I view the universe as God. All things are possible with God. God is positive, love. You become a more loving person, transformed, allowing yourself to be changed. You look in the mirror and you like what you see. You are more confident. The other person draws from the energy, the light. They want to know what has changed, what happened and the more you give out, the more you get back in return.
I am sorry, that is my thought and I appreciate you all allowing me to add them.