and I think that has a lot to do with the Law of Attraction, as before I went I got myself to the point where I was so unbelievably excited about going, because I was just so certain it would be great). We had no phones, no computers, no TVs, and therefore absolutely no contact to the outside world, for those few days we got lost in a whole world outside our daily lives.
During those days, I got to know some of the unfamiliar faces, people completely opened up to each other, and I felt a genuine bond to these people who I had never even met before. I realised these were an incredible group of people, and I very much wanted to stay very close to them when I got home. But sadly, that didn't happen, we went home, and they all went back to their normal lives. I would see them from time to time walking around, and be so desperate to talk to them, but I could never bring myself to do it, because I was terrified they hadn't felt that same bond I had felt.
Now, I do realise that could have been the main problem, I told myself "No, don't talk to them, they don't want to talk to you" and therefore, I probably attracted more of that. But now I am trying to do the opposite, and I am just wondering how the best way to go about it is. I mean, in some of the cases, I've already made a huge amount of progress, one person in particular I am now very good friends with, but with the majority of the others, there has been little change, and the one who I perhaps want to get to know the most, has been the most difficult to get anywhere with. I know in the next year I am going to see them around far less that I have up to now, so I'm worried I may have missed my chance, it's just hard to feel that connection to someone, and have no idea what to do about it.

So if anyone can give me any advice, I would greatly appreciate it, it's just most Law of Attraction materials I read when talking about relationships seem to only focus on things like trying to find your perfect match, or a partner. That's not what I want, I'm not looking for a "relationship", I just want to be able to call these people genuine friends, people who I can talk to everyday and go out with in my free time, and if I get that, I will be beyond happy!

Thanks in advance for any advice you can give me

[tereza]

I'd keep on doing whatever it is you did to attract the friendship with that one person.
There's a lot of different ways to attract things (vision boards, affirmations, gratitude statements, etc.), so whatever is currently working for you, I'd keep on doing that.

As for the one friend you'd really like to get to know better...I think the problem might be that you're too attached and need to let go.

[jay42]

I'd keep on doing whatever it is you did to attract the friendship with that one person.
There's a lot of different ways to attract things (vision boards, affirmations, gratitude statements, etc.), so whatever is currently working for you, I'd keep on doing that.

As for the one friend you'd really like to get to know better...I think the problem might be that you're too attached and need to let go.

thanks for the reply

you see the thing is, I have no idea what attracted that one person into my life more! It was a few months ago now, and an opportunity kind of arose to get to know them better, and then I was able to use the Law of Attraction from that opportunity, the problem with the others seems to be that I'm not getting the same opportunity.

I definitely know what you mean with regards to that person, and it's something I've tried working at, and I have managed to come quite a long way in that sense. It's no longer the desperate case it once was, I mean, I'm very happy with my life, and it's just one person. But I would still like to be able to get to know them, if it's possible, although do I see where you're coming from and I've thought about that a lot

[Vicki Christina]

Jay,  You can use LOA to have contact with these people.   Pick a couple of them and affirm that you are in positive communication with them.   Feel it and believe it is happening.   I did this method earlier this year to have contact with a person and within 2-3 weeks, I was reminded by looking at a journal yesterday, something happened to strart contact.   Pick one or two people that you had a close connection with at the weekend group.   You have to leave the fears that they do not want to see you out of your mind and feelings.   If you fear they do not want to see you, then you will most likely not have the desired contact.   Do you use EFT or Sedona to work our limiting beliefs? 

[jay42]

Do you use EFT or Sedona to work our limiting beliefs? 

sorry, I'm kinda new to the whole LOA stuff, though I've known about it for about a year now, it's always been just one or two books on it that I focused with, so would you mind telling me a little more about these? because I think if I could get rid of my limiting beliefs it would help me a lot

[Vicki Christina]

http://www.thetappingsolution.com/
The above link is to one of the more popular EFT sites.  It is using meridian pressure points to work out feelings.   Many people here have used it with success.  Also many people here have used a method called Sedona Method to delete the negative doubts and voices.  The link is below!
http://www.sedona.com/#

[Detached&Allowing]

Below is a video example of what Vicki supplied in her link.  You start with a setup statement.  You may want to consider "even though I have a fear of rejection by these folks I spent time with, I completely love, forgive and accept myself".  Say this three times while tapping on your karate chop point then move onto to the other spots.

Tapping World Summit - How to Tap

[jay42]

thanks very much! il give these a go and see what happens 

[jay42]

ok, so I've been working with these techniques, and it's beginning to work. Obviously I'll need to keep working with them over time, but I'm already feeling more positive about the situation, like I'm no longer afraid that they don't want to talk to me too, so where should I go know? Does anyone have any tips for how to bring them back into my life?

Also, on a good note, one of the guys, who isn't actually within the group I mentioned, but he is very good friends with all of them today started a chat with me on facebook out of nowhere. Now, I've always found it very easy to talk to him, so it's not quite the same as if one of them had started a chat with me, but still, I have a feeling that it might be a little sign from the universe to say I'm heading in the right direction. 

[Detached&Allowing]

you may want to consider making the following statement to yourself whenever you feel it necessary.  "I am already a part of my desired friends' lives at the true level of my being and being a part of my desired friends' lives now manifests in my physical world."  It truly is a powerful affirmation.

[jay42]

So I have some great news to report!
The LOA is obviously starting to work in my favour, and it's making me really excited to see what it's going to do next. Today, I met two of the people from the group by complete chance, and was talking to them for quite a while. I'm almost certain the reason it took until now, was because I was unable to let go, I would keep asking and asking, focusing on it over and over again without trusting it will just happen, and then last night, I was finally able to just let it go, and already a great result! 

[Detached&Allowing]

Great news!! Congrats!!