Author Topic: For the one I love..please help!!! (Read 1486 times)

SAINAM · « **on:** December 23, 2011, 08:05:35 PM »

I want to attract my husband towards me

I know it seems bit funny..but yes, I need all of your prayers, positive vibes to fulfill this. We are going through a VERY tough time. He WAS fallen for someone else in 4th year of our marriage. I will not recall whole story, but as I came to know, I thought of going out of his life but he stopped me saying he can’t stay without me and he loves me…A lot was said and done...but I always knew that he realized his mistake and one day came back from office to tell me that our life is on track again…I want to trust him and rebuild my faith on him like before…We have a beautiful daughter and my husband is badly attached to her…I love him very much and wants to retain same respect that I have for him…
I was in dilemma. What to do…and one day I was in this forum (I think I was attracted to it

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I want to ATTRACT a happy married life with my husband. I want him to love me badly and forget this women completely (though she works with him in same office). I want him to initiate contact with me and express his love towards me..I want to support him emotionally and morally. I want to be stronger each day because he needs a strong women and I want to be the ONE.

Friends, please help me and provide me your positive vibes.
Also, please suggest ways (techniques) of LOA to attract him towards me.

I am grateful to this forum and all members!
Love to all!

Mariposa, (KnJ) · « **Reply #1 on:** December 23, 2011, 10:16:17 PM »

Instead of "wanting" your desire....which only brings more "wanting"......you must "be" your desire.

Find the thread about "being your desire".......it will help you.

Also, go back and read the entire thread about getting your ex back.

Oh and that distraction (other woman) think of her as a speck of dust.....she is nothing, you just blow her away. Don't even acknowledge her existence......she is nothing, she is not even there. You must NOT give her ANY energy at all...NONE!!

If your thoughts become your reality..........then you got this, no problem!!

SAINAM · « **Reply #2 on:** December 23, 2011, 11:07:49 PM »

Thank you so much Mariposa, (KnJ) ..you are right..I will be THE DESIRE now..and I will be more stronger now..
You have very well said..just not to give any ENERGY to other women..I think the more I was thinking of her...more energy was moving to her...and you know, I am getting positivity flowing in me...

I only have to control my thoughts in a proper manner/channel. ...since both of them are together for nearly 10-11 hours in office..so I have to be more strongly attached (emotionally) with my husband...but yes, for sure she is no more in our life and is going away from our life with each passing day! I can visualise her going away..away..away...
Are there any other ways to get more positive and remove negative thoughts.
Love and my gratitude to you all!!

Mariposa, (KnJ) · « **Reply #3 on:** December 23, 2011, 11:14:10 PM »

Don't visualize her going away......NO ENERGY whatsoever. Don't think about her.....SHE DOES NOT EXIST!!

If you believe she does not exist, then there is NO OBSTACLE!

He from this point forward works completely ALONE!!!

Understand?

You got this, you just need to get your head wrapped around it......you are almost 100% there....I can feel it!!!

lise · « **Reply #4 on:** December 24, 2011, 12:44:34 AM »

Sainam, I would visualise your ultimate outcome and what it is you want. Any thoughts about other people should be forgiveness and love. Forgive him, her and yourself.

Shrikanya · « **Reply #5 on:** December 26, 2011, 12:33:21 AM »

My dear friend,

Bring out the beautiful lady and the pretty girl within you. Get some nice and hot dress. You should command a sort of dignity in them. Read some good books. You know the inner world affects the outer world and vice versa. You should feel beautiful when you look at yourself in the mirror. When you feel beautiful, others notice too.

Give your husband a reason that he will feel lucky to be with you. You know, 'To be built to last, you have to be built for change!'

Let us know how it all goes.

Best Regards,
Shrikanya

SAINAM · « **Reply #6 on:** December 26, 2011, 11:13:39 AM »

Thanks Mariposa, (KnJ) ..yes..I used to visualise her going away...
..and this was the energy I was giving her...right...she doesn't exist... can you please elaborate more on , "You got this, you just need to get your head wrapped around it"...your words give me strength..you advised me for 'be your desire' post and its a great post by angel_star...I have read it completely and applying same..I just wish and hope...that someday I will at peace with love and joy for my husband...but as soon as (sometimes) I recall that he was (or is) in love with some other women....my heart starts aching with pain...my mind starts saying that how could he emotionally attached to her so strongly when I was always there for him...anyway...I am peace, I am trust...I am faith..I am love.

