Author Topic: FEELING GOOD AND SPREADING THE LOVE (Read 975 times)

Sayo · « **on:** July 09, 2012, 10:06:20 AM »

Heya people!! I was watching Friends With Benefits the last night and something struck me. No, i"m not promoting the movie or the concept (

), its just that, have you seen how they react to their break-ups? Did you see that almost always, the reasons for a break-ups are the same!! I mean, either you're too uptight or'emotionally unavailable' or you're too clingy, needy and'emotionally damaged'. Fact is, none of us are really that, but a relationship forces us to become jealous (read needy) and all that. :/ And then we go through so much trouble foe SELF IMPROVEMENT and CONTROL which is really just just trying to get OURSELVES. OUR FORMER GLORIOUS CONFIDENT selves back

.
We take so much pressure and headache just trying to be normal!!! So i wanted to start a thread about feeling good. Just generally. Nothing to do with being positive about getting ex back, or believing that he'll come back and blah blah., just be Happy!! Now!!
So go ahead and write down things that make you genuinely different and lovely. That make you, you.

This isnt an exercise of vanity or vain-just recognizing your self-worth and being happy the way you're.
I'll start. I'm a very caring person. I love taking responsibilities and helping out. I'm smart and i study in the best university in the country. I love debating, quizzing, badminton and enjoy being active and running around. Yes, i love him and i want him back but i'm a pretty good catch too.

Free bird · « **Reply #1 on:** July 09, 2012, 05:16:39 PM »

hey, i m sporty, love sports like anything..........i m friendly, make friends quite easily, helpful, caring and most importantly loving too..............and i posses a very strong will, can change my moods in split seconds..........i m positive and fearless, so basically i m wat i m

I Love Rainbows · « **Reply #2 on:** July 09, 2012, 05:19:36 PM »

Hey, beautiful, sexy people...I'd date ya! You both sound adorable!!

I'm sexy, adventurous - and I LOVE RAINBOWS!!! I'm also funny as hell, damn creative...and I have a lovely, LUVERLY bottom. I mean, seriously. I just love my bum!!!!

GREAT THREAD SAYO!!!

Autumn · « **Reply #3 on:** July 09, 2012, 05:34:05 PM »

Great thread Sayo!! Okay here goes -

I'm pretty, smart and study in one of the best universities in the world. I'm understanding, caring and I'm bright and optimistic most of the time. I love cooking for people and enjoy socialising.
My passions are dancing, swimming, biking and music. I think I have a sexy back and strong toned legs, love them!!
Yay me

And you are right, it does take overcoming a twinge of discomfort. I know it isn't vanity, even so...
I love my guy but regardless of all that, I think I'm a great person to be with. *smiles*

lucymable · « **Reply #4 on:** July 09, 2012, 06:51:48 PM »

First of all, love that film!! Nothing like a predictable romcom to lift the spirits!

Second of all, what a lovely idea! So here I go...

I am a funny person, I love to make jokes to make others smile. I'm intelligent and study a respected degree at a brilliant UK university. I'm sexy AND cute, I've got a friendly smile and beautiful brown eyes. I am trustworthy and loyal, and would do anything for a friend or family member in need. I love travelling about Europe, reading and driving with my music turned up loud! I am definitely a girl you can take home to your parents!

Sayo · « **Reply #5 on:** July 09, 2012, 10:58:13 PM »

haha people!! i love all your posts!! I'm honestly sitting and smiling so wide now,anyone staring at me right now would think i'm a lunatic xD Ah, such smart, happy sweet people!! We deserve so much more than sitting and ping away, cheers to y'all

breakstyle · « **Reply #6 on:** July 10, 2012, 08:47:47 PM »

I'm a caring, mature and thoughtful person. I always help out when people need a hand.
I'm loving and optimistic, I'm always grateful and don't take thing for granted.
I have strong mind and will, i'm positive about things.
For me, I believe nothing is impossible.
So yeah, I love her unconditionally and want her back.
However, I'm also attractive to others too.

Very Good Thread.

Lots of Love

Sayo · « **Reply #7 on:** July 10, 2012, 10:49:13 PM »

This is really good!! I think the more specific you get, the more real it sounds and it also lifts your mood higher!! So if anyone wants to add stuff and even others are encouraged to write in, it would fulfill the whole goal of this thread so much more

I just realised, i'm addicted to this site, guess like attracts like

newella · « **Reply #8 on:** July 11, 2012, 01:02:05 AM »

Hey, so here I go:

I'm funny, smart, talented (I can definitely belt a tune). I'm not bad on the eyes, have long legs and I'm charming, with my sharp wit and good timing. I also love with my whole entire heart and am loyal to a fault...I am caring, passionate and vulnerable with my heart. So yeah I deserve love for sure!!!

Thanks that felt good!
XOX

57angel · « **Reply #9 on:** July 12, 2012, 11:43:34 AM »

Sayo, thank you for starting this thread. When we know who we are, then we have more and more reasons to love ourselves more, right?

So here I go: I am smart, fun to be with, so generous, very caring to everyone around me and have that killer smile

I am sexy (though I gained few pounds but I am so confident that I am noticeably sexy in my own very special way!) I am a very loving person, someone who will fight for someone I love

true_love · « **Reply #10 on:** July 12, 2012, 04:05:40 PM »

I am radiating pure love. I am beautiful in every way, my body is natural and flows with life. I am honest, reliable, strong, loving, upbeat. I am passionate in every thing that I do. I welcome happiness into my life at all times. I am kind, generous and giving. I am appreciated and I appreciate all other beings. I am a job, i am a money magnet.

I love myself dearly, accept myself and others. I am intune with my desires and manifestations. My vibration is aligned with my desires. I have everything that I need and want in my life right now. I welcome change and live in the now.

I wish all you beautiful souls happiness.

Sayo · « **Reply #11 on:** July 13, 2012, 12:56:37 PM »

Just thought of updating, instead of starting a whole new thread xD
I was trying Ho'oponopono for the first time the other day. I read that the meditation really calms you and honestly I need to stop being such an emotional bundle! >.< But the first time i tried it, it didnt quite go as planned... see, the atmospheric setting was all very good. it was raining really hard outside and there was thunder and lightning and had a very ''pensive'' mood in general. So i sat down with crossed legs and started. I was very serious and i really wante to stop thinking if my ex had forgotten me. The guy, Alex in the mp3, starts saying 'Breathe in'. i do. Then i breathe out after what seems like an eternity. Then the guy says 'Hold'. HUH!??! was i supposed to hold my breath for that LONG time!?!? Fine, i hold my breath. Then he says, breathe out.-Okay obviously my entire timing was messed up =_=.
I started laughing after that. Midway, I just stop and laugh my lungs out. I go out and stare at the trees and listen to 'Family Tree'on full volume. I felt better. Not because of my failed attempt at meditation. Not because i have no sense of rhythm and timing. But just because I wanted to. Just because I realised what The Joker meant, 'Why so serious?' i will get my breathing right, i'll do it properly ( i do, now, btw , no need to get paranoid about it. Seriously, there's no need to take everything so seriously! let's take things with a pinch of salt and like U2's song, 'Get over it'. The reason i'm posting this is, because, i figured, LETTING GO is the most important thing for any desire to be manifested. Need proof? My ex texted me while i was laughing.