Here's How To Get Your Love Back Using the LOA!

[mira80]

GBSB: Thank you; it's going to get better for you, too.

Now here's the thing:

I'm not sure if I should reply to his email, because I don't know what to say. I keep reading his email. He's apologizing, says he misses me... but he's still not feeling well (about himself and life).

Now I think I should carry on visualizing, using affirmations...etc. I'm going to reply to him when I have a clear vision in my mind of what I want his next email to be.

What do you think? 

[Ankur Sancheti]

Mira....

Reply Him.... You are Given him, Now let him come back.

let go past, Let him Come.... 

[S]

Mira!!

That is wonderful! I'm soooooo happy for you!
I know that you truly deserve it and...
I AM SO PROUD OF YOU!
Well done!

YES, email him back just to show that you will always be there and that you care, nows your chance,
Don't rush it but just act cool and calm, give loving, relaxed, unpressured vibes to him!

Ohhh I'm SO happy, that's really made my day!

Blessings!
S

[Shikha]

thanks a ton mira i think you should write back to him with a calm composure. he's shown guts and taken an initiative so i believe you should help him out with his initiative. accept his apology and try to encourage him. be his support system! he's opened himself up to you only because he KNOWS in his heart that he shares something special with you. i feel that he needs you right now.

remember, you decide your best! you have to make a choice based on the emotions you are feeling at present. keeping your ego aside, ask your heart what it really believes it should do. i'm sure you will get your answer...

god bless. stay strong.

[Chaz]

The best thing about Law of Attraction is we can manifest what we can later call miracles. Miracles does happen and it's we who creates them and call them fate.

[believer]

Hi friends! I'm a newbie here and I'm just sooo excited to read everyone's posts! Like you guys, I'm using the LOA to get the love of my life back. FYI, I'm a lesbian so I hope I dont confuse anyone with the pronouns I use Anyway, my (ex)partner and I are already at the stage óf being friends again (talking and meeting every once in a while) even if she's seeing someone else. She has already told me she's just fixing everything up before reuniting with me soon. The problem though is that, I feel that the more I reach out to her as a friend (she told me she likes that I'm there for her), she seems to be more cool and not acting sweety-sweety unlike when I still wasn't replying to her texts/ emails/ calls, she'd be "I miss you so much" or "I love you". Now I just get the friendly messages like "Thank you for being there for me" or "Just let me know when you need me". The last time I heard, she's still having lunch with the girl at work (though she and her friends all told me she's going to leave her soon at the right time). I have always been very positive (that's why we already made it this far); it's just that these contradicting actions of hers make it a lot harder for me to stay focused and composed. I hope you can give me advice or words of encouragement just to fuel me up!

I am happy to find BELIEVERS like me here. I wish everyone all the LOVE! 

[Shikha]

Hello believer and welcome to our forum

first off thanks for sharing! majority of the times we pay way too much attention to what others say or do. law of attraction is all about YOU. YOU have to be so strong in your faith and in your desire that people's actions leave no imprint on you whatsoever. do not let others actions come in your desire's way. the law has worked positively for you till now because you chose to work with it. so try not to make any judgement from her actions and just be grateful that you are getting closer to manifesting. show trust in whatever it is you ask for!!!

stay positive and i'm sure it will all come together at the most appropriate time.

god bless xxx

[believer]

thank you so much shikha! you just made my day today by posting your encouraging words!  i will always remember what you said.. that is so true! i mean, whatever is on my mind regarding her actions are just MY assumptions and are NOT true! anyway,'i'm just soo excited for the new year because i know that something GOOD is happening! i feel that it's going to be a miraculous year! my partner and i always said to each other that 2010 is OUR year.. so i really believe it will be!

anyway, to my fellow believers waiting for the loves of our lives, i want to share a few stuff i've done these past weeks to help me manifest my partner back in my life!

