gettting back old relationship

[A-luvs-J]

Hi all.
It seems if you tell someone definitively about your desire or that you believe something that is going to happen, you are in the present. 

Does telling anyone your intention or your  belief out loud or via text-email etc..void out your intention? Or does it mess up the creation process?
And if so....Do you need to reactivate your intention all over again?

[tereza]

I think it depends on what part of the creation process you're in and how you're talking about it. If it's in the early stages, how you talk about it can weaken or void out your intention. Like if you were to tell people...I'm going to lose Xlbs this month! And you had just started thinking about losing weight, that could fizzle out your intention. But if you were to start asking people how they've lost weight or recommendations for good exercises or recipes or whatever...that could help strengthen your intention.

Anyway, this article explains it a little better I think:
http://www.mind-your-reality.com/tempt_fate.html

[A-luvs-J]

Thank you.
I am in the early stages.  Have sent my intention out. doing gratitude journal. have seen incredible signs of my manifestations.....
I expressed  (via text) to some friends of my belief that he WOULD be back in my life and how strongly i felt it inside myself. matter of factly.
I sort of declared it as fact, and happening sometime soon.
So i am thinking i need to start over? is there such a thing.
I confused myself.

[tereza]

Eh. I think you're fine. You'll know if you need to start over.

I would just make sure that if you're going to share it with people, that they're supportive of it. I just say this because a few years back, I had wanted to move to another state and would tell everyone I knew about it and they would say things like..."Yeah right. That'll never happen". So basically, it didn't happen.

[A-luvs-J]

tereza
thanks again for your replies.
Everyone whom i have told is supportive, they believe in my vision for myself.
They know how purely i feel for him and how my instincts always lead me to the right place in the past.
the "tempting fate" article made me unsure and have some doubts.
I don't want to resend my intention (like asking for another meal in the restaurant)
but i felt so on track before.
How to get back on track???

[tereza]

Ah sorry, wasn't trying to make you feel doubt. Just sharing my experience with it, as someone who doesn't have a lot of friends who are open to that sort of thinking. That's awesome that your friends are so supportive of you. 

Anyway, I think you're fine. Just continue whatever it is you've been doing, affirmation, visualizations, whatever it is that works for you.

[def]

Hi

I understand where you are coming from. I was happy with my intention which is similar to yours however, the more I spoke about it with supportive friends it felt as if it lost momentum. I think friends could be very supportive of your intention but they could have their own doubts which could be blocking your vibration. I think all the answers are within yourself. I find if I meditate and ask the answer will come to me. As for being on the right track I believe you are always on the right track its just one may be longer and one shorter to your desires.

[A-luvs-J]

You know,i never actually spoke about it.
I just texted some friends my feeling that it would all work out and we would be together despite the fact that we arent right now.
They asked me where i was with him.
I did this new meditation with the ball in the above post and i cant see the ball black anymore, only clear and filled with pink and yellow and white......

So i am back on track i think.
Best thing is to let go and forget about what ever it is you desire.
Trust in the universe implicity. Trust it will all come to you.
Hard........
But its the flow, detachement and allowing that lets things manifest-not just relationships.

[malicexmirage]

Thank you.
I am in the early stages.  Have sent my intention out. doing gratitude journal. have seen incredible signs of my manifestations.....
I expressed  (via text) to some friends of my belief that he WOULD be back in my life and how strongly i felt it inside myself. matter of factly.
I sort of declared it as fact, and happening sometime soon.
So i am thinking i need to start over? is there such a thing.
I confused myself.

i'm actually the same as you are, except the sending messages part,.one day i woke up feelin good like he's just taking a break, he's gonna get back soon & i'll patiently wait for that love

[def]

I have been told if you wait you create more waiting. I have read it on the forum many times so try not to wait.

[malicexmirage]

you just made me remember that part in the secret movie about waiting in line, thank you so much!!another enlightenment