Help to manifest my lover back

[Lenny]

Hello everybody,
Im new to the forum so would like to introduce myself and tell a little of my story.
First i would like to send love and positive vibrations for all of you here
The love of my life and woman of my dreams decidided that our relationship was not working anymore 6weeks ago, we were together for 2 and a half years, with another break up for 5 months last year, it seems much more final this time.. In her eyes right now we just cannot be together..
I stumbled accross LOA just last week, i had never heard about it before.                        I have been meditating on and off for 25 years now, and think i can enter the meditative state pretty quickly.. After finding out about LOA, i have added visualisations about my lover and i bieng together, making affirmations and practicing remote seduction, now after trying this for just a few days a wierd thing happened..
I ran into an ex girlfriend from about 10 years ago we hadnt spoken for many years and we ended up going out for dinner... Funny huh?  Anyway, i have no romantic interest in this person but just thought i would mention it.
The purpose of my meditation is to manifest my lover back into my life and to be married to her,
Right now in my affirmations i am grateful that we have this chance to make our relationship a much better one, i am grateful of this time to be able to focus on myself and be the lover she needs and would like to marry, i am grateful for the love i am able to give and recieve fom her.
I use alpha binuaral beats to help with the medititave state, and feel very positive vibrations when im doing it
I would like to ask for your positive stories in manifesting an ex back into your life and your positive vibrations in helping me to attract my lover back to me.
One other thing, im having a little trouble letting go of the outcome, does anybody have an tips on detatching at all?
Peace love and prayers to all you...

[Tinseltown]

Hi and Welcome, Lenny!

                                  Okay, in this 'relationships' section go to the 3 threads that are stickied. Tereza did a fabulous job of putting together a 'Resource Thread' filled with success stories and links. Read and absorb, maybe even print it up.

When I started this journey, exes started to come out of the woodwork, too! I think I wrote on here about blokes coming back in whom I had no interest but as was pointed out to me then, it showed that what I was doing was beginning to work. And tomorrow, I meet my guy for a drink, the first in 5 months and the first in-the-flesh step towards reconciliation.

Detaching = not feeling desperate about the outcome. In your mind, when you focus on the positive visualisations you have about you and your ex, do you feel good? Or do you feel somewhat concerned by the legitimacy of possibility? If it's the latter, you're not detached. Time is also a good one for helping you let go; you pass through enough of it, and eventually your emotions level themselves out. What's helped me let go is to see that getting my ex back is a journey, not just an event that happens. So if you text her, and you don't get a reply, or something defies your positivity, it doesn't matter - these are stages en route to the final destination. Great belief in the outcome means that you don't mind if there are slips and stumbles on the way there. Don't over-analyse (something which I've done a lot of!), too.

You have my positive vibes towards you to support your desired outcome, too. This forum is wonderful for that - you're in the right place

Tins

[Tinseltown]

Tereza's thread - http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/law-of-attraction-for-relationship-6/resources-thread-getting-your-ex-back/

[Lenny]

Hello Tinsletown                                                                                                               

Much apprecition and gratitude for the wecome and for taking the time to reply.
First of all i would like to congratulate you on your first steps to reconcilliation with your guy, i will send you positive vibrations today and look forward to hear the positive outcome of your meeting 
Its interesting how the exs started coming out of the woodwork for you too, i never thought of it like its begining to work, thanks for pointing that out...i like it
When i focus on the positive visualisations it feels amazing, im 100% convinced that its working and that she can feel me, when im meditating on it in the morning, its so real i dont want to get up so i have no concerns about the legitamacy, the problem i have is letting go during of the outcome during the day... Trying hard not to think about her and what she is doing.. I guess time will sort that out like you say.
I like and agree with you about think of it as a journey .... I look forward to the ride...
Enjoy your meeting, have fun and please let me know what happens..

My positive vibrations will be with you and your guy

Lenny

[Katie]

Hi Lenny, my story was a very difficult one, it's in Tereza's thread. I can say that gratitude and EFT helped me alot. I attracted him back and it was a miracle, so never lose hope

[belive88]

Katie your posts always make me smile, and make my day!

[Katie]

Hey Belive, thank you   

[Lenny]

Hi Katie, im so pleased for your success, thankyou for your support.  I havent heard of eft but will google it 

[Lenny]

I would like to add that, after reading many posts yesterday i noticed that some of you guys were looking for signs from the universe that things were working for you, some asked for a butterfly and one appeared, others looking for coloured feathers and they appeared.. I myself didnt specifically ask for any signs, but i did read an article about telepathy and using something with my lovers DNA on it such as a hair, i thought to myself, wow..i wish i had one of her hairs.. I didnt think too much about it, but i collected my clothes from her house 3 weeks ago.. They are all clean and have been washed, but today i put on a jumper and there..on the jumper.. One of her hairs! coincidence? Or did i manifest it... Still surprised either way