getting back in realtionship with ex-girlfriend

[balasus]

Hi,

since a few weeks my ex-girlfriend broke up with me.  She wanted more stability in the relationship after two years being madly in love with me and I was scared to admit that I wanted that.  She gave me a deadline and I blew it.  2 weeks after that I told her that she was the one that I wanted to build further on.  That my mind had given me a sign and that I was 200% sure.  At that moment she broke up with me, saying it was too late that something had snapped.  She is now meeting someone else to explore her feelings for him.
First it killed me, but now I let it go. Everything happens for a reason, and the reason for me is that when we get back together, i get that chance to show her that I am more then ready to go all the way with her.
Last friday we had a fight on the phone and she doesnt want tos see or speak to me anymore.

Now what am I doing with LOA since 2 days?
Every night and morning I visualize how are perfect day would be together.  From morning to evening.  It makes me smile when I think of that.
During the day when I have a bad moment, I visualize  her dancing in front of me and that put a smile on my face.

Every evening I declare my three wishes to the universe as follows.

Dear God,
Thank you for all what I already have.
I wish that S wil contact me again.
I wish that S will bring good news about us.
I wish that S and I will be together again in a respectfully, lovingly loverelationship.
I am sure that S and I will be togehter again in a loverelation.

thank you for all of that.

Do I do something wrong or do you have some good advice of what i can be doing more?
I also ask for signs every night.

thanks for the feedback I will get.

[purebliss]

Stay positive and I am sure it will work.  It did for me

[Inge]

Hi balasus,

my suggestion would be to replace the "wishing" parts. Because then it will always stay a wish... in the future... you better say thanks for already having it, like I am so grateful that (her name) and I are together, I am grateful that (her name) and I have a loving relationship etc.,. Making it very specific and feel as you already have it!

Hope this helps,

Inge

[balasus]

Thank you Purebliss.  Can you tell me your storry sometime???

Thank you Inge for the suggestions.  I will implement them this evening.

Are there sitll more things I should do or don't do?

thanks for the feedback!

[balasus]

I also wrote down a perfect day with her.  What we doing at that moment and so for the entire day.
I am not sure when I best read it.  In the morning, in the evening?

Suggestions?

[Inge]

Hi balasus,

I am in the same process as you are with my BF... I made myself a daily journal, so everyday in the evening I write down how perfect our day was, how happy we are together, describing what we did during the day, etc.etc. Make it very specific, write in present tense, because.. you already have it! 

Inge

[balasus]

I do Inge.

thanks for the reaction.
Any progress in your situation?  How long are using LOA for your situation?

balasus

[Inge]

Hi,
my BF and I are separated as from April this year. First I went to a therapist, mainly to work on myself and my self-esteem and to detach myself from him (this is the hardest part). She is also specialized in reuniting couples, she is great and helped me through the first tough months. She also uses the no-contact thing etc. (did you already read the Bible of getting your ex back?)
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/6/bible-of-getting-your-ex-back-dns-post/  You should read it! It is very helpful.
Okay, few months forward, about three weeks ago I re-discovered the movie, The Secret. I saw it years ago, but did not work with it in real life. But now... it blew my mind! So I started looking up everything that has to do with LOA, and ofcourse that's how I find this forum, which also is very very helpful. I read a lot of postings, and not only about attracting the ex back, also other topics can be very useful! I recommend you to do so also.
Anyway, I practise LOA now I think for about 4 weeks now. I keep myself in a positive mindset, the best I can do. I do affirmations, made a visionboard, I visualize every morning and every evening. And I send my BF lots of love. During daytime, I work, so I am distracted from everything and keep myself in a happy state of mind without constantly thinking about my BF. Try to feel good, as much as you can!
At the moment there is limited contact again with my BF. He is taking all the iniative.. but it is a process. So time is not relevant, also not for the Universe. Everything will come at the right time. The endresult counts, and I know for sure that this will come. So do not put a timephrame on it.
So this is my story! I am sure I can write down my successtory here, just a matter of time. I am sure you can do the same! Are you doing this already for a long time?

Inge

[balasus]

Hi Inge,

I started with LOA beginning this week.  We broke up a week before.  Only thing that concerns me is that she is seeing someone else, exploring her feelings for him.  So that makes it extra hard for me.
But I am still convinced with all my love that we will have a relationship again.  Not tomorrow unfortunately but better late then too soon.

greets

[balasus]

Today when I went to work i saw a tiny white feather in front of me.  Someone ones told me that this was a good sign from your angels.  A message that you are on the good way.
At night sometimes I get this feeling that she is thinking about me.
Are those signs, or is it just my imagination?

little help needed here...

[loveofabundance]

Balasus, if you think it's a sign, it is.