Bring out the beautiful lady and the pretty girl within you. Get some nice and hot dress. You should command a sort of dignity in them. Read some good books. You know the inner world affects the outer world and vice versa. You should feel beautiful when you look at yourself in the mirror. When you feel beautiful, others notice too.
Give your husband a reason that he will feel lucky to be with you. You know, 'To be built to last, you have to be built for change!'
Let us know how it all goes.