For all those who are working towards a blissful relationship - Call to action!!

[BELE]

loveofabundance: Your aboundance of kisses would certainly take me into a state of peace and love really fast - if they were irl. 

[bravelioness]

Right now this is where I am:
Depression -I feel that way since as of now,things between me & my beloved aren't getting any better.I hoped,I prayed,& did everything I could but still nothing happened.
Despair -With the thing I wrote above,I'm falling into despair & I'm starting to lose hope but thanks to all of you,I'm still holding on.
 Pessimism-With all these happening & repeating everytime & with what people are saying that it's not meant to be etc,I'm in this stage. Frustration-Yes.I'm getting frustrated since I can't even see a slight improvement in my situation.It is still the same & maybe getting worse.
(To know more about my situation go to the following links:
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/6/latest-update/
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/6/update-page/
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/6/i-don't-know-what-to-think-anymore/
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/6/please-help-me-in-my-situation/)

[BELE]

bravelioness: When you listen to people saying that what you want is not meant to be and take it to heart, than it might be that you are not really sure yourself over what you want. Maybe part of you doesn't for some reason want that which you wish for. Try and ask yourself "If I didn't want this, why would it then be?" and listen inside of you for the answer. You may get up some limiting beliefs that are keeping you from feeling good about what you desire.

Then, it's always wise to keep the door open for other oportunites, which may be even better than those we know to wish for. Therefor, always ad "or something even better" to your afformations. This may also help with obsession and neediness. It doesn't mean that you want something else instead, but only that you assume an attidude of not being need and thus improve your chanses to get what you want.

[sunshinee]

Hello I have a question. The secret states that the first step is asking ( u ask via visualizations) and the next step is to let go and let the universe do its job...well while we are letting go does that mean we have to stop visualizing ?(because it's part of the ASKing process)I am confused..on ,the other hand, they state that we should visualize every day and to make it a habbit but doesn't that mean that you stay stuck on the step1 (which is asking) ?

[judasentinel]

I think we need to understand something about the LoA here. It is not a process or law that you invoke per se. You dont have to do ANYTHING to make it start working. Let me give you an example, sunshinee....

...when you are sitting on a chair, do you feel any pull of the gravity? No you dont. But when you jump from a higher place, you land on the ground and feel that gravity worked on you and attracted you towards the ground. It doesn't mean that gravity was not working when you were sitting on a chair. It simply means that when you went on to jump, you were able to feel its working. In essence, gravity was always working, but you wouldnt feel its effect UNLESS you were in the process of doing something ALONG its flow (for or against, doesnt matter), which is towards the center of the earth. In a similar fashion, LoA is always at work, all the time. Everything is happening based on this law, even gravity (duh!!).

What the three stages of LoA do for you is that they bring you into a mindframe of being CONSCIOUSLY AWARE of its existence and working. When you visualizse, you are simply aligning yourself to be ALONG the flow of yours desires. And there is no need for you to stop visualizing, since that only helps reinforce your beliefs and keep your faith alive. You're not stuck in the first stage, dont worry.

[sunshinee]

Everything's going wrong I dont know why did I receive a sign from the universe that my wish is going to come true while...it all messed up :/ he chatted me today and he started a fight out of nowhere,I did nothing,absolutely nothing he just sait that he needs to be alone and I asked what's wrong what did I do,we were chatting and BAM he said that out oftheblue he said''Leave me alone,I won't answer to nay of your questions'' and I didnt reply back ;( I dont know what's happening but it's the opposite of what I want he said toleave him alone while I wasnt doind anything,he started the chat... I dont  iniciate the contact,is it over

[judasentinel]

If he initiated the contact, then you have the power now. You are very right in not pursuing the chat anymore. Just say quiet. He will come back. My heart tells you he will. And he might even apologize. Remember, it is never over. No relationship ever dies completely.

Just stay away from analyzing this too much. You have the power now. KEEP IT by not contacting him. It will show both respect for his wish and your strength that you are not going to let this bother you. When he comes back and tries to talk to you, tell him that you understand he was in a weird mood and so you left him alone as he wanted. HE WILL COME BACK. Dont you worry.....and it wont be very long.

Blessings........

Munib

[sunshinee]

Thank u very much.My case is a little different,he is not my ex he i s a guy with whom we go out since June everything was perfect but we werent exactly in a relationship but it was going that way when..he started to pull away to call me rarely and acting indifferent,almost every time he initiates the contact,he writes to me on skype,he tells me ''lets hang out'',we hang out 3 days ago and he wasnt behaving very good,he was indifferent..but then I got a sign  i wrote about it it in the SIGNs section and today he skyped me and I was very happy and out of nowhere he said that awful things to me,he used to respect me..and now he talks like I am nothing and i cant beleive it :/ I saw in FB that he is mad at somebody but why shoiul I get all the bad of hos fight with somebody else( may be that girl...grr) I am sorry that i complain somuch it just hurts so much to see him that wat.. as if he doesnt care any more,3 months ago he was inlove with me and now.. how to keep the hope alive