SAINAM · « **Reply #7 on:** December 26, 2011, 11:19:40 AM »

Thanks lise, I have forgiven them and myself...and now I want to move forward...now its only about attracting him towards me...to be strongly attached with him..I am trying to reform myself now...but sometimes, my motivation fades away...but then you all there to keep me motivated and keep moving...
Love and thanks o you...
I am peace, I am love, I am trust!

SAINAM · « **Reply #8 on:** December 30, 2011, 07:02:02 PM »

I am trying gratitude technique and also affirmations. I normally do my gratitude session morning and at night before sleeping. Have also started using Subliminal Blaster...where I have put statements (like Pradeep and I are bonded strongly).
Still, sometimes some negative thoughts come in my mind and I just say cancel (as was suggested by a friend in this forum). How to get rid of all negative thoughts...need some quick tips (on how to use EFT), because I need immediate relief. Today, again some doubts on Pradeep's actions started coming in my mind..but I am holding on to myself with faith.

Can someone advise me, if I desire of the other women to leave current office (where my husband also working)..I desire her to go away and leave this city (she is originally from some other city)...so what should I affirm??

How meditations work?

Thanks and love to you all!

Mariposa, (KnJ) · « **Reply #9 on:** December 31, 2011, 01:59:38 AM »

What happened to no energy toward her whatsoever?

Desiring her and other women to leave the office or city is enforcing your fear of them being there and in turn you will only be the glue that keeps them there.

You need to focus on yourself first of all......you are worthy of the love you deserve above and beyond all else. You may desire your husband back but for your husband to desire you, you must put yourself back on the pedestal and make him take notice that you are your own #1 priority. Care a little less about what he thinks about you and a little more about what you think of yourself.

As far as getting your head wrapped around this.......you need to set your intention, pray on it, believe it.......believe in it fully, without doubt and then let it go.

Have faith in yourself and your bond with this man, he loves you above all others..........you MUST BELIEVE THIS.

Don't worry about anyone else, there isn't anyone else.......only you, YOU ARE HIS ONLY CHOICE!!

If you believe this.........by law it has to become reality!!

The key here is belief.....................YOU MUST 'delete' ALL DOUBTS!!!

Blore · « **Reply #10 on:** December 31, 2011, 02:00:52 AM »

Heres a video for getting rid of fear and worry with EFT.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=heQvpti4uvo

This guy has a lot of great videos, I swear he literally has an EFT video for EVERYTHING.

SAINAM · « **Reply #11 on:** January 04, 2012, 12:32:07 PM »

Freinds, I need all of you today...please shoulder me...Not feeling very well...so much of negativity flowing within me...had a very bad argument with Pradeep yesterday whole night...he kept on blaming me for everything happened and I kept on clarifying things to him..my soul and my spirit knows that I have never had any bad intentions for him or for his family..but there so many misunderstandings he has for me...why I have been victimised..it wasn't me who had any relation outside our marriege..he said that there is nothing left between us...no trust, no faith...there is no connection between us anymore..its only that we have a daughter..so we are living together...ahh God...please show me the path...please hold my hand and take me away...
Sometimes, i feel, why should I attract him and his love..does he deserve me...does he..anymore...attached to me...there are so may questions inside me..just want to go somewhere and find the answers..but he always makes things more complex by saying things which he should not...
I know, this is all so negative am writing here...but truth is am feeling inside me this..I am tired of crying, arguing, complaining..I don't want o do it anymore..I don't want to be victimised...and feel sympathetic. I desire to lead a very positive life, abundant life in evry way..I know, like attracts like...but what to do with this negative feeling.
Pradeep, please understand, I always loved you..you are the only one in my life and I respect you the way I used to..but now I am done with all what you have said..I want to lead a peaceful , loving life with you..where me and you are bonded well..please don't make things complex..

Apple · « **Reply #12 on:** January 04, 2012, 05:45:39 PM »

Today is your day Sainam. Just relax and know that so many people are praying for your desires. You need to detach and focus on just being happy. Let go and have faith. Sending out intentions for a strong and loving relationship with Pradeep!!!

SAINAM · « **Reply #13 on:** January 04, 2012, 06:22:32 PM »

Dear Apple, how are you feeling now..I wish you have a perfect health.
I just wonder, if he has said these words, then is there still anything left betwen us.

I AM PEACE, I AM LIFE, I AM HAPPINESS

Love to you!

Apple · « **Reply #14 on:** January 04, 2012, 06:31:52 PM »

Thank you for asking. I've been feeling pretty good lately

It does not matter what he said to you. You need to ignore what he said. What you focus on is what you will get more of, so if you keep focusing on what he is saying, that is what you will get more of. Remember, anything is possible with LOA.....anything you want. So focus on what you DO want. Affirm that he is very loving towards you and FEEL it like it is happening!!!