Here's How To Get Your Love Back Using the LOA!

[mira80]

Hello all,

My name is Mira; my husband and I are currently separated. I've been a huge believer of the LOA, but I couldn't practice it enough or often... Above all, I didn't think it could be applied to get my love back... until very recently.

I've read a lot about the LOA and relationships and by amazing chance I came upon this wonderful website and I realized I could bring back my husband with the power of my mind.  I also realize I'm responsible for our separation even if he's the one who has walked out on me because he wasn't in love with me anymore.

My thoughts brought that about... my doubts he would abandon me... at times my lack of trust and faith in him even if I never ever said them out loud... thoughts are loud enough!

I've been through horrible times, misery, anger, sadness... and asking WHY? I pleaded him, begged, cried, told him I loved him, tried to persuade him... but it didn't work.

I used to believe my situation was very complicated. But now with the LOA practice, nothing is impossible... with enough faith and belief and gratitude.

So, here's my journey and what I'm doing:

1- I've distanced myself from his negative family members who negatively influence me and seem to want us apart at any cost. 

2- Every night before I go to bed and every morning when I wake up, I tell myself I'm grateful for being with him, for the love we share and the second chance we've been given to be together again... how happy we are together. For several minutes, I meditate on that feeling of joy; I picture us together, in love and very happy as we used to be. I feel it as a reality.

3- I'm not obsessing or checking my email 100 times a day as I used to even if I haven't heard from him in a few weeks. I go about my day KNOWING we're already together and the universe will bring about my faith into action in time. Patience is a virtue.

What else do you suggest? I could really use your support and any other ideas/suggestions.

Thanks a million for this website. Blessed be! 

[Galia]

Hi Mira!

Happy to find you here and try to help you! 

What you're doing is just perfect!
I can only congratulate you for the good decisions you took!

1. you took out the negativity of your life and your "aura"..

2. you visualize

3. you make affirmations

4. you keep the faith!

Just great job!

I can invite you reading the topic "how to get your ex back" ... where other people already put a comment on a similar story.

I give you here some affirmations you can add to those you already do :

" love comes to me without any effort"

"I have a clear idea of what I want in a relationship"

“I attract a loving relationship in my life"

"I give and I receive love"

"I am a filled up, radiant being of light and love"

"I deserve love"

"I believe now that the relationships can be joyful and funny"

"I am open the others, I give and I receive love"

"Whereas my love for myself increases, it goes  the same
for my love for (........)"

"I project  love"



The most important for you right now is to focus on the outcome. Don't create plans on how it's gonna happen, just keep the faith deep in your heart, keep doing what you are already on!

Peace to you!

[Sneha Kulkarni]

hey Galina!

Those affrimation are lovely !! so inspiring..

Yes mira i love the way you are being detach from its outcome as said by you "I'm not obsessing or checking my email 100 times a day as I used to even if I haven't heard from him in a few weeks."

Keep him attracting at every stage it may be at home, work or an outing just feel him near you !!... Mira its just on its way just be open in your thoughts  to new ideas and and signals from the universe.

sneha

[mira80]

Galia and Sneha,

Thanks so much for your replies and support. 

[Sneha Kulkarni]

hey!! S

Got your mail:). Well you seem to be in a turmoil at the moment , trust me its perfectly alright. Your deep rooted belief will take time to manifest!!. Don't let any negative suggestion upset you. if any negative thought emerges tell your mind cancel !!! cancel !!! cancel !!! and keep yourself focused!
one question i used to ask myself when i was in the process of law of attraction that would be
how is this negative thought going to serve me this way it was much easier for me to replace it with a positive thought

sneha

[S]

Hey Sneha, thank you!
Yeah I guess that's true, i've just got to believe in myself.
I will begin by cancelling any negative thought that comes into my mind and feel the feeling of us being back togehter!

[mira80]

Have been feeling rather down lately and not doing much visualization...etc.

To motivate myself, I've come up with a plan and another idea... if my sweetheart and I were talking now and things were normal, what would be happening? What would I be doing nowadays?

Well, since we live apart, I would be getting ready for his arrival (it involves travel)... which means I would exercise more (to be more fit), I would re-decorate my bedroom, I would purchase more clothes...etc.

