Author Topic: Fulfilling relationships. (Read 2478 times)

Sneha · « **on:** July 26, 2011, 12:30:03 PM »

Hi Guys,

It's been a while i wrote on this forum, but when ever i login i get to read great manifesting stories from you all and for those who are trying to manifest their desires , i see a lot of us helping them.Trust me it's great to have this positive support during low phases.I have myself have had some great advises here int he past.

This time I have come up with discussing the road blocks to manifesting fulfilling relationships.I have always had problems in this are of my life.My personal life has been a roller coaster for some years now.People do fall in love with me but after some time down the line, it always so hapens that some issues crop up.
These issues are never between us but some life problems like the other person unwilling to commit , or family not agreeing or that the person does not want to get married or together as of now.If it had occurred once i would have considered it an instance but because it's happening again and again i feel it's some pattern Iam trapped in.I wish to break this vicious cycle because this time in row i have a person in my life whom i dearly love and these problems have crept again (him not wishing to marrying and hence has stopped talking to me).

I, am imagining us together ,not talking \not pleading to him, not stalking him on social networking sites and trying to feel good.I have succeeded for a week but, I some times hit a low when nothing happens, he doesn't contact me though I know he truly loves me.I feel negative and then start the negative chatter in my mind.
Request you all to help me stay focussed and positive.

Love & Regards,
Sneha

lashark · « **Reply #1 on:** July 26, 2011, 12:44:16 PM »

AW I just want to hug you!
OH man, I was feeling so low seriously not even 10 minutes ago.
I was like I'm doing all the feel good stuff being happy and stay positive and if I'm doing al this for weeks staright why do bad things keep happening or nothing is changing ?
Well I decided to be mad and then I decided to not care and then I went online and found some videos from A.Hicks that REALLY brought it back on track for me. And now well now I feel GREAT and APPRECIATIVE and excited about my future and peacful about my present and I hope the vids help you out as well.
We create our reality.


Abraham-Hicks Shes between lives of default and deliberation p2.flv


Abraham - Vibration flip-flops day to day


Abraham-Hicks What Am I Doing Wrong


How To Break The Anger/Depression Cycle - Abraham Hicks 2004

They all have alot of information that really helps. I'm not kidding I was crying a little while ago like "woe is me" "why is nothing changing" "this doesnt make sense" "this doesnt work"
and oh man this really does work, and these vids really helped and now like I said I'm back in my vortex <3
I believe alot of their subject matter have the biggest thing to do with the road blocks youre talking about. if not THE actual road blocks themselves.

57angel · « **Reply #2 on:** July 27, 2011, 11:40:10 AM »

Sneha, its been awhile also since I started staying here in the forum, but there are times really that I have my low moments - we are already one small step closer to where the desires of our hearts lay

so very very close! It is good that you have seen the pattern, you acknowledge it, that is a problem good as solve

Let it go, you don't need those negative manifestations in your life because you deserve only the best in love and in life. There is no short cut, we really need to let go of the negative emotions from our past experiences. I am working it out in myself the use of Sedona, also use meditation to heal my heart. Indeed life is so wonderful, more than motivates me to really work inwards and be completely healed to allow my Mr Right to come along soonest hehehe!

UpLOAding · « **Reply #3 on:** July 27, 2011, 01:41:54 PM »

See...

At the very beginning, when I first joined this forum, I had a great debate about how to attract.

Before joining this forum, my understanding of LOA was very active-minded, i.e. focused on positive interaction with the person I love and so on.

I think someone who was very active here used to call it "manifested intent", though I am not sure what text he was referring to.

Since I'm on this forum, I feel many participants have given me the impression to give up this pro-active positive mentality and instead to use something more "passive", or better, to work on myself first and everything else will follow automatically.

I personally have felt, most of the time - and even now - that working on myself is not enough. I also need to work on my interaction with the person, improve, etc. that's what made all my other personal (non-romantic) relationships better and deeper - not being passively positive.

So, these are just my own private personal thoughts about this issue. Maybe a few others have felt like me, but I know the majority seems to agree that the best use of LOA is a more passive approach (automatic) rather than active (a result of our conscious efforts and intentions WITH the person).

I am saying this out of my truest honesty and my personal experience.

Grateful Sunshine :) · « **Reply #4 on:** July 27, 2011, 02:01:31 PM »

As far as I know and understand LOA ...
All I can say is that There are plenty of techniques which will facilitate your manifestation..You have to choose a mix of them based on your experience what and what not works for you.However I strongly believe that Only We are the creators of our own destiny and hence we should work inwards..rest everything is upto Universe to tk care.Offcourse there are things like Inspired Action

Just ignore your current reality and the roadblocks (that the issues are cropping up again and again).For me the best thing that worked is mix of H'oopnoo,Affirmation and Gratitude list..
Hope you are high soon .........
Much love and peace!

magentaskye · « **Reply #5 on:** July 27, 2011, 10:19:15 PM »

lashark,

I LOVE the videos you keep posting..... thank you so much for consistently posting them.....

the Vibrational flip flop was exactly what I was needing....

