Author Topic: Help me to trust (Read 646 times)

lovely · « **on:** March 24, 2011, 10:18:34 AM »

Hello frnz;

I need ur help.. I had been in a relation 4 three yrs..It didnt last..There were a lot of probs.. Now I've moved on..New ppl r approaching me as well..But I have a huge problem in trusting guys as faithful.. I cannot completely trust my man with other gals..I want my man to be with me always..

A new guy has entered into my life.. But he has got a vry close female frnd.. I find it vry difficult to accept tht gal as his normal frnd, specially bcoz he had some romantic feelings abt her in past.. In my childhood, i witnessed my father being a bit unfaithful and my anger towards him is still getting into my way to a loving relation..I try to get out of ths bad habit of not trustngs completely the guys in my life, but cant materialize my goal..plz help me.....

Detached&Allowing · « **Reply #1 on:** March 24, 2011, 11:47:41 PM »

This one's easy Lovely.

Your lack of trust is stemming from watching your dad cheat. You never forgave your dad for his behavior and now you are following in your mom's footsteps. Your "fear" of a guy cheating on you is what is attracting guys that will cheat. This "new" guy will do the same. So you have two choices, you can run like hell or you can start working through these insecurities while you are with him. What would you like to do?

lovely · « **Reply #2 on:** March 26, 2011, 09:54:43 AM »

Thanks schenderson22, but can you tell me how can I work on my insecurity with the help of LOA??

Detached&Allowing · « **Reply #3 on:** March 30, 2011, 12:29:54 AM »

There are a couple ways to work on your insecurity. Using a gratitude list is one of my favorites. I also like using EFT and listening to binaural beats. Are you familiar with any of these processes?