1. been listening to "feel good" songs like "reunited" by peaches and herb, "superwoman" by alicia keys, "here comes the sun" by the beatles/ sheryl crow's version, "just stand up" by various women artists.. i highly recommend these on your playlists! i just feel empowered after listening to them!

2. when shopping, i buy small items to give my partner when we are reunited

3. am making an artwork of me and my partner (painting of our best and happiest picture together)

4. composed a text in my inbox pretending it's my partner sending me love messages!

5. recently bought sexy clothes, underwear/ lingerie to surprise my babe when she gets back! hehe 

6. i keep on wearing stuff she's given me: ring, jewelry, clothes, dog tag, etc. to make me feel that we ARE together

7. recite daily affirmations: "_____ and i are back together, more in love than ever!" (i found out that if you make your affirmations rhyme, it's more fun to recite!!! 

8. i keep a journal of good thoughts, scribbles of me and my partner's name, things i am grateful for...

so far that's it!! i hope some of you can pick up a few points from what i shared and may it bring good luck to all! and yes, please add to my list so we can have a library of some sort on practical things to do to get our lovers back!

 

[1347BP]

Hello Believer-

THANK YOU for your post!
it feels so good to hear a success story in the process
i'm in a similar situation the love of my life is dating someone else at the moment but I know he'll be back.
I just do i have immense faith in the universe, he's the one for me. I have a quick question, how long did it take you and your ex to start talking. Right now my ex and i are not speaking but i've seen so many signs that i'm not loosing faith. It encourages me to continue with my affirmations to know timing. I kinda have a deadline, i know you can't hurry love or the universe but on other post i've read that some people make deadlines... i dunno... but I would LOVE to be back with my ex by march 2010. I graduate from college the first week of may and have soo many important events in april that i would love to share with my ex. Do you think i'm pushing it with the deadline? Your words and encouragement are always appreciated.
thanks again.

1347bp

[Shikha]

your welcome believer bingo..those are just assumptions and according to me "assuming" is time wasting. i'm really happy to know that you are excited for 2010 and i'm sure you will create miracles with that positive energy of yours. thanks a ton for the great ideas!!!

keep believing...

god bless xxx

[believer]

Hi 1347BP! it feels good to know i am not alone in this whole process.. new "friends" like you and everyone here (thank you shikha!) just make things easier..

I have a quick question, how long did it take you and your ex to start talking.

Do you think i'm pushing it with the deadline? Your words and encouragement are always appreciated.
thanks again.

1347bp

with regard to your question above, would u believe it took me just 3 weeks to start talking with my partner? (by the way, i dont want to call her my "ex" because that means we're not together anymore right? let's just call them our boyfriends/ girlfriends-- present tense! hehe) when we broke up (she was already seeing this girl while we were together), she would always call or text or email me but i wouldn't reply. then there was this one early morning when i decided i would call her up. i dunno, it just felt right at that time. it was really the perfect timing because she wouldn't normally hear her phone ringing at 3am right. but she did wake up and she told me that she rarely now used that number of hers that i called. she just put in the sim card on her cellphone because she felt like it. what i wanna say is that you have to trust your instincts as well. if something feels good to you (no doubts whatsoever, and don't do things just to FORCE something to happen), then do it. sometimes, an inspired action would be required from us to begin manifesting what we want.

about setting deadlines, i do also have some sort of a deadline at the back of my head (my birthday/our anniv, feb 2010) but i also consider it would contradict my affirmations since right NOW i believe we are already together. so this new year, i just freed myself up from worrying too much "when" or "how" it will happen. our role is just to expect the "what" and that's it.

ooh and just one more thing to share, my partner invited me tomorrow for an out-of-town trip with her family! and it feels like we really are back together because those are the stuff we'd do before! what a great start to the year! (and yes, she also spent the new year with me last night, exactly 12nn she dropped by our place...)  

a LOVELY new year to everyone!!!