All your support and ideas would be appreciated. 

P.S. S, I read your comment in the other thread and I'm so happy you're talking to your guy again. Keep having faith and visualizing the next step.

[S]

Hiya, Mira, just feel as though he IS coming back to you, do not lose faith, you and me are getting our sweethearts back!!!!!
No. I havent spoke to him yet, I think he was waiting for me to talk to him, but I signed out of msn, so that he understands that I am doing fine without him!, this kind of thing would make him contact me first rather than me look desperate and talk to him straight away! lol :p
Keep visualising, we all have our down days but...just like sneha said, cancel the negative thoughts!
Blessings to you!
S

[mira80]

Appreciate all of your words and support... I'm keeping the faith. Patience is a virtue. 

[slackalice]

hi, i have a question can the LOA help me bring back the man i was with for 15 years ( we broke up in jan) and am still madly in love with and i know that he still loves me, but is now with another lady and has been with her since feb this year. if so what kind of affirmation/action/visualisation should i use at the moment is say "my relationship with "    " is getting stronger, more fullfilling and real everyday" is this good enough? other suggestions would be very much appreciated, the chemistry when we are together is incredible and it is very hard to walk away.

with thanks

 

[Galia]

Hi... 

....15 years is quite a longtime! ... congratulations!   

I can advice you to read the other posts, we have many people here in a similar situation... we talked about that many times .... the keys are :

 1. affirmations

 2. visualization

 3. keeping the faith

 4. feeling the affirmations and visualizations like they already happen

 5. cut the negative thoughts......


Repeat and visualize the reality you want - being together...with very simple words...

 Keep going!!

[slackalice]

HI Galia, good to read you 
Thank you for your comments, i was wondering if there are any advised affirmations to use, as surely the ex's new partner will have something to do with it? I continue to say the affirmation that i wrote about, and i say it whenever i have space to myself, but it feels like something is missing?? also how long should i keep this up for?

THank you for your help in this


Paula 

[Galia]

Paula,

according to me, you should find short phrases for your outcome, like :

"...his name.. and me are together now"

"...his name...are married now"

"...his name...is madly in love with me"

"I send ...his name...so much love"

This is important and you should fix an hour for repeating your phrases and being concentrated in the same time sending him the vibes.
As I advice always, keep your specific affirmation for the morning and the evening and repeat it during 5 minutes, and the rest of the day you can empower yourself with another affirmations like those I suggested already :

" love comes to me without any effort"

"I have a clear idea of what I want in a relationship"

“I attract a loving relationship in my life"

"I give and I receive love"

"I am a filled up radiant being of light and love"

"I deserve love"

"I believe now that the relationships can be joyful and funny"

"I am open the others, I give and I receive love"

"Whereas my love for myself increases, it goes  the same
for my love for (........)"

"I project  love"


You must be very clear and simple while sending energy to your man.  This is something that comes with time and practice of the mindpower... You are supposed doing that until you obtain the reality you want...

any other queries..?


Bless you!

[mira80]

Dear Galia,

Tell me what you think of this (I keep coming up with new ideas to help with my manifestation):

The other day I was starting to feel really down having not heard from my sweetheart in a long time, so I decided to write an email... only as if from him to me. I put myself in his place and wrote with his style... In that email, he apologizes to me and tells me he wants me back again...etc.

I actually believe when he contacts me, it's going to be A LOT like that email. I know that. 

And so when I get up in the morning every day, I act as if his email has just arrived in my inbox and I read it and feel happy (and surprised even!).

What do you think of this? Got any other creative ideas?

Blessings! xx

[Galia]

Mira,

what a creativity!!!! 

You really made me smile and feel happy knowing you! THANK YOU!

This is so creative, congratulations! I'm sure it will work because you do it with so much FAITH and FEELINGS! Keep doing that!

It may be an email you'll receive, may be a phone call or he may come in person

I think if ever somebody who doesn't know about the law of attraction read what we do, he will definitelly clissify us as crazy people    he he he         , it's just great, it's amazing!!!   

You can do it for real letters - you write them while "seeing" him writing them , then you post them on your adress?
Or preparing your dinner, you "put" him on the table with you?

Keep us updated!