General soul mate search Vs attracting back an ex

[miss_giggles]

If our ex really is our soul mate, as we all feel, then if we were to do a general soul mate search, there is a strong possibility that our ex will come back?

So by doing a general soul mate search, we can still attract our ex back, can't we? And maybe quicker?

Do you have any stories of where this happened?

I feel my ex is my soul mate, but I think doing a general search would eliminate the small doubts in me.

[Galia]

Yes, this is what I'm saying....

I read already success stories about that happening in other websites and forums... just have a search on google and I'm sure you'll find...

Making a "general " search" makes things easy because while visualizing and saying affirmations you don't necessarily have old bad memories coming up and you stay "open " to the Universe, you don't push it to give you what you want, but you let it give you what is  best for you...

You won't send mixed signals - some here suggested that if you want a specific person and you do general soulmate search, you say to the Universe that this specific person is not the one you want or something like that...but it is the exact opposite - doing the general search is a new possibility to see things happening really faster and the chance of getting an ex back...but also meeting other people that will bring you new way of seeing things and receiving a lot of love...

Staying open means being detached as well and this is one of the turning points on receiving...

Love and peace to you!

[miss_giggles]

Thanks Galia.

I do still want to be with my ex, but yes, sometimes past memories pop up. I do still have feelings for him and feel he is the one, and i think that even doing a general search will bring him to me if we were meant to be.

After all, i think theres always been something between us and we are linked through friends so we will always have to see each other on occasions - although this hasnt happened yet (been 5 months). We havn't had much contact, but one of the things he did tell me last month was he wasnt ready, he's found this hard too and he'l deal with it when he's ready. Ironically, he said to me: "If its meant to be, love finds a way."

When im doing my visualisations, its still his face i see and him i picture myself with - is it good to do this even if i keep the affirmations general?

[Sneha Kulkarni]

hi
in your general visualization also don't put a face to it this shows your restricting the universe from getting him or some thing better , this tells the universe that you are attached to its outcome.

sneha

[miss_giggles]

sorry im a little confused. are you saying to picture his face in my visualizations or not to picture his face? esentially, he is still the guy i want to be with.

[tereza]

I think she's saying not to picture any guys face?  I would think that when you don't create any restrictions stuff starts to happen faster.  Perhaps you could just ignore the face and focus on the feelings you'd like to experience?

[abasssgirl]

Ok well - that is fine and good, but also means that maybe unintentionally this site is misleading people because the impression that is given is you can get your ex back using LOA.

Not just a "general soulmate". A lot of us came here to find out how we can use positive thought to get OUR EX BACK - not to attract a general soulmate. So I feel a little slighted I have to be honest.

[tereza]

hmm..

I see what you're saying.  It seems like they're saying, give up on your ex which is the exact opposite of what you want to do.  But I think what they're trying to say is...here's the fastest way to get your ex back and that's by becoming detached.

[miss_giggles]

i think what was meant is that u CAN attract your ex back doing a general soulmate search, because if your ex is your soul mate, then they will return to you even if u do a general search and that perhaps it may be faster - thats how i understood it, i may be wrong?

right now, im still visualising my ex's face and the affirmations are naming him, but i was just wondering how u visualise a general soul mate?

[Galia]

Hello..

Tereza got right the message I wanted to convey... it's a question about being detached. Making the search general makes things easier to accomplish. No bad memories, no queries, no questionnings...


Here I put a small part of the article on taking exes back about the DETACHEMENT:

    * Let it go. Become detached of the outcome. This is the turning point in your actions. The work you did until that moment will manifest only when there’re “zero limits” or “zero resistance”. There’re no more doubts, no more questioning if it will work or not. You know it, that’s all.

Let it go doesn’t mean that you stop working on your purpose; it’s just that you are happy no matter what.  You are responsible for your own healing and growing just like your ex is for his/hers.  You feel happy no matter what and those are the vibes you send to the Universe.

If you don’t let it go, if you don’t detach from the outcome, you are sending to the Universe vibes of “waiting” and you won’t ever send a vibration of “having”  so it will stay the way it is…

[Marianna9351]

He is an EX for a reason. There is someone better.

[Andrew Wilkie]

What is your end result? That is what you should be focusing on.