<3 to u

Sneha · « **Reply #6 on:** July 28, 2011, 12:08:44 PM »

Hi friends,
thanks for your support but i feel devatated and crying today.I was not stalking him on social networking sites all this while cos i thought i would add negativitity this way.Today i so happeded to check Twitter i found taht exactly 9 days after our break he wrote "#misswhen i see my fb staus single"...a very cunning and cleer female friend (married) of his wrote back "you should be happy"...and he replied "as a matter of fact, iam"...im stunned ..this was the man i loved...i don't know what should i do...how can i keep positive vibes and feelings when allthis hapens...i haven't lashed out at him cos i feel pleading and fighting will add negativity and will push him farther away...
at first his ststus seemed like he missed me...what is going on in his mind...and am i actin foolish even to bring us hte happy days back again?.....i always beleived LOA can help me but this seems unconvincing in this situaion.am i far from faith and beleive or should i not do it at all?

-Sneha

57angel · « **Reply #7 on:** July 28, 2011, 12:19:08 PM »

Sneha, take responsibility of your vibrations, you attract more reasons to feel bad because you feel bad. Just let that be, he was happy to end his relationship with the old Sneha. You are better, happier, healthier Sneha because you know that you create your reality! Do not put him in your pedestal, he doesn't deserve to have that, but its only you and only you who should be there! Just work inwards, become the best you can be and we will see if he will not be running back to you when he then realized what he once got is already someone any man will be truly blessed to have her

Cheer up! You don't need that negative feelings in you any longer, instead spend it spreading love and smiles to everyone around you and most of all, spend it forgiving, accepting and loving yourself more and more each day

Life is so wonderful, there are lots of amazing things to flow into your life - only if you will let them in

Sneha · « **Reply #8 on:** July 28, 2011, 02:14:13 PM »

Thank you 57angel for ur support.i really need it.can u help me how we can chat on this forum?.. feels good to be with positive people.
Regards,
Sneha

57angel · « **Reply #9 on:** July 28, 2011, 03:34:54 PM »

You are most welcome

We are all here for you, sending you loving and positive thoughts

Yes I do agree, it feels good to be with positive people, I am greatly helped here

LifeAttraction90 · « **Reply #10 on:** July 28, 2011, 05:30:22 PM »

Keep Positive - I been thought that myself - I had to change my twitter many times because the man I loved did stupid things - now , he doesn't know how much I have changed in 4 months : ) - You are the only one on your pedestal - see yourself as a queen with the best jeweled crown & most rocking dress - rocking your best high heels that money has to offer! ... take care yourself first & don't let words get you! more you let words define your mind - the more control they have ... : ) I realize my negativity has been my downfall since I was a teen - learning LOA is completely changing it - don't give up - keep visualizing a fullfilling relationship with all the works & keep believing no matter what!

Sneha · « **Reply #11 on:** July 28, 2011, 09:11:44 PM »

i get a feeling from all the above responses that it is possible to get together with my man if i reach the previous vibrational frequency, when he was attracted to me and when we fell in love.I hope u all agree wid me.

Thanks you angel57, i went out wid a friend after having the inspiring talk with you and had fun , bowling , coffee n all :*)

love and positivity to all. :*

Sneha · « **Reply #12 on:** July 29, 2011, 09:09:05 PM »

yay!!!
Progress - Got some positive signs today ...:* luv and positivity to all.

-Sneha

Sweet Spirit · « **Reply #13 on:** July 29, 2011, 09:55:19 PM »

Sneha,

Thats wonderful!

I was just reading your post about how you had hurt feelings over what your ex did with his status on FB. There could be several reasons and one may be that he too is hurting over the breakup. Since he knows you are probably looking at his profile he may have been sending you an indirect message or sign that you need to stop looking at his profile page. My boyfriend did the same thing in a sense. After I had attracted him back in September, I was still not where I needed to be (as far as feeling self secure and sufficient.) He broke up with me again in December over an issue with my daughter. That time, he broke up with me on yahoo messenger telling me to grieve, consider him dead and move on.; so I did (while knowing he did not really want me to.) then he contacted me 5 days later on messenger and I am thinking,"You're dead. Let me grieve and move on." In that conversation he told me he wanted to come for a visit and I told him not to bother. This was chat on messenger so I could not tell what he was thinking about my response, but in my heart I knew he was probably hurt and maybe a little stunned because for the first time in 2 years I had basically let him know that I was not eager to see him.Then a few days later and he posted his dating profile on an online dating site. In his profile he stated that he was looking for a life time relationship with someone. I was CRUSHED!!

We eventually resumed our relationship and I asked him about the profile he had on the dating site. He said he knew I would be snooping and he had no intention of following through on dating other women as he did it to teach me a lesson for doubting and snooping. Now of course he would not admit it, but I feel he also did it because I hurt him by telling him not to bother coming for a visit.

So your guy could be posting that on his FB, not because he is really happy to be out of a relationship; he could be doing it for the same reasons my BF did it. To teach you a lesson for snooping and because he himself is hurt over the breakup. if you know in your heart that he still loves you, then he absolutely DOES love you! Just keep working on yourself dear and don't let anything your mind says to cause you to be negative or doubtful. My heart told me it wasn't over even though my mind was making up lies to the contrary. My heart was the one who knew the truth!

Keep that positivity!

Love and blessings to you dear!

Sneha · « **Reply #14 on:** July 30, 2011, 12:38:49 PM »

Thanks a lot sweet spirit for sharing your story.Your story is another sign i consider because i came across it only after instiling faith in myself.The support and strength you friends provide here is amazing.Lets me gather the zeal to take and expereince positive things.My success and loving story is soon gonna be here with all of you.

:*, wish you all a happy day.

Sneha