[LifeIsGoodToday]

Hello all

I am new here. I am reading the book The Secret and using the LoA to attract my ex gf back. We broke up 2 months ago, she broke up with me. 2 weeks later she was dating another girl. I think they are still together. It has not been an easy road by far. I know the problems that caused her to leave me. I was very depressed and in a bad way and she couldn't take my issues anymore she said she was going to end up with the same issues. I feel so bad for hurting her. She said when she broke up with me she wanted to be single for awhile and hopefully she and I could start over when I got my issues sorted. I have sorted my issues, or am in the process, but then she's told me since she started dating the other girl that we aren't meant to be and all of this stuff like we are too different, etc. but she stayed for 3 years so if that were the case I don't think she would have stayed so long, but that if only I would have changed all the other times she asked we'd be together and happy. Her words have been contradicting. She told a friend of mine recently she will always love me deeply but she couldn't take my issues and didn't want to end up with them. Everyone says she will be back and they think all she wanted was for me to change. I know I needed to change and I accept responsibility for what I have done to cause the break. I forgive her for what she did and I have forgiven myself. I know she is my soulmate, and I know she loves me very much. I am very much in love with her and truly believe she will be back in time. She is 10 yrs younger than I am also. I was doing really well with positive thoughts, affirmations, etc. But since New years eve I've been struggling with worry and fear. I am looking for advice on how to combat the doubtful, worryful, fearful thoughts. Here's what I have been doing.

*Daily affirmations as you guys have posted she/i are soulmates, she/i are very much in love. I am so happy to have a second chance with ____. I know I am recieving a romantic relationship with _____.

*Visualizations of she and I together in the future doing different things (Although at times, I struggle with negative thoughts coming in during this time any advice would be appreciated.

So any advice or input of things I can be doing that I am not? Thanks.

ETA: I am in no contact with her as of 18 days ago. I felt like the contact wasn't helping at all only pushing her farther away. I plan to stick to it. I begged, pleaded, etc. so I felt like I was only pushing her farther and closer to this other person.

[believer]

Hi jagged!

As I have learned and realized from Shikha in one of her posts here, we should not be at all bothered by our partners' "contradicting" words/ actions and just focus on the end result that we want. It is not our job to make assumptions based on our lovers' actions or what other people might say. Anyway, from your story above, I recommend that you work on your self first -- if you know you have got to work on personal issues, then I guess that would have to be your first step. Once you have "fixed" yourself and you radiate good energy from within, then I know your partner will feel it and eventually be attracted back to you.

You're right when you said that begging and pleading will only push her farther away. When my partner and I broke up and was with somebady else, I distanced myself and worked on myself and somehow, it drew more of my partner back to me. She started texting, calling, emailing. She was sweet and expressive. I didn't reply until I felt good and until I had this nudge from within that it was the "right time".

On how to combat doubtful thoughts, I suggest keeping a journal of good thoughts. I have one notebook that contains only good things. I list down everyday things I am grateful for, happy memories of me and my partner, sweet messages, doodles, drawings, just anything that would make me feel good.

Hope this helps. Wish you luck and LOVE!

[Galia]

Hi Jagged!

You did the right thing by not being in contact with your girl! What you did until now seems to me just fine!
It is better to change, do your inner work and then take a new chance.
Your affirmations seem good.

I would suggest you as well to do things you like and make you happy so the time passes quickly. If you have the possibility to begin something new, it's good as well, a new hobby or new activity, new sport etc.

Believer gave you a very good advice - having a diary of gratitude is just a great idea and helps a lot.

Love and peace

[LifeIsGoodToday]

Yes I am working already on making positive changes within, have accomplished quite a bit in the last 2 months. I struggled with motivation/drive before. I am motivated/driven now. I'm starting college, working every day, and just bought a new house so I am doing much better. I love myself so much more and started to really appreciate all of my good qualities. The LoA is all new to me. I hope I am doing it right. Can this really work to bring a past love back to you? I feel that it can. I feel in my heart we are meant to be, even though she has said different, I feel like she is being dishonest b/c she thinks things would never get better with us.