i read often though, that when we thought.---- oh well, i am stopping now..... then suddenly it happens, cause we truly let it go, even though WE might think we give up on it.
forgetting is also one thing, makes a manifestation faster and easier, cause we think we forget about all, but we dont really, cause our wish is sent. so what we truly wish in ourselves wil come anyway, without doing anything. you just have to wish it!!!
hope that